Sometimes, the relationship between the opposite sex is actually very wonderful, such as a kind of relationship is above friendship and under love.
Many people are in this very embarrassing stage, and they don’t know if their relationship with each other can be between this stage of ordinary friends.
In fact, there may still be pure friendship between the opposite sex, but if you always feel that something is wrong with yourself and the other person, for example, there will be some ambiguous signals occasionally.
When you feel this feeling, you can re-judgment the relationship between you.
It is actually normal to develop from a friend to a couple, but if the other party likes you, they will definitely use some small methods to test it.
So you may just be friends now, but there is a very likely situation where you have some "overstepped line" behavior.
In fact, when you get along with the opposite sex, three conditions are met, which means that the relationship is not pure.
First: Two people go out to date alone
Although this society is still very tolerant and open in today's society, there are often some boundaries between men and women, so it is really a very ambiguous thing for two people to date alone.
It would be fine if you just go for a meal. This is just a relationship between ordinary friends, but if you go to a movie, go to a playground or even travel together, then this is really ambiguous thing.
And whether men or women do these things with the opposite sex who have no interest in them, they even deliberately keep a distance from the other party, so the opposite sex who often go out alone may like each other.
Even if one of them doesn’t have so many ideas, dating two people is actually a very ambiguous thing. For example, watching a movie or something is really a very atmosphere, so it is easy to gradually develop some favorable feelings for the other party during these processes.
Especially some friends of the opposite sex travel together, they are easily dependent on each other during the trip, and there are many things that the two people experience together, so it is easy to be moved by each other.
The second: Share your sad things with the other party
people will have very fragile times, and when people are most vulnerable, they often find someone who is willing to listen to and talk.
But for women, they usually share their sad things with their best friends, so if a woman shares her most vulnerable side with a man, it means that this man is really very extraordinary to him.
Although it is normal for ordinary friends to share their thoughts with each other, sometimes women will share them with boys who they like, wanting to get comfort from each other.
And, the other party will gradually begin to care about your emotions, and he will unknowingly start to care about you, so many friends of the opposite sex fall in love with each other unconsciously.
seems to be just a very common sharing, but it is actually easy to promote the relationship between two people.
Third: "cross the boundary" of communication with each other
"If you and I were not married when we were thirty, let's make do with each other." If someone really says that in real life, then he is very likely to like you.
Because this sentence is obviously a joke, no one will take this sentence seriously, so what is her intention to say this? In fact, I just want to test you in this way.
If a person is interested in you, he will definitely say something to test you frequently. You may not realize it yet, or you may still be thinking, why is what he said so strange? In fact, he is testing you at this time.
verbal test is actually a very obvious signal. The words and jokes the other party said are actually to test what you mean for this relationship.
So, if you find that there are often some "border-crossing" languages in the chat process with a friend of the opposite sex, it means that your relationship may not be that simple.
Summary:
If the above conditions are met, then you should think about this relationship carefully and recall whether there are some "overstep" signals in the previous process of getting along with the other party.
In fact, many couples develop slowly from friends, so if you feel that you have a good impression of him, then as long as the two of them take this step, they may also move towards the happiness they hope for.
Of course, if you feel that you really just treat him as an ordinary friend, then you must make a quick decision and don’t let this misunderstanding deepen and deepen. Sometimes it is not a good thing to be too vague about the relationship.
