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Women all yearn for a beautiful love, and can meet the right person in the right time, not a step earlier or later, as the golden wind and jade dew meet, it is better than countless people in the world.
However, many women long for love, but always pass by love.
The reason is not that they are not excellent enough, but that they have some deviations in their attitudes towards love and life.
In fact, a woman’s life should be a process of constantly subtraction. She will throw away a lot of unnecessary burdens while getting older. She will move forward lightly for the rest of her life and walk with ease. Only those who are rejuvenated will be rejuvenated, and naturally the luck of love will come.
When will your love luck come? Whether it is good or bad love will depend on yourself.
On the road of life, only with giving will you gain. No one will be smooth sailing and only walk on the path of flowers. They will always encounter setbacks and encounter unhappy things, but this cannot change the tone of our life.
Don’t always indulge in the pain of the past. You must face the future bravely, so that the road of life will be broader.
Take away the emotional injury, throw away the inferiority, throw away the self-giving self-giving, and give up on yourself, and your love luck will get better and better.
Check out the ways of the three women, and hope you can learn some ways to deal with feelings.
Wu Yanlin, 26 years old, university administrator: throw away the past and welcome a new future.
My previous relationship had a great impact on me, which led to me not daring to start over and being in a state of repeatedly torture myself.
That was my first love. From high school to college graduation, my youth has his footprints. I think this is also the reason why I have always been upset.
The first time I fell in love, women are particularly prone to falling in love, wanting to give everything they have the best to each other, and then without reservation.
At that time, I never thought that the man I trust the most would betray him, and he was still so heartless.
When he was about to graduate from college, he had a little conflict with his boyfriend, so he asked to break up with me.
When he heard the two words of breakup, he was confused, and then he quickly went to save and apologize, but he was still very decisive.
After the breakup, I kept reflecting on myself, was it because I was too pretentious and my boyfriend couldn't stand it, and kept looking for the reasons on myself.
Later, a friend told me that his new girlfriend posted a news about the first anniversary of her together, and we had not broken up at that time.
When I heard the news of this song, my first reaction was that I couldn’t believe it. How could he betray me?
When I started to slowly accept this fact, my heart was broken and I lost my most basic sense of trust in people.
After this failed relationship, I couldn't get out of it, trapped myself in the past, and was not interested in other men's kindness.
But this behavior is very incorrect. It is not me who did the wrong thing. He should not be punished by his retribution, nor should he be "being bitten by a snake for ten years, and he is afraid of the rope for ten years." It is time to get out and there is a possibility of happiness.
Wang Ziru, 34 years old, math teacher: throw away the inferiority complex, you are really excellent.
I have always had a little inferiority complex. I have not looked outstanding since I was a child, and I rarely received encouragement from my parents, so I always feel that I am not good at it.
and even now I work, I have never had a relationship. It’s because of my inferiority complex that I feel that no one else will fall in love with me.
I am too obsessed with appearance and think that "ugliness" is the root cause of my single . I dare not contact men, and I always feel that they will look down on me.
I equated love with appearance, and felt that without outstanding appearance, I was not worthy of love.
This kind of inferiority complex separates me from the opposite sex, dares not contact me, and traps myself in my imagination.
But I ignored my own strengths. First of all, I am very humorous. Almost all my friends around me will praise me for being humor, and it is very interesting to be with me.
Moreover, I have a stable job, mathematics has always been my strength, and I teach the best class in school.
These are my advantages, but I have always focused on my own flaws, which has led to my constant depression.
Later I realized that women really need to light up themselves, hide their inferiority complex, and show their strengths to attract others. You can’t pray that men fall in love with your shortcomings, right?
Qi Chengcheng, 27 years old, self-media practitioner: throw away your wrong living habits and change yourself inside and outside.
Since junior high school, my figure has been a bit fat, but I can't control myself, which leads to my fatterness as I grow older.
Because of obesity, it blocked a lot of my love blossoms. In fact, I have a good foundation, but many men are discouraged when they see my body shape.
Once upon a time, I also made up my mind to lose weight, but it was difficult to stick to it every time. The fatigue after exercise and the pleasure of eating made me give up quickly.
Every time I give up, I will complain that I have no perseverance and perseverance, and feel that I am a waste who can’t do anything, and then I start a new round of overeating and taking carbs to make myself happy.
Just like that, I live in a short period of time and long-term self-abandonment. My weight has not decreased but increased, which really makes me feel particularly uncomfortable.
Later, under the persuasion and supervision of my friends, I slowly adjusted my state with difficulty.
The first thing I do should be to correct my mentality. Accepting that losing weight is a process. If you can't become a fat man in one bite, you can't become a thin man in one bite. This is a long-term process.
In addition, we must curb our desire for carbohydrates after exercise and cannot easily compromise.
Lose weight first to have more possibilities. You can't force men to like you when you are obese.
Only when you manage yourself well can others like you, this is true.
Time and Emotional Class:
Whether a woman’s love luck is prosperous is actually not a metaphysics. As long as you are a little confident, cheerful, and make your appearance better, the man will get closer.
Do not trap yourself in the past, stare at the point of inferiority, and give up on yourself to face life. This way you will not have the luck of love.
If the heart is facing the sun, the light will be everywhere you see.
No matter how old you are, as long as you are confident and optimistic enough, and live a positive life, you will definitely meet the person who knows how to appreciate you and love you with your heart.
