Yan Shuwen
The core reason why men can’t get married now is that their financial conditions are insufficient and there is nothing to discuss.
But women's situation is complicated.
Women have more advantages in making money in modern society
In ancient society, men's social value was higher than women, and they had an absolute advantage over women in terms of economic ability and physical strength.
However, in modern society, women can survive better in this society and their ability to make money is stronger than that of men.
people with double standards will not admit that they are double standards
At this time, many girls still cannot find someone to get married in their thirties, a large part of the reason is because of double standards.
must not only take the ancient marriage standards to require the man to have financial conditions, good family background, good looks, but also enjoy all kinds of equal rights of modern women. What does
mean? For example, dowry is an ancient marriage custom, which is equivalent. However, many girls now only offer dowry and dowry.
This is one of the double standards.
Of course, there are many double standards and contradictions. For example, the man must be handsome, tall, and courageous, and the man must be able to make money, have a good family, be gentle and considerate, and... 10,000 words are omitted here.
However, in the eyes of girls, I don’t pick on it! The feeling in front of
is not picky, just about the same. But this is almost the same, just like the design drawings that Party A asked Party B to do, as long as it needs to be the same. After the manuscript is published, you will know what the difference is. This is changed and that should be done.
design drawings can be changed, but the object conditions cannot be changed, so you can only change them!
High-quality boys are scarce resources
I saw many matchmaker economy on the Internet saying that there are few high-quality boys in the blind date market. In fact, it is not that there are few high-quality boys in the blind date market, but there are few high-quality boys in the world.
is tall, looks good, has a good family situation, and a boy is very capable and can make money, and has a good personality. People like this are originally a very minority group.
The rest is either here or there.
Girls to be married are no longer scarce resources
The ratio of boys and girls in the blind date market is 1:9. The core reason why girls have higher blind dates than men is that most boys are not qualified to go to the stage.
I looked at my own situation and I was not qualified to put the information on the blind date market. Not only did I not have it, but many friends who are similar to mine don’t have it.
This is very interesting. The blind dates are very popular every day, and there are very few things that can be achieved. The service fees in the marriage and love market are earning a lot.
You can’t just get out of singleness, just like life is not all good.
However, the above complaints are all my own opinions. Everyone's situation is different and it may not be correct.
Putting aside these issues, returning to the essential issues, "I like" is the most important thing. Like this is a very wonderful thing, because the point that everyone likes is different.
I hope single compatriots can put aside all the pressure, suffering, and troubles to find what they like, and can also like each other together.
No matter boys and girls, don’t be licking dogs
What can be cultivated is love, definitely not love. The love you want to pursue does not exist in a plain life.
In the world of love, not loving means not loving. No matter how much you do for TA, it is meaningless. Even if you come to your side for some reason one day, and wait for the things to pass, you will leave soon.
What you need to do is to just bloom yourself, invest in yourself, make yourself better and better, and take the initiative to rely on it and you are willing to accept it, which will last forever produce results.
If TA hasn't come yet, it can only prove that you are not good enough.
encourage each other!
