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① I feel miserable, my father is unreliable, and my 35-year-old Lu Bin is an employee of a state-owned enterprise in Beijing. He has a house and a car. He is a rich man in the eyes of many Beijing drifters. However, the reason why he was able to gain a foothold in Greater Beijing was entirely due to his mother's escape.
Lu Bin's mother Qian Lihua was once a middle school teacher in Northeast China. She was beautiful and kept her home in an orderly manner. My father, Lu Yongqiang, is a worker in the steel factory. He is a typical big and rude man. He has to make a glass of wine every night and sing a few and sing after drinking. He has a high voice and is often complained by neighbors. Lu Bin thought life would go on like this, but with Lu Yongqiang losing his job, everything changed. Qian Lihua asked someone to find him several jobs, but he made all the bad things. Later, he became bored and shouted at Qian Lihua, "Don't find me the job of working for others in the future! It's a loss!" Qian Lihua no longer "messed in other people's business" and silently shouldered the burden of life alone.
After Lu Yongqiang was idle, he became even more addicted to alcohol, from one meal a day to three meals a day. One day, when Qian Lihua led her son home from school, Lu Yongqiang was arguing with his neighbor Grandma Zhang at the door. Qian Lihua rushed over and apologized without guessing that it was Lu Yongqiang who disturbed the people again. Just as Qian Lihua kept saying "I'm sorry", she was dragged into the house by Lu Yongqiang on the collar. Lu Bin was so scared that he kept smashing the door and calling him mother. By the time the neighbors smashed the door, Qian Lihua had already been covered in color, and several parts of her arms were stuck in glass, and she was in a mess. The kind neighbor wanted to call the police, but was stopped by Qian Lihua. Lu Yongqiang, however, looked regretful and shook his hand into the bedroom. Grandma Zhang helped Lu Bin and Qian Lihua home, and applied medicine to Qian Lihua in tears, saying that it was all the fault of herself and that she was suffering.
On the night, Lu Bin shivered in his mother's arms and shivered. Qian Lihua coaxed Lu Bin and said, "Your father is bored if he loses his job. He will get better when he finds a job in the future." However, Lu Yongqiang did not get better as his wife expected. On the contrary, he was even more violent in domestic violence.
Not only that, Lu Yongqiang also discovered various industries that could "get rich overnight". After squatting in the securities trading hall for a week, he took away all the money from his family. A few months later, the stock was trapped in the waist. Qian Lihua advised him: "If you pay, you will pay it. Just pretend that the money has not been saved."
Lu Yongqiang didn't like to listen. He threw the bottle of wine and cursed, "You believe from the heart that I don't have a fortune, so my fortune has always been bad." Qian Lihua didn't want to be discussed by the neighbors again, and shed tears and didn't say anything. Lu Yongqiang pulled her up and called her: "Cry for a while, I will cry for a day! You are so depressed, can your man be well? Give me a smile! Will you laugh?!" At that time, Lu Bin was already 10 years old. In addition to being afraid, he wanted to protect his mother.
Lu Bin bit his father's arm hard. Lu Yongqiang finally stopped waving his hand to his wife and turned to his son. The little Lu Bin was pressed by his father in the corner, and his dense fists fell on him. Qian Lihua knelt on the ground and hugged her husband's legs, bringing her anger back to her again.
At that time, Lu Bin didn't understand what divorce was, but begged his mother to take him out of this house and leave the devil father who punched and kicked them... Qian Lihua's eyes were red, and she did not answer her son's words, and she said to herself in a very small voice: "It's just such a big place, where can we hide? What's more, if he goes to school for trouble, how can I go to work? How can you go to school?"
In a blink of an eye, Lu Bin ended up in high school. There is a student dormitory in high school, so he decisively chose to live in the school. At this time, Lu Bin was almost 1.80 meters tall, and it was already very difficult for his father to swing his fist on his son. But Lu Bin couldn't feel at ease with his mother and advised her to end the marriage as soon as possible. With the encouragement of her son, Qian Lihua finally filed for divorce from her husband. But Lu Yongqiang disagreed, saying that as long as he did not die, he would pester her for the rest of his life. Qian Lihua thought of prosecution, but the law could sentence her to a divorce letter, but it could not bring this man out of her life.
