Hello everyone, tonight is a new issue of male observation.
I wonder if you have noticed that after a long relationship has ended for a period of time, boys always come out faster than girls.
A few days ago, she contacted a good friend from college. She and her boyfriend broke up for six years since her freshman year. After the breakup, she has been single. When talking about her ex-boyfriend, I couldn't help but sigh that she was so affectionate.
Less than a year after they broke up, the boy quickly got married and had children. Girls have been single for three or four years, but boys are showing off their children every day.
What two people haven’t done in six years, a boy turned around and followed others in one year, which is really sad.
When talking about the reason for their breakup, the girl said that there was nothing special, there was no bad plot of cheating or parents disagreed, just that the simple passion was exhausted, and when she stepped into society, she found that the two were not suitable, so she separated peacefully.
Later, the boy quickly announced his relationship on his Moments. She was not surprised, but just thought to herself, "It's very fast, but it's normal."
What really made her feel a little sad was that her ex-boyfriend's life began to speed up. She got her marriage certificate after breaking up for more than three months, and she officially announced that her wife was pregnant for more than half a year, and her ex-boyfriend had all had children in about a year.
pushed the timeline forward. She guessed that her ex-boyfriend met her current wife within one month after the breakup, and her subsequent marriage and pregnancy also happened in parallel.
I still can’t accept new people because of my love breakup. My ex-boyfriend can’t wait to enter a new life. I’m afraid that anyone will be sad.
The same is true for other couples I know, especially older couples. After breaking up, the status of men and women can be said to be completely opposite.
html After the age of 325, once a boy breaks up, his life is like pressing the acceleration button, while girls are completely the opposite. At least they have to be single for several years, and life is like a pause.
To a certain extent, the social clock seems to have a greater impact on men, but girls are less obsessed with getting married and having children when they are old.
And the longer the relationship is, the harder it is for girls to get out of nostalgia, but for boys, how long they fall in love does not seem to affect their speed of getting out.
Looking at the emotional experiences of the men around you, they will feel that they have been talking for three months and three years.
As long as a relationship ends, it will be regarded as the past by men. The speed of getting out only depends on personal differences, not on the length of love.
I once asked some male friends how they could be so free and easy. I found that some men's "breakup view" is quite worthy of reference for girls.
A male friend believes that the relationship between breaking up after a long-term relationship is not worth nostalgic for, because after so long, they still break up, which means it is really inappropriate.
When talking about missing your ex after breaking up, some people said "Is it useful to miss it? It is much more useful to find happiness as soon as possible than to miss it."
These words sounded a little bad at the time, but when I calmed down and looked at it, I think it was reasonable.
Girls are always emotionally oriented, trapping themselves in the past, and always being single because they resist all possibilities in the future from the bottom of their hearts. Boys are more rational, thinking that there is no need to be nostalgic for relationships that have broken up, so they turn their attention to the future.
In fact, men and women are not wrong, they just have different concepts about breaking up and pursuing happiness.
Let’s say that, although living in the past will only make you suffer, it is indeed a very personal matter to turn the article after breaking up. Whether a relationship is sincere or not should not be measured entirely by the time you come out.
I wonder if you have ever met someone who turned the light speed after breaking up? Let’s talk about your examples or your surroundings, and your opinions on this behavior~
head image / Aaren
illustration / "I chose not to get married"
"Tonight's time-monger at 22:22"
