Nana is a girl who works in a big city. She is 34 years old and unmarried.
Last time during the Chinese New Year, I returned to my hometown.
Before that, she hadn't been back for three years.
She arrived at home at noon on New Year’s Eve and started arguing with her family before dinner.
She didn't eat the New Year's Eve dinner. After blacklisting her family, she stayed in , for two nights, and then bought a ticket and returned to the city where she worked.
This is all the memories of her New Year.
Why quarrel with your family?
mentioned age just now, I believe everyone has guessed it.
was urged by his family to get married, and I was annoyed all of a sudden.
The thing is like this:
When you arrived at your parents' home, you just put down your things and sat on the sofa. When you became a father, you said:
After the third year of junior high school, there will be several blind dates, so you can see you.
"If there is not enough time, please take a few more days off." Before
came back, he never agreed to such a thing!
Nana immediately refused, saying that she did not plan to go on a blind date, and she could not ask for leave casually! Work is just one carrot and one pit, not a play.
But the mother said, "You kid...what is the most important thing about work?! How old are you now? For you, there is nothing more important than getting married!"
After a few more arguments, the father became more and more angry.
"You are all granddaughter and grandson running around, you can't even find a partner! Your parents will arrange a blind date for you but you won't go!"
"Then don't go to grandpa's place for dinner! I can't afford to lose this person!"
"If you don't go, don't go, then I'll leave now, okay?"
This is the process of the matter.
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Parents always say, "How old are you, why don't you hurry up? When I was in my thirties, I had you long ago!"
But times have changed.
Indeed, at that time, there were probably a very small number of people who did not get married at the age of 25 or 26.
But now it is 2022, completely different from forty or fifty years ago.
First of all, for college students, they have just walked out of campus in their twenties, let alone graduate students or above.
In short, everyone is in the early stages of development, so how can they find a marriage partner every day?
Besides, where is the pressure of life now less than that at that time?
We don’t have a strong job now! And please read what is going on in society in 2022. Many parents don’t understand at all!
always feels like young people are worried about nothing.
Now you can find a safe place to work, and it would be great if you can support yourself. Who would dare to think about raising your offspring!
It is recommended that parents should not always make their children understand their desire to hold their grandchildren, and also take the initiative to understand their children’s difficulties!
This is also for your own good.
After all, there are very few people who are really determined not to consider getting married or having children now.
is mostly subject to great survival and psychological pressure.
If parents can solve their problems in some way, it will definitely be much better than speaking empty words or scolding them.
The children can’t find their partner to get married, so they go and introduce her to a blind date without authorization?
This is "a headache, a headache, a headache, a foot, a foot, a foot, a foot," in addition to inciting conflicts with children, it will also make things more difficult to handle.
【Discussion】
If you are being urged to get married, will you communicate with your parents about your situation?
Why are you unwilling to consider getting married?
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