In order to escape from her devil husband, Qian Lihua resigned. After settling down her son, she went to Beijing without saying goodbye. Lu Yongqiang had looked for his son several times, but Lu Bin did not give him any information about his mother.After a few troubles, Lu Yongqiang had no choice but to say to Lu Bin hatefully: "You are my son and she is my wife, this is a fact that cannot be changed." After that, he was able to make trouble even more, mortgaged the old house and didn't even have a nest.
When Qian Lihua was in school, her business was very outstanding and she has always been a subject leader. After arriving in Beijing, she found a tutoring job based on her own qualifications, and since then she was unstoppable. The students and parents passed on their mouth, introducing each other, and the class hours were full from morning to night every day. During the winter vacation, Lu Bin went to Beijing to reunite with his mother and was surprised to find that his mother had changed. She put on light makeup and was in a very good spirit. Lu Bin was happy for her from the bottom of her heart.
② is rooted in Beijing, and the harassment of the scumbag father is difficult to block
In 2004, Lu Bin was admitted to a university in Beijing. Qian Lihua was very happy and actively prepared for their settlement in Beijing. At that time, the housing prices in Beijing were not very expensive. Qian Lihua worked hard to make money and bought three small houses on a mortgage outside the Fifth Ring Road in a few years. During this period, Qian Lihua also contacted Lu Yongqiang and filed a divorce request again. But Lu Yongqiang still disagreed. Even though he was in a de facto state of separation, he delayed the procedures. Not only that, he also went to college to find Lu Bin several times, from being arrogant to crying for poverty, which made Lu Bin uneasy. Qian Lihua was afraid that her husband would make things difficult for her son, so she gave him a few sums of money. Lu Yongqiang also happily returned to the Northeast as Qian Lihua expected.
In 2018, Lu Bin married his girlfriend Zhang Ting, who had been in love for two years. At that time, housing prices in Beijing had already surged. Of course, the three small houses Qian Lihua invested in outside the Fifth Ring Road have also increased a lot. In order for Lu Bin to get married, she sold one of the houses and paid for the down payment of her son's wedding house. From then on, Lu Bin officially took root in Beijing. Qian Lihua, who is almost 60 years old, is not as good as before and has retired.
Lu Yongqiang also knew about Lu Bin getting married and buying a house in Beijing. After Lu Bin got married, he would occasionally come to his son's house to live for a while. Perhaps because of the beauty of distance, Lu Bin's hatred for his father gradually faded a lot. Lu Yongqiang's irritable personality is a little restrained than when he was young, but he is still addicted to alcohol. Zhang Ting hates Lu Yongqiang's daily alcoholism, so she doesn't pay much attention to him.
One day, Lu Bin and his wife were watching TV in the living room and happened to talk about having a child. Zhang Ting had congenital hypertension. The doctor said that the probability of developing pregnancy hypertension during pregnancy is very high, so there are certain risks in having a child. Lu Bin immediately stated that he could accept DINK .
At this moment, Lu Yongqiang rushed out of the bedroom and shouted at Zhang Ting: "You can't have a child, why are you getting married?"
Zhang Ting was not mentally prepared for the flying scolding and retorted a few words. Unexpectedly, Lu Yongqiang was furious and went over and slapped Zhang Ting twice. Lu Bin was so scared that he quickly picked up Lu Yongqiang from behind, afraid that he would hurt Zhang Ting again. Zhang Ting couldn't stand this situation and she completely broke up with her father-in-law from then on.
