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Whether it is a man or a woman, people who are too devoted to their feelings will not have good results, they are all seeking their own worries.
The best relationship requires two people to go in both directions. If you want another feeling and the other party can’t give it to you, you will suffer for nothing in love.
Normal feelings should be to love each other as always in daily life, give each other warmth and comfort the other person with love.
For a man, when he truly loves a woman, he will take the initiative to contact the woman at certain special moments, and the woman must know it himself.
1. When you are busy, you will also take the initiative to contact you
The man who truly loves you will take the initiative to contact you no matter how busy he is. He will not let you wait for him to contact you.
In life now, everyone is under a lot of pressure and everyone is very busy. Those who truly love you will think of you no matter how busy they are, and no matter how busy they are, they will think of you in their hearts.
Even if he is so busy that his feet are not stuck in the ground, he will use his time during meals and go to the bathroom to actively contact you so that he will not worry about you in vain.
A person who doesn’t love you will not only not contact you when he is busy, but he will not even think of you when he is free.
He doesn't love you, so he doesn't have you in his heart, and he won't care about you at all. For him, other people in his world are more important than you.
The book says: "If a man who loves you finishes his work, he will contact you immediately, for fear of neglecting you; if a man who doesn't love you disappears while he is busy, he will disappear while he is chatting."
If a man always doesn't contact you and always disappears in your world, don't deceive yourself and tell yourself that he loves you. In fact, he doesn't love you, it's you who writes and directs the drama of his love you.
2. Take the initiative to say anything to you
The disappearance of a relationship is the most feared of two people. They are clearly living under the same roof, but they have nothing to say.
A man who doesn’t love you has nothing to say to you because he feels that speaking to you is a waste of time and energy. If you ask him, he has no interest in anything.
And a man who truly loves you will have endless things to say to you. No matter what he has experienced or what has happened outside, he wants to tell you.
Man hopes that through this communication with you, you can feel your love and your importance. Because he loves you, he has endless things to say to you, and he always feels fresh to you.
A man who truly loves you will take the initiative to care about you from the bottom of his heart and will take the initiative to care about you from the bottom of his heart.
He will not have any secrets in front of you, nor do he want to have any secrets. He hopes that he will be open to you and be honest.
The most feared thing in relationships is that there is nothing to say to each other. You hold your phone, I hold my phone, we no longer talk, no longer communicate, no longer speak, and no longer speak, and once we speak, it will hurt the other person. Once we speak, we will sprinkle salt on the other person's wound. This cycle will only make each other's relationship worse.
When a man stops talking to you, you must understand his feelings for you, because the man he truly loves will take the initiative to talk to you.
3. After conflicts, they will actively resolve
. After spending a long time together in their relationship, there will always be some conflicts and differences between the two. Good relationships, you will not be afraid of quarrels, because both of them will be patient with each other.
Does a man love you? Look at his attitude towards you after you have an argument.
If you have a quarrel, the man is more angry than you, and the man often uses cold violence to you. Such a man does not love you and does not care about you. If you live with such a person, you will feel particularly tired.
There will be many different points when two people live together, so they need to seek common ground while reserving differences. As long as the two people go in the direction of good relationships, their hearts will get closer and closer.
book says: "A good relationship is not about not quarreling for the rest of your life, but about quarrels and can live your life."
People who have never quarreled do not exist, which means that their relationship has not been tested. After the quarrel, the two still think about each other and want to be with each other. This is a real good relationship.
After you have a conflict, the man will take the initiative to reconcile and resolve the conflict. The man will take the initiative to bow to you, take the initiative to be responsible for you, and take the initiative to comfort your emotions. This is the attitude and action of a man who loves you.
A person who is willing to bow to you, of course loves you, a man who is willing to give in to you, of course loves you, and a man who is willing to give in to you, of course loves you, and a man who takes the initiative to resolve the conflict for you, of course loves you.
A man takes the initiative to contact you at three times, which means that he is true love. :
No matter how busy you are, you will take the initiative to contact your man, which means you are very important to him;
The man you are willing to share with you every day when you come home from get off work and loves you, and he wants to tell you everything that happens to him;
After a conflict occurs, the man who will take the initiative to reconcile with you, and even more so. In his heart, only you are the most important, and others are not that important.
A man truly loves you, and you can know his attitude towards you. A man truly loves you, and you can feel the love he gives you, so you must cherish it and love your man in the way you like, because some people really can't meet him.
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