1 [With her the ability to empathize with ”]
What is empathy. Empathy is also called empathy and empathy, which can also be understood as understanding thinking from the perspective of . It means that when something happens to someone else, you can empathize with her, understand her situation, understand every decision she makes, and understand what she thinks in her heart.
When a man can have such empathy, it will become much easier for him to get along with his partner. Sometimes women will accept your kindness embarrassedly on certain occasions.
For example, if you say you send her home, she will subconsciously answer, no need. At this time, if you insist on escorting her to her home safely for her personal safety, she will be very moved when she hears it, and accepts your kindness.
At this time, you should know that it’s not that she doesn’t want you to send her home, but that she is embarrassed to accept your kindness, especially in front of everyone.
If you have empathy at this moment, you may be able to understand what her sentence "No need" really means.
For example, one day a woman asked you to buy vegetables with her in the vegetable market, and he blurted out and refused. Maybe everyone should know what the reason is, right?
When this woman has empathy, she can understand the concerns and rejections in the man's heart and no longer make things difficult for her.
Only in this way can we empathize with each other. You understand my rejection, I understand your desire to speak but stop;
You understand my firmness, I understand your endless talk; you understand my rigorousness, I understand your carefulness.
2 [Work hard for her career and be positive and motivated]
Some men just want to find a rich rich woman to end their working career. So he no longer has the ambition and aggressive spirit, and just wants to enjoy the success. This is a somewhat unrealistic idea to women, and it will also make women puzzled.
In real life, more and more women are paying attention to having their own career, willing to work hard and work hard to make a career so that they and their families can live a better life and create better conditions for their future lives.
And if a man can have the same idea as a woman, everyone is willing to work hard together and have the same ambition. Then, your future will be bright, and you will no longer have unpleasant things to do if you get along with each other.
Only when two people work together, work together and work together can they create better living conditions for your future. You should know that only by realizing financial freedom can feelings become free.
Just like the writer and writer Sanmao once said: Love is difficult to last for practical purposes such as eating, dressing, sleeping and counting money.
The implication is that no matter how beautiful love is, it cannot be separated from the support of the material foundation.
Love and bread can be owned at the same time. As long as each other moves towards the same goal, is willing to go in both directions, and work hard and fight for the common goal together, nothing can stump us.
is like her colleague Xiao Li, who has been in love with her boyfriend for 2 years. Since the two were together, they have made a promise to become a custom, to manage each other carefully in their careers, help each other, and make progress together.
When Xiao Li was promoted and raised through her own efforts, her boyfriend was happier than her. Those who didn't know thought that the person who was promoted and raised was her boyfriend.
He took her to have a luxurious Western meal with a very romantic atmosphere, watched a love movie, and then the two of them took a walk together.
When her boyfriend also became the vice president of the company through his own efforts, she also celebrated this important day for him.They support and encourage each other, praise each other, celebrate each other, work hard and fight together.
When both of them work hard for their careers, their goals and determination are the same. It is precisely because everyone is very dedicated to managing their own careers, their living conditions will get better and better, and there are few unpleasant things happening for the economy.
You should know that most couples or couples have quarrels due to financial pressure. Or it is because one of them is not motivated, does not work hard, does not do his job properly, etc.
Therefore, if a man can work hard with a woman for his career, and while managing his feelings with all his heart, he can also manage his respective careers with all his heart, plan a bright future together, and create a bright future together.
3 [Treat home chores with her]
Modern women are becoming more and more capable. Apart from their willingness to work hard for their careers, they have not ignored their families. After get off work, I still buy groceries, clean the house, pick up and drop off the children.
Such a workload is a bit big for a woman who works hard in the workplace. If you insist on doing this often, your body will always be unable to bear it and sleep well, which will lead to mental tension and a lot of stress.
At this time, if the partner can take the initiative to stand up and share some housework for her, it will not only reduce her burden, but also make her love you more and more.
Because, this will make her feel that you know how to understand her, know how to be sympathetic, and feel sorry for her hard work and difficulties.
A man who truly loves you will put down the game or ball game in his hand, walk into the kitchen to help you, and do something for you within his ability. Or discuss division of labor and cooperation with each other, instead of being very busy and the other being very leisurely.
A man who can do housework and is willing to share the burden with his partner or a man who does nothing, and who lie on the sofa playing on his mobile phone and watch TV after he gets home. Who can win a woman's heart more deeply? I believe anyone with a discerning eye knows the answer.
Just like in the TV " Two Conjectures about Marriage ", the second male lead Chen Tong just made a good deal, and he took care of all the affairs of the family by himself. Xue Kexin, who is with such a boyfriend, feels so happy, even if it is a sister-brother relationship, she is willing.
Man and woman do housework together can not only reduce women's workload, but also enhance each other's cohesion, increase their tacit understanding and cooperation, and have more time to spend together.
During this period, we can chat with each other to add a little fun to the boring housework. This is better than she is alone, standing in the kitchen and busy, and she doesn't want to find someone to talk to relieve her boredom, and the things at hand are boring.
Therefore, if you want a woman to love you more and more, you might as well try to do these 3 things with her;
1, have empathy with her. Understand each other's thoughts and feelings in their hearts, and understand each other's efforts and difficulties;
2, and work hard for her career with her. Both of them are willing to work hard in their respective careers, be proactive, support and encourage each other;
3, and share housework with her. We manage this family together, take on the big and small things at home together, and divide the work and cooperate with .
If you want a woman to love you more or to have a good impression of you, in addition to having linguistic concerns and concerns,
also needs to do the above three things with her. It takes practical actions to make it easier to get a woman's heart and make her love you more and more.
