In real social life, more and more leftover women are becoming more and more. What is the reason for this phenomenon? This is the answer that each of us wants to know.
The society is different from the past. In the past, people were married to men and women, and the matchmakers said that, but now with the development of society, each of us has a different social lifestyle, so people's concept of marriage will also be different from before.
is not the world of men now. The idea of favoring boys over girls in the past is also changing. Women nowadays will be able to endure hardships more than men, so many excellent women can basically support themselves. So why do many women become older single women? Next, let’s take a look at the reasons.
Wang Qiang is 35 years old this year, and has a successful career, but his relationship has always been a vacant. Through the introduction of a friend, he met a girl of similar age as him, named Zhang Li. Zhang Li is one year older than him, but she is well maintained and still very beautiful.
Zhang Li is also the boss of a company. She has been working alone outside for so many years. During the chat with Zhang Li, Wang Qiang once asked Zhang Li why she has such excellent conditions but her relationship has been vacant for so long?
Facing Wang Qiang’s question, Zhang Li did not give too many answers, but just said with a smile: "Because I think men can do things, I can do the same, so I don’t need to be protected by men. I don’t have so many expectations for love." After
After saying this, both of them looked at each other and smiled.
Actually, Wang Qiang likes this girl very much because he appreciates the girl's ability very much, but during the date with this girl, Wang Qiang did not feel the weakness of this woman, and even Wang Qiang felt that he was not needed in front of this woman.
A truly mature person will not drag on his feelings. Not long after, Wang Qiang had a communication with Zhang Li. Wang Qiang told Zhang Li that we are more suitable for being friends. After hearing what Wang Qiang said, Zhang Li actually understood and replied with a smile, "I think so too."
In fact, whether two people are suitable is destined from the beginning. Sometimes a woman is too strong is not a good thing. When a woman loses the qualification to be protected by a man, then the life of this woman is actually very hard.
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No one dares to pursue women who are too excellent:
When a woman is too excellent, ordinary men dare not pursue them because they have clear goals and plans for their lives, so they never make do with each other when facing feelings.
Over time, as time goes by, fewer and fewer men who truly suit them will become.
Women who are too good will not rely too much on men because they have the ability to pay for their ambitions.
A person who has a clear plan for the future will not be willing to change his plans for a person, because they will not put their hopes on others. They will only love themselves well. Such a woman is sober in the world.
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High requirements for their partner:
In this world, most people are ordinary people, and there are very few truly excellent men. If a woman is excellent, then they will also have very high requirements for their partner, and not many men can meet this standard.
When a woman's own abilities reach a certain level, their worldview will also be different. A woman who has truly seen the world will not be wronged by herself casually.
Love is never a temporary promise, but a lifelong dependence between two people. A truly smart woman will never use her marriage as a joke.
The reason why a woman has high standards and strict requirements for her partner is because they are responsible for their future.
For a capable woman, marriage life is not the whole. They will focus more on their careers because they understand that life depends on themselves, and there will never be a way out based on others.
Everyone will have different views on feelings in real life. Being able to meet a truly suitable person is a blessing for our whole life.
Many times, we should not look at older single women with the same perspective. In fact, everyone has beautiful expectations for marriage. When two people are together, the most important thing is to learn to tolerate each other.
What a woman really cares about is the love a man for her. When a woman can feel the love and sincerity from a man, they will also be willing to give in a relationship.
A happy life is not created by that person, but created by two people together. A very excellent woman is actually just to make herself live a better life, so when facing feelings, they are unwilling to compromise.
I hope everyone can be more cautious when facing their feelings, so that such love can last.
