People are destined to live for themselves. Don’t care too much about other people’s feelings and opinions in everything, after all, you live for yourself.
Your own life experience. Only you can understand the taste. Others cannot empathize with it. As for whether you are lonely or ordinary, you must live out your own characteristics, accompany you with joy, go further and better.
01. Your own life experience, you don’t need to care about others
Yu Hua "Living": "Life belongs to everyone's own feelings, not to any other's opinions."
In fact, I am quite pessimistic, especially when dealing with life, advocating ordinary and simple, but not thorough. There are always some things that make me confused, worried about gains and losses, and I feel a little twisted, and I also have some uneven wrinkles in my heart.
Sometimes I think about it, so why bother? Isn’t it good for a person to live a lifetime, be kind to himself, feel life with his heart, and enjoy life with his life.
I fell into silence. yes! Feel your own life and don’t be influenced by the outside world. You know the warmth and coldness and warmth, and no one can feel it for you.
No matter how hard or difficult the road ahead is in life, as long as you don’t give up, don’t care about other people’s sunshine, walk your own path, no matter whether the road is bumpy, difficult or dangerous, fearless is also happiness.
Life is sea of sea, life is full of unpredictable things, some encounters are also missed, some missed, and some missed, and also encounters. Life is never perfect.
As long as you don’t do things that make you feel resentful or regretful, it is worth feeling.
If you are not sure how to live, then calm down and feel it, eliminate all external interference, and move with your heart, just follow your feelings.
Life, no matter how you choose, you can only feel this process by yourself. It is a waste of time and life, but you have to feel it. In the end, it is like a dream and the end is not perfect.
This is life. Every age has troubles and the beauty of his own life. Everyone is the same, without exception.
02. Feel life, have a peaceful mind, save your sorrow and joy, be open-minded
Fu Seoul : "Growing up means that you will eventually discover that everyone in the world has it. When you can face them openly, have the power to control anger, and no longer want to forcefully change anyone, it will be your own new life. Take good care of yourself, but do good things, and don't save others."
In life, you can encounter anything. Stay calm and quiet, and control anger is a new life. The best happiness lies in the quietness and peace of life.
Life has always come out of vicissitudes and becomes simple and clean through the hardships of time. That clear and quiet feeling is like a scroll of time. The understanding of quietness is the blank space on the canvas, without illumination, it is a kind of beauty in itself.
The style of life's joyful joy does not need to be deliberately written. Just smile calmly and use your original pure beauty to harmonize the beauty of life, with a happy charm and moisturize the soul.
Time flies. Don’t change anyone, don’t save others. You can do your best in the pastoral world. Do your best, but do good things and don’t ask about your future.
In the cycle of years, the traces of life passing by are all experiences, but I hope that when I pass by, the traces left behind can clearly see the faint waves of water that are not stirring, rippling, and there is also the beauty of falling in the mist and rain, and the tenderness of lowering eyebrows.
03. Feel life and know what is true loneliness
Ask yourself thousands of times, what is loneliness feeling?
Wang Zengqi said: "Boredness is the desire for desire, and my loneliness is the loneliness of knowing you.
Long Yingtai said: "Although one person is lonely, two people are silently facing each other under the lamp, they can be even more lonely. "
Liu Liangcheng said: "My loneliness is not in the wilderness, but in the crowd. ”
When the years have been wrinkled on our foreheads, that loneliness has been engraved in our hearts.
If someone can make you feel lonely, and you have already failed in front of him, the feeling of loneliness is with soft despair.
In fact, loneliness has nothing to do with pain and has nothing to do with sadness.It can make people calm and humble, let you return to your heart and see your true self.
, only lonely people will understand that what is important is not that you choose loneliness, but that loneliness has not abandoned you, and you should feel lucky.
04. Feel life without worrying or fearing, and you will see different scenery
Murakami Haruki "1Q84": "Don't be too entangled in the present, nor too worried about the future. When you have experienced some things, the scenery in front of you is different from before."
Time has changed, things have changed, and even some things are unforgettable, and they have forgotten them within a few years. Whether it is the present or the future, changes are always with us.
I think life is conservative, it just fluctuates within a certain range and changes within your own tolerance, so that it seems absurd and real.
struggles in the world and goes far in hope. The starting point of all this is that truth - everything will pass.
We are all willing to work hard for the beauty of life, working hard and adapting to the perfection of life, and wanting to put a complete end to what we do, but things always go against our wishes, leaving a little change and regret.
However, plans always cannot keep up with changes. Most people go around in circles, but in the end many things end in failure. We just lament that life is impermanent and follows nature.
Perhaps, the world without change is terrible. There is no regret, there is no aging, no time, no past, and no vicissitudes of time. That is really terrible.
So, we must be glad to live in this changing world, let the present become the past, let the present move towards the future, have different scenery every day, and have life through the four seasons and see different scenery in life.
The same is true for life. If a person cannot update himself, he can only be confused in the old and the repetition.
For example, if the clothes are worn, you need to change to a new one, and the house is old, you need to renovate it. The same is true for
people. Only by accepting changes and constantly updating themselves can they always grow, move towards the future, and mature.
When you reach a certain age, you will know that your life belongs to you. Do what you should do, walk the path you should go, enjoy what you should enjoy, understand what you should understand, and your life is full of your own opinions and ideas.
can adapt to life, grasp the rhythm of your life, enjoy the joy of your life, live every day well. This is the best interpretation of life and the best attitude you have in life.
