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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
We know that love emphasizes two-way pursuit. If one party is not taking the initiative, it will be difficult for the relationship to continue.
In reality, there are too many men who are irresponsible for their feelings. Once there is no newness, they will ignore the women around them and go out to seek excitement.
They are addicted to the outside relationship, do not care about you, and do not take the initiative to contact you, and cannot give you the care and company you want.
For such a man, women must not please him. If they find that he doesn’t love him anymore, they should plan for themselves early to avoid greater harm in the future.
Women should know that it is better not to love without response. If you see a man being half-hearted towards you, you should be vigilant.
At any time, a woman cannot lose herself. If she loves a man, she must have her own bottom line.
In this way, you have your own dignity so that you will not be disappointed by men and get the happiness you want.
After all, if a man does not contact you on his own initiative, he doesn’t have to please him. This way he will often win.
1. Force yourself to be independent and no longer rely on men
In love, if a man does not contact you actively and often breaks off contact with you, you must understand that he may not love you anymore.
At this time, what you need to do is not to please, but to force yourself to be independent, grow up as soon as possible, and don’t rely on men anymore.
When he doesn’t care about you, don’t be sad, but tell yourself to become independent and live your life well.
Therefore, you need to actively improve yourself, work hard, and save more money in case of emergencies.
When this relationship completely falls apart, you won’t have nothing, let alone worry about life being left unreached.
You have your own savings and the ability to live independently. From now on, you will no longer have to rely on men and will be able to live better than before.
In reality, some women are not independent enough and always rely on men to support them. This is a very irrational and wise approach.
Men today are very realistic. When they love you, they may take care of you with their heart and provide you with a happy life.
However, once a man changes his mind and has other opposite sex, he will be particularly disgusted with you and will not be responsible for you at all.
When he completely doesn’t love you, he will gradually alienate you and will never care about you again.
So, as long as a woman finds that a man deliberately neglects you and does not contact you, she must plan for herself as soon as possible.
You have to give up unrealistic fantasies, grow up quickly, and force yourself to become more independent.
From now on, you love yourself, live seriously, and save more money so that you don’t have to worry about being let down by men.
Only when a woman does not rely on a man can she truly live out herself. This is the foresight you should have.
2. Follow your heart and stop loss in time to a man who is not worthy
A man does not take the initiative to contact you, which means that he doesn't care about you and has begun to change his mind.
In his heart, you are an optional existence, and he doesn't want to spend too much time and energy on you. Men like
Most of them have other opposite sex outside, and they have not left you. They just want to use a way to alienate you and let you leave on the initiative.
From this point of view, it also shows that men are irresponsible and are very perfunctory about their feelings, and are not worthy of women's continued efforts .
Therefore, when you find that a man is intentionally or unintentionally disconnecting from you, you must wake up and stop sticking stupidly.
Love is not a one-sided effort. When facing a man who doesn’t love you, everything you do is futile. It’s better to let go as soon as possible.
So, for men who are not worth it, the best response for women is to stop the loss in time.
As long as he does not contact you on his own initiative, you don’t have to humblely please him, and you must maintain your dignity at any time.
In any relationship, women must follow their hearts and never let themselves down. If you set limits for yourself, you will eventually be hurt.
A man who doesn’t take you to heart and makes you unable to find him is actually not loving him. No matter what reason he uses to perfunctory you, he cannot change the fact that he does not love you.
Don’t give your enthusiasm to a man who is indifferent to you. It’s not worth it. Only by letting go can you stay away from hurt.
Women should not feel very painful. The so-called "Long pain is worse than short pain". When you meet a man who truly loves you in the future, you will look back and you will find those past pains, which is not the case.
Therefore, when your love cannot get a response from a man, you don’t have to ask questions, but stop the loss in time.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
In summary, if a man does not take the initiative to contact you, there is no need to please him, and this kind of response will often win.
forces yourself to be independent and no longer rely on men; follow your heart and stop losses in time for men who are not worthy.
Love is never a matter of one person, but only when two people manage and maintain it together can they have a bright future.
So, when you find that the man doesn’t care about you anymore and no longer take the initiative to contact you, there is no need to continue to get entangled, leave as soon as possible.
The man who lets you down is not worthy of your goodness or your sincerity. He is not the kind of good person you are looking forward to. Fortunately, it is not, do you understand?
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