Nature has shaped women and men. In fact, it is not limited to the distinction between two genders. There are still many differences in many aspects between women and men. In order to achieve equality between men and women, yin and yang balance, especially between husband and wife, we must understand each other and understand each other in order to resolve conflicts and reconcile emotions. It can be seen that to truly achieve love and deep feelings between husband and wife, we must first understand each other. What are the three "needs" of men that women must understand?
Normal physical needs. The ancients said: "Eating, eating, drinking, drinking, and love between men and women are the most basic desires, pursuits and nature of human beings, and the actual situation of life is indeed the case. It can be seen that sex between men and women, just like human diet, is a human instinctive need. As men, especially those with strong and energetic bodies, sex should be a normal physical and physical need.
So, as a woman and a wife, you must understand this. When it comes to sex, men are mostly proactive and urgently need to be satisfied, while women are often passive or even negative, and sometimes they are not willing to cooperate. In fact, this is a very harmful thing for men, especially the practice of wives deliberately punishing their husbands by refusing to have sex, which often causes great emotional harm to their husbands.
is respected and appreciated. Influenced by traditional historical and cultural traditions, the self-esteem hidden deep in men's hearts is still relatively strong. They often regard themselves as "a manly man" or use the "upright" heroic model to demand themselves, and they especially hope that they can get enough respect from others, but they are particularly afraid of being looked down upon by others, and even look down on themselves, saying that they are unprosperous and incompetent, etc.
For this reason, as a woman, especially as a wife, you must know how to respect and appreciate your husband to meet this psychological need as a man. Of course, the so-called respect is mutual equality, and husband and wife should respect each other, and appreciation means trying to encourage and praise the achievements and highlights made by men, fully affirming them, and giving them a certain degree of confidence and strength to meet their self-esteem psychological needs.
is the need to be cared for and accompany. Human nature is originally two-sided, and as a man, of course there is no exception. From the perspective of appearance, most men should be stronger than women, but in their inner world, many men who look very strong will have a fragile side of their hearts. Therefore, sometimes men, like women, need care and company.
People often say that many men's words and deeds are like big boys who have not grown up and need "training and guidance" from women. In fact, this is only a very small number of men. Most men, in addition to showing the external strength and firmness of the world, will have an inner weakness or warm side. Therefore, whenever a man encounters great setbacks and difficulties, he urgently needs the care, considerate and warm company of women.
As a woman and a wife, you can deeply understand the needs of men and husbands. Just like a man knows a woman, it is all for the purpose of comprehensive understanding of each other, so as to achieve the purpose of respecting and understanding each other, helping each other, enhancing feelings, loving husband and wife, and having a happy life. What do you think?
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