text/Zhang Xiaonuan
Tong Zhi finally confessed to Dazhuang:
"Yes, I want to see that girl. Every day when I open my eyes and think of seeing that girl at work, I am willing to get up and go to work.
This girl gives me the feeling like the air in the mountains, clean and cool, warm and wet in my heart."
so, when Tong Zhi defended Wen Li, "What can I have with her? I haven't even touched my hands", he was guilty. When Wen Li asked him, "You haven't touched her hand, but you touched her heart", Tong Zhi was confident the previous second, and completely speechless the next second.
Just like Dazhuang said, men are actually no different from men. When they see a beautiful little girl, they are like male peacocks who twist their butts and open their screens.
Junichi Watanabe wrote in the book "The Man": In the ordinary and monotonous couple's life, when a man becomes tired of his wife, if there are other women outside that make him moved and have the opportunity to get close to him, he will definitely run towards her immediately without saying a word. Most men do this. Whenever they have the chance, they want to try out extramarital affair. Generally speaking, about 70% or 80% of men will not miss this opportunity. Only 10% of men have a harmonious relationship with their wives and are unintentionally fickle, while the other men do not have this kind of courage.
, and Tong Zhi belongs to the latter. He has no courage and his thief heart is obvious, but his body is so scared that he dare not move forward.
Just as he insisted on going to the third line, he called it for career and to let his family live in a big house, but half of the reason was to go to the third line to hide from the quietness, and he didn't have the courage to tell Wenli the truth.
Half selfish
Tong Zhi has decided to go to the third line and has signed up with the factory. He has not discussed it well with Wen Li at all. He unilaterally decided to leave.
Tong Zhi decided to go to the third line, half of which was for the future and to let his family live in a big house, but the reason for the other half was extremely selfish.
He wanted to escape from this home, and he was unwilling to face Wenli's nagging face, and he didn't want to accept that Wenli ignored his discomfort when she had a son. But did he ever think that if he hadn't given birth to four children, Wenli could still be the white moonlight in the past.
Which woman can still be bright under the chaos of food, food, oil and salt, and her final journey is just a sticky rice.
. A man asks his wife to take care of the child wholeheartedly as a mother, and at the same time asks his wife to keep her charm as a woman. This desire is completely contradictory and is a very selfish requirement for a man.
The gap between reality and ideal made Tong Zhi choose to escape from his family and go to the third line.
Wen Li cried and begged Tong Zhi, unwilling to let Tong Zhi go to the third line. She was afraid that she would not be able to cope with her current life, and she did not think about living a wealthy life. She just wanted the whole family to be neat and safe.
Wenli puts the actual difficulties in front of Tong Zhi. She has four children, her son is still young, and an elderly mother-in-law, she can't stand such a life at all.
But even if Wen Li puts the actual difficulties in front of Tong Zhi, she did not shake Tong Zhi's determination to go to the third line.
Wenli saw Tong Zhi go to Zhijue, wiped away her tears, turned around and packed her luggage for Tong Zhi, not crying or making a fuss, and showed her determination to support Tong Zhi.
In fact, every choice in marriage is a struggle, and life continues in this struggle.
In the first year when Tong Zhi went to the third line, Wenli was suffering from the naked eye.
The four children eat, drink, defecation, and study, and also take care of their mother-in-law's body. She also has her own work. She is busy like a top every day. She counts the days when Tong Zhi left home over and over again, and looks forward to Tong Zhi going home over and over again.
Wen Li once said to her sister: Although I am a little harder and more difficult, every time I receive a letter from Tong Zi and see him on the third line, everything is fine, and I am tired, so it is worth it.
Most married women are like this. They always use their efforts to support the other party’s achievements, sacrifice themselves, and fulfill the other party.
I saw a sentence some time ago, saying: If there is no marriage, there will be much more excellent women in this world than now.
in his heart to his father, his mother often cried at night, gritting her teeth, and she didn't know why her mother cried, it seemed that her mother felt very uncomfortable.
Because it was too hard and too difficult, she had no shoulder to share the burden, and she was unwilling to write a letter to Tong Zhi about the difficulties at home. She didn't want to affect Tong Zhi's future because of family affairs, so she gritted her teeth and carried it down alone.
