The first one is to say that if you are a phoenix, but you are a swan, but you are a wild duck. Those unique advantages of you cannot see by people around you, so they are useless to them. Decades ago, some children of particularly high-level intellectuals married into the countryside. This was completely like a phoenix entering a chicken coop, on some aspects.
But farmers will say, "Oh, our daughter-in-law is so great. She can understand " Book of Songs ", she can understand "Chu Ci". Our daughter-in-law has some research on oracle bone , which is great." Will he think so? No! I feel that girls in this city can’t carry water when they are daughters-in-law, they can’t carry water. They are too delicate, they can’t cook, and they can’t cook firewood. Then the body is too weak and it is not possible to work in the fields, and it may not be able to give birth. In this environment, those characteristics that might have been superior are useless in this environment. So what are the possible consequences in this case? It is the so-called burning of the piano and cooking cranes, which means that he can only get this environment, see where it can be used, just use it. As for the piano, it can be burned as firewood at least.
To be honest, think about it, if you are an guqin , burned as firewood, it can't help but burn, right? The guqin may be sycamore wood . The sycamore wood is too light and thin, and it will disappear after burning for a while. There are definitely no pine trees or cypress trees that are so good to burn. crane is very beautiful, and you are very beautiful as an ornamental animal. If you stew it in an iron pot, it is not as delicious as big goose because its meat is too thin and too timber.
so, if you are a phoenix tail yourself, you have to run to be a chicken head, probably you have no chance at all, your biggest possibility is to become a chicken butt. Is this wronged these phoenix tails wronged? Did you wrongly accuse these little swans?
is actually not unfair, because chickens originally have a living environment for chickens and a lifestyle they need. Then, in this circle, the one who is a chicken head should of course be the most outstanding in the chicken method, right? Only the head in a chicken can be the head of a chicken. You are not the head in a chicken. You have to go and be someone else's head, why?
Just because you are a phoenix, just because phoenix is a little more advanced than a chicken. There is no such reason, right? So in general, In what environment should a person live in? There is a very simple psychological principle, which is to see where you are suitable for and what you are. If you are a swan, you will be with the swan; if you are a wild duck, you will be with the wild duck; if you are a phoenix, you will be on , sycamore tree, you will be with your companion; if you are a chicken, you will be with the chicken. Try not to live in an environment that is not suitable for you, you! What you should be, you will become.
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