There is a marriage and love market in many big cities. Everyone’s basic situation is written on a piece of paper, and they start setting up stalls there, and openly hawking. Why is free love related to the market? Because love is sacred, it is a high degree of compatibility from material, spirit, and soul, while the market represents interests.
At this time, it will inevitably lead to the marketization of marriage and love behavior, and the result is that ordinary people will be eliminated by the market. The reason is very simple. Under market rules, those who are competitive will definitely get the higher price. Human nature is greedy and fully revealed in the face of interests, so this rule is also followed in the marriage market. It is difficult for ordinary people to get their love, and when they are forced to choose, they can only be single.
So some people have put forward a point of view that contemporary marriage is a transaction. Those who are not qualified to trade will face the risk of no successor. And those who are qualified to trade will also empty their families. Because he had to use the power of the entire family to buy a house and a car to give a gift, and even get a loan to get married.
Why will ordinary people be eliminated by the marriage and love market in the future?
Let’s talk about a few hard conditions in the marriage and love market. Time has come to 2022, and the marriage market is no longer the service of the previous thousand-mile marriage.The first hard condition in the marriage and love market is that the household registration of big cities is best for first-tier cities, such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, which have more obvious advantages.
The second hard condition is, with an annual salary of at least 200,000 to 300,000 yuan, and the job is best to be stable.
The third hard condition is, if it is within the system, it is the first choice, and it is best to be a civil servant in a big city.
The fourth hard condition is that you have a house, a car and a deposit, and no liabilities are allowed.
The fifth hard condition is that parents are at least dual-employees, and they also have a high pension after retirement. They don’t want to live with their parents after marriage.
Think from the perspective of others, if a man has a household registration in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and his annual salary is more than 200,000 or 300,000 yuan, his work is relatively stable, or he is a civil servant, and he has a house, a car, a deposit and no debt, his parents are both in the employee family and have a high pension. If such a man is willing to lower the standards, he will probably have been married long ago. Will he still be in the marriage and love market? What is the reality of
? Currently, most people’s salary is between 3,000 and 6,000 yuan, and 98% of families buy houses with loans. Everyone cannot marry to Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. If they were not local household registrations in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, they basically had a mortgage of 30 years. Should they be single? So when the marriage market becomes a transaction, marriage is essentially a transaction. What it meets is material needs, and such a marriage will not last.
so his result is to turn away young people who have no house, no car, loans, debts, and are not dual-employed. And no matter how hard they work, no matter how their parents support them, or even use the power of the entire family, they cannot reach such a threshold. At this time, they can only choose to lie down and take the initiative to accept a person's life.
Why did the marriage and love market become like this today? This is a very interesting topic, let’s talk about it.
Nowadays young people have grown up in the wave of reform and opening up. In the past few decades, we have only been running forward, and everything is dominated by interests, which means that everyone is pursuing the most basic material needs.
However, in this process, there will inevitably be a gap between the rich and the poor. The rich can set standards for the rich and the poor and let the poor abide by it. At this time, some standards are heights that poor people cannot reach in their lives, so they cannot enjoy the same resources, connections, and even beauties as rich people.
When everyone reaches a consensus on the supremacy of interests, everyone's world outlook, outlook on life, and values have changed, and they are deeply engraved in the subconscious of the brain and cannot be changed.
I have said before that human nature has divinity and animal nature, which satisfies human greed, satisfies human laziness, and satisfies human nature's pursuit of profit and avoids harm. These are all animal natures. Therefore, everyone is lazy, greedy and pretending, and instinctively knows how to seek profit and avoid harm. A household registration in a big city can help them solve the problems of their descendants, and it can also help them struggle for many years. Is this lazy and greedy?
requires an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, and also requires a stable job. Is this a pursuit of profit and avoiding harm, is it greedy and lazy?
requires a house and a car, and it is full and there is no debt. Isn’t this also seeking profit and avoiding harm, being greedy, lazy and pretending? Is there any right or wrong
? There is nothing right or wrong, because this is something in the human gene, but it is all inspired in the current society. So on the entire earth, humans are also social animals, just an upgraded animal world game, and they will still follow that sentence: Survival of the fittest.
Finally, I hope that lovers will eventually get married, and I hope that everyone can get out of singleness as soon as possible, and I hope that everyone will be happy and fulfilled in their marriage. Finally, let’s leave a small question. What do you think is the reason why young people cannot get out of singleness? Let’s discuss it together in the comment section.
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