Since she decided to support Tong Zhi in the third line to do her career, no matter how hard or difficult it is, she will grit her teeth and persevere.
Sadly, even though Nan Fang explained Wen Li's sadness so sincerely in the letter, it still failed to stop Tong Zhi from becoming tempted towards Li Tianjiao.
helpless
In the more than a year when Tong Zhi went to the third line, Wenli changed a lot. Her mother-in-law praised Wenli for being able to do better than before and had a much better temper.
As a woman, I felt sad when I heard these words.
If a woman becomes both sensible and capable, it only means that no one loves her anymore.
Wen Li originally thought that her own changes and efforts could add bricks and tiles to Tong Zhi on the road to career, but unexpectedly, Tong Zhi first added a piece of green tiles to her head.
When the incident between Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao was rumored in the factory, Wen Li didn't say anything, and directly took her four children to find the secretary in the factory and asked Tong Zhi to be transferred back.
Tong Zhi angrily scolded Wen Li for being a stupid woman in front of Dazhuang. He still feels that there is nothing between him and Li Tianjiao. He even shamelessly said in front of Dazhuang, "I am not afraid of being slanted by the shadow."
As soon as Tong Zhi finished speaking, Dazhuang squinted his eyes, looked at Tong Zhi, muttering in his heart, "Is your body really right?"
When Dazhuang discovered something was wrong between Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao, Dazhuang advised Tong Zhi that a woman like Li Tianjiao could not touch her. She was already 27 years old and almost 30 years old. Once such a woman is moved by a man, she will go to get married.
Tong Zhi was frightened when he heard this, so he quickly retreated and took the initiative to alienate Li Tianjiao.
If your body is positive and you don’t have any slightest heart, why do you have such a big reaction?
The more Tong Zhi retreated, the more it meant that there was a ghost in his heart. The more Li Tianjiao could feel that Tong Zhi had her in his heart, and then he became more unscrupulous in his arms.
Faced with Li Tianjiao's entanglement, Tong Zhi said on his lips that he had a wife and a family, but his body was very honest. He never decided on Li Tianjiao's various pulling and pulling, and under the moonlight. It was as if I was hinting to Li Tianjiao: Don’t destroy my family, we can date anyway.
As Junichi Watanabe wrote in his book "The Man": There are fewer ideas about "fragrant intent" among men. On the contrary, if a friend has such a romantic encounter, he is often both envious and jealous, and almost no man will be proud of having never done such a thing.
Tong Zhi received the organization's transfer order that he was going to leave the third line completely, and his future came to an end. The more than a year he had worked hard and the more than a year he had paid for, he was in vain.
So, it’s not the only one who thinks it’s a pity that Wenli’s hard work this year has been wasted, and she feels even more uncomfortable. On the one hand, she has to bear the impact of wasting all her efforts, and on the other hand, she has to bear the impact of her husband's cheating.
And the initiator of all this is Li Tianjiao and Tong Zhi.
What’s ridiculous is that when Li Tianjiao learned that Tong Zhi was going to be transferred back because of her relationship, she promised Tong Zhi that as long as Tong Zhi didn’t leave, she went to the factory leader and said that she would go back to Beijing and she didn’t want to delay Tong Zhi’s future.
If you don’t want to delay Tong Zhi’s future, why did you set foot in Tong Zhi’s marriage at the beginning?
What's even more ridiculous is that when Tong Zhi heard Li Tianjiao's words, he was so moved.
When facing Wen Li who defended his marriage, Tong Zhi was insulted; when facing Li Tianjiao who destroyed his marriage, Tong Zhi was moved.
This is undoubtedly the biggest satire of " Golden Wedding ". No wonder the barrage is being posted. I don’t want such a golden marriage.
If Tong Zhi decided not to leave, with Li Tianjiao's backstage, it would be very likely that Tong Zhi's future would be preserved, but Tong Zhi still went back.
Why?
He still wants this home deep down. He knows that if he doesn't go back, he will lose Wenli forever and this painstakingly managed home.
But others have gone back, but their hearts have already flew away. I hate Wenli more and impatient.
Why?