However, after Lu Yongqiang was fooled by someone to fail to invest in foreign exchange, he ran to Beijing again. This time, he took the initiative to file for divorce. Qian Lihua was very happy and felt that she could get rid of him completely. But she didn't expect that Lu Yongqiang's divorce request was to have a house! Qian Lihua naturally disagreed, and Lu Yongqiang's fist swung again. When Lu Bin and Zhang Ting arrived at the hospital, Qian Lihua was bruised and her face was covered in tears. Zhang Ting filed a lawsuit, allowing the law to sanction Lu Yongqiang. Qian Lihua looked at her son, but Lu Bin was silent. Qian Lihua saw her son's embarrassment and patted Zhang Ting's hand and said, "Spend money to buy my freedom for the rest of my life, I accept it." Soon, Lu Yongqiang got the house as he wished, and immediately sold it to the northeast to get the money. Lu Bin thought this was the final ending, but he miscalculated again...
In 2020, Zhang Ting became pregnant unexpectedly. She touched her stomach and said, "Since it's fate, I'm willing to let go."
In March 2021, Zhang Ting went through a lot of hardships and gave birth to a daughter. The mother-in-law also came from her hometown in Shanxi to take care of her daughter.
However, half a month later, Lu Bin received a call from his uncle. The uncle told Lu Bin that Lu Yongqiang had a cerebral thrombosis and now hemiplegia and has no money to pay medical expenses. Grandpa and grandma are already in their 80s and cannot take care of him.What the whole family meant was to ask Lu Bin to pick him up. Lu Bin held it in for several days and didn't dare to tell Zhang Ting. Just when he was in a dilemma, grandpa called and scolded Lu Bin, and Zhang Ting knew everything.
In the next few days, grandpa, uncle, uncle and aunt took turns to bomb Lu Bin, accusing him of not supporting the elderly and being unfilial. "Where can you be without him? He is old. You are his son. Who cares about him? Even if you go to court, you can't escape." "Where have you studied? You have a house and a car in Beijing, and throw your dad to your 80-year-old grandfather. Are you still a human being?"
Lu Bin felt his ears filled with lead. He also thought about taking Lu Yongqiang over and sending him to a nursing home or asking for care. But after inquiring, I learned that the cost of caring for paralyzed patients is not a decimal, and even living in a nursing home is much more expensive than those with mobility. Although Lu Bin lives in Beijing, he doesn't earn much, and he still has a mortgage payment every month. Now he has a child again, and his life is already in short supply and he can't afford the money at all. Moreover, Lu Yongqiang insisted that he would either live with his son or Qian Lihua in the second half of his life. If he couldn't achieve it, he would ask his uncle to send him to the door of Lu Bin's company to let all his colleagues know about his son's ugliness. In desperation, Lu Bin had to tentatively ask Zhang Ting to take her father over. Sure enough, Zhang Ting was furious when she heard this, and her mother-in-law also gave Lu Bin an ultimatum. If Lu Yongqiang came to her house, she would let her daughter get divorced!
③Maternal love fulfilled, and her son's guilt that he couldn't get over it
The next day, Lu Bin came to Qian Lihua's house but met a man. Qian Lihua, who didn't know the purpose of her son, introduced to Lu Bin with a shy face: "This is your Uncle Wang, a teacher at the Senior Citizens University." The man looked kind and smiled. It turns out that my mother has a second spring. Looking at the shyness and happiness on Qian Lihua's face, Lu Bin didn't know how to speak up and went home in shame. However, when he arrived home, his mother-in-law had already taken Zhang Ting back to Shanxi and left a note. If the matter was not resolved, the mother and the mother would not come back. Lu Bin knelt on the ground and cried loudly, feeling unprecedentedly helpless.
The wife has not yet been out of confinement, and her daughter is not yet fully termed, so she has been working hard to return to Shanxi. The mother has been withered for half her life and finally opened her heart to accept other men. Could she destroy her old age? On the other hand, the family members collectively besieged themselves, saying "unfilial son" one by one, even though she has all kinds of reasons, she cannot return this blood to them... Lu Bin knelt in front of the window on the 21st floor, really wanted to jump out of this unsolvable problem. At this time, Qian Lihua called and she saw her son's abnormality during the day and thought that her son opposed her remarriage, so after Uncle Wang left, she called her to ask for her opinion. Lu Bin cried in pain, Qian Lihua knew that she was not good, so she rushed to her son's house that night.
