What is the standard for defining a happy marriage in everyone’s eyes?
Some people say that in a loving family it is happiness, having a husband who tolerate his wife everywhere is happiness, and having a wife who can be gentle and considerate to her husband is also happiness.
There are many kinds of happiness, but I think the happiest marriage is that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well and the couple is loving, which is enough to illustrate the importance of a good mother-in-law in marriage.
Recently, a woman in Guizhou shared her mother-in-law's daily life on a social platform. The woman was taking a nap with her husband, but suddenly she was shocked by the sound at the door. After getting up to check, the woman was furious, and she felt a little dissatisfied with her husband.
It is reported that the woman and her husband had a good relationship after they got married, and they didn’t get along well with their mother-in-law, but they never blushed and they have always lived in peace.
Some of the mother-in-law's minor problems often make women very disgusted. She wants to have an attack and is worried that her husband will be in a dilemma, so she endured it again and again.
On this day, the woman and her husband were taking a nap at home. Suddenly, an abnormal sound came from the door of the room, which scared the woman and her husband. At this time, the woman knew very well that it must be the mother-in-law making a sound at the door again.
So the woman took out her cell phone and recorded the next scene. The woman asked her husband to go to the door of the room to take a look, and told her that it was her mother-in-law who was eavesdropping at the door.
My husband was a little disbelief at first when he heard this, but there was indeed a sound at the door of the room, so he got up and opened the door.
What my husband didn't expect was that after the door of the room opened, he saw his mother-in-law standing at the door and rushing towards the door with her body sideways, obviously in a posture of listening to the movements in the room.
My husband asked his mother what she was standing at the door, but her mother didn't say anything. Her first reaction was to turn around and look at her son with her back, as if she said that if I turned my back, I could eliminate all questions I didn't want to answer.
The mother-in-law turned around was carrying a child behind her back. It looked like she had only been about a week. The child was lying quietly on her mother-in-law's back without crying or making a fuss.
When the mother-in-law saw that her son and daughter-in-law discovered her existence, she shook her awkwardly at the door of the room for a few times, and then left with the child on her back.
The woman who recorded this scene can be imagined at this moment. Not to mention a woman, I am afraid that anyone who likes to eavesdrop on her mother-in-law will be angry, not to mention that she has to be careful of her mother-in-law eavesdropping in her own room. Thinking about it, this life is tiring enough.
And according to the woman's complaint, the mother-in-law is not just eavesdropping this time. When the woman is in love with her husband, the mother-in-law often runs to the door of the room to eavesdrop. As for what kind of sound the mother-in-law wants to hear, we don't know.
A netizen also told his weird mother-in-law after seeing it. The netizen's mother-in-law would use the key to open the door of her son and daughter-in-law's room in the middle of the night, and then stand at the head of the bed and watch the two sleep for two hours.
Some netizens are more rational in their viewing of things. When they see their mother-in-law carrying the child, they will think that the mother-in-law is too tired to see the child, so they go to the door of the room to listen to whether the two are awake. If they wake up, the mother-in-law can rest for a while.
However, netizens' speculation seems unreasonable. If the mother-in-law is tired and wants to rest, she can shout her son and daughter-in-law, and she has already had the habit of eavesdropping when they are in love, obviously because of curiosity, not for the sake of the children.
It is extremely rare to have a good mother-in-law who is reasonable and it is even more rare to have a mother-in-law who knows how to not mix with the marriage of her son and daughter-in-law. Like the mother-in-law in the article, she likes to go to the door of a young man’s room to eavesdrop on her room for nothing. I believe no one can accept it.
A healthy and beautiful marriage must make people feel comfortable, not because of this matter today and tomorrow because of that matter.
So self-consciousness is a person's greatest virtue and a basic principle that people don't hate. As for whether a relationship can be closer, it depends on how you deal with people and things in daily life.
What are your different opinions on this?