Because he can't forget his feelings outside the home. So, he separated the body and the spirit. I think Tong Zhi should have been in pain during that period, and his body and spirit could not be tied to one person.
Tong Zhi came back from the third line, and Wen Li also changed, becoming verbose and becoming neurotic, making Tong Zhi even more annoyed.
Seeing Wen Li go from a graceful petty bourgeois girl to a crazy woman like this, she suddenly feels sad.
Sometimes I think, is this cost-effective? It's not worth it to seek love and affection in front of men, and turn yourself into a mad woman with a disgusting face.
The heart is gone, and it is not the heart you used to get back. Why should you spend your time with me again?
The ghost is not dispersed
Sometimes I really feel that mistresses are more difficult to deal with than little ghosts.
Tong Zhi has returned from the third line for less than two years, and Li Tianjiao also returned to the general factory, and the two became "colleagues" again. Tong Zhi has always concealed Wen Li about
.
It is obvious that there is a ghost in his heart. When faced with Wen Li's questioning, he put the responsibility on Wen Li's head, saying that he was afraid that Wen Li would think randomly.
If you are open and honest, why bother to hide it?
The reality is that Tong Zhi is not open-minded.
When Li Tianjiao met Li Tianjiao again, Li Tianjiao did not bother Tong Zhi. It was like nothing happened. Whether it was pretending or real, Li Tianjiao did not take the initiative to provoke Tong Zhi this time.
is Tong Zhi’s cold butt with a hot face on his face.
The relationship between Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao was broken this time, and it was due to Tong Zhi's words. He said to Li Tianjiao "Tianjiao, please forgive me." First of all, will normal colleagues call me so intimately? Secondly, if there is no emotional entanglement between the two people, how can we forgive? Didn’t I just forgive me for provoking you but didn’t give you the result?
So, is this Wen Li so worried? This is obviously Tong Zhi was cunning, but he deceived Wen Li for the rest of his life in this matter.
A dark heart can never hold a brilliant face.
Finally, Tong Zhi ushered in the second spring of his career. He was selected by the factory to open a branch factory in Guangzhou. Li Tianjiao also had a branch factory in Guangzhou. Tong Zhi didn't tell Wen Li about this matter at all.
Wen Li learned from Mrs. Zhuang that Li Tianjiao was also in Guangzhou. In fact, Mrs. Zhuang was afraid that Wen Li would wear a cuckold again on her head. Wen Li was so strong, how could she stand this?
is indeed girls help girls.
Wen Li became smart this time. She didn't question Tong Zhi in person, and quietly ran to the factory to find the secretary. She didn't say she wouldn't let Tong Zhi go, but she never stopped her eyes. Now, Tong Zhi's quota was completely apart from the factory.
When Tong Zhi learned about this, he became angry and felt that Wen Li was crazy. He could no longer live with such a woman. The two of them were quarreling and filed for divorce.
If Tong Zhi still loves Wenli, he should know, what is Wenli afraid of? Wenli was too afraid of losing him and losing this family. She didn't dare to let him go because his heart was already wild.
Maybe I shouldn’t look at marriages in that era from the perspective of this era. In fact, sometimes I think Wenli is also quite sad.
Can’t you survive without love? Do we not deserve a good life without men?
Love is composed of countless moments, and not love is also composed of countless moments. However, at that time, you were lucky and even deceived yourself, thinking that you would get better in the future.
However, it is easy to fly out, but it is difficult to take it back.
stumbled for so many years, and endured the marriage, but in the end he could not escape the idea of "divorce".
When Tong Zhi filed for divorce, Wen Li firmly said "divorce".
After saying that, Wenli held a bunch of dirty clothes in the bathroom, washing clothes while crying silently. This picture is really heartbreaking and too realistic.
Even if marriage has become a bastard, we still need to be responsible for it.
Slowly I deeply felt that the biggest luxury in marriage is that there is someone who always loves you and can live your daily life with you. He is the fireworks of the world, and he is the long-lasting flow of water.
However, luxury is not a long-cherished wish, a difficult-to-reach wish.
Author: Zhang Xiaonuan, I hope you and I will meet in the warm and comfortable words and grow together!
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