After Qian Lihua learned the truth, she was very angry and called Lu Yongqiang. Lu Yongqiang was very arrogant and kept asking them when they would pick him up to Beijing. Qian Lihua roared with red eyes: "How did you let Lu Bin go? He is your son! Do you want to drag him to death?"
Lu Yongqiang sneered over there: "You know he is my son? Then who will raise me if he doesn't raise me? Yes, you can raise me! Don't worry about not caring about me, let alone send me to a nursing home. When I'm old, I'm going to be with my wife and son!" He hung up the phone, leaving Lu Bin and Qian Lihua to sleep all night in the helpless night. Qian Lihua, Lu Yongqiang's scoundrel nature, knows the best. He can definitely do things to surround his son's company downstairs. His son's career is just starting, and he has to pay back his loan and support his family. He can't afford to quit his job or stand up to trouble. After so many years, everything seems to have returned to the starting point.
days gradually brightened, Lu Bin looked at Qian Lihua with swollen eyes, as if she had grown older overnight. "Come and live with me." Qian Lihua's voice was extremely low, but Lu Bin felt it was extremely harsh. He shook his head desperately to express his objection. Qian Lihua sighed lightly and said, "There is no better way. Nursing homes are too expensive, and he doesn't agree. Even if we force them to send them, he will make trouble." Lu Bin lowered his head and did not dare to look at his mother. The cruelty of reality once again forced them into a dead end and had no choice.Afterwards, Qian Lihua contacted Uncle Wang and expressed her pain that she could not let her son suffer the pain of being criticized by thousands of people and separation of his wife and children, and she could only give up her freedom in her later years. Uncle Wang was silent. After a long time, he sent Qian Lihua a WeChat message: "If we go back ten years, if we have many ten years to wait, then I will definitely wait for you. But I am almost seventy years old, and I am afraid that I won't be able to wait for you to be free... I understand you, and it's not your fault. If you need help in the future, call me at any time." Qian Lihua held her cell phone without saying a word. In the end, Qian Lihua not only picked up Lu Yongqiang, but also called her in-laws to reassure them that she would solve everything.
A few days later, Zhang Ting took her child back to Lu Bin, and life returned to peace. However, whenever Lu Bin saw his wife and daughter smiling happily, he would think of the scene where his mother was not far away to bring her shit and urine to her father, and felt as uncomfortable as if millions of ants were gnawing. Zhang Ting was already very close to Qian Lihua. After this incident, she was even more grateful to her mother-in-law. Every weekend, she took the initiative to drive to visit Qian Lihua. Although Lu Yongqiang ignored Zhang Ting, he loved his granddaughter very much. He would call Qian Lihua to bring toys for the child, and then let him get food for the child. Qian Lihua didn't talk to him, but did everything in order to reduce "noise". Every time Lu Bin sees his mother busy, he feels indescribable sadness. But Qian Lihua said that whenever she saw her son and his family live happily, she felt it was worth it.
In order to make Qian Lihua's painful life brighter, Zhang Ting signed her up for Guzheng html class 5 and specially customized a dress of Hanfu. Zhang Ting said that Qian Lihua's elegance is most suitable for the Guzheng. Qian Lihua burst into tears and kept saying that she had no time, so don’t spend this money. Zhang Ting said, "Mom, this class is all on weekends. Lu Bin and I will come to you for the class on weekends. You can take advantage of this time to be yourself." Qian Lihua cried with joy, but light burst out from her eyes. Life is so salty and unpretentious. Many nights that are dreaming back in the middle of the night, Lu Bin's heart will wake up from guilt. He doesn't know whether the rogue father is a devil or he is a devil. He traps his mother in this purgatory and cannot be reborn...
