People who don’t have free lunch at the end of the day are 100% good to you. Let me just say that, if it were you, you would not be kind to others for no reason. I hope this case can remind all women that for the sake of their family and for themselves, so they must pay attention. Stay away from male besties and stay away from those men who are good to you. They will definitely have a purpose to treat you well. If you don’t pay attention, then 100% of the waiting for you is a tragedy. Don’t blame your husband for divorceing you, but blame yourself if you want to. What's going on? Why did you say so? Let's take a look at this matter together.
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33-year-old Ms. Kong:
I was wrong, I don’t know how to do it. My mother told me, since you know you are wrong now, then go back and have a good time with your husband. Only in this way can you live a good life in the future. If you insist on making trouble with your husband, then it will be 100% tragic after that. Do you want to have a tragedy with your husband?
If you don’t want to, go back quickly. I told my mother, do you think I don’t want to go back? I can’t go back anymore. My husband doesn’t want to give me a chance. What can I do? My mother said, your husband loves you so much, he will definitely give you a chance. Just go back and live with him well, please make it clear to him.
Don’t make trouble with him anymore, as it will be of no benefit to both of you. Then my father told me again, yes, there is really no need to make trouble with your husband, and they will lose everything in the end. If you are a couple, you should live a good life. Although it is your fault for saying this, as long as you confess, your husband will definitely forgive you.
I was speechless. Can my husband forgive me for this? If my husband could forgive me, he wouldn't have driven me out. Yesterday I was kicked out by my husband because my husband knew I did something sorry for him. My husband slapped me in the face.
Then I told me, since you don’t want to live with me, then let’s get divorced. I don’t have to keep you by my side anymore. When I heard what my husband said, I burst into tears instantly. This was not the result I wanted. My husband told me, I love you so much, I treat you so well, I give you everything I have, how can you treat me like this?
You don’t want to live with me anymore, so you just tell me directly, there is no need to hurt me, you told me that I will divorce you and will definitely help you, and I will never forgive you if you do this now. I told my husband, if I am wrong, please give me a chance, I will not do this again in the future.
My husband told me, how many times have I given you the chance before, I have given you countless times, but have you cherished it? Now this ending is something you ask yourself. Don’t blame me. Let’s get divorced. I don’t want to see you. I fled back to my parents' home to avoid this problem.
I don’t want to do this either. I just don’t want to divorce my husband and don’t want to lose everything. I know that once I get divorced, I will have nothing. If I don’t divorce, at least there will be a little chance. If I get divorced, I will have nothing. It is precisely because of this. That's why I went back to my parents' home, but my parents asked me to go back and admit my mistake with my husband.
think it is useful to admit your mistake? It is useless to admit mistakes. Sometimes there are things that men can never accept. Today I will tell you this matter, everyone will pay attention. Never wait until something happens to know to pay attention. It is too late to say anything when something happens. Just say that. There is no free lunch in the world. Every man is 100% good to you. Just like, my male best friend and my male best friend are so kind to me, it is definitely a purpose.
is not because I am too naive, nor because I give my male best friend a chance, this will not happen. Now I know that I should stay away from my male best friend, but it is too late to say this now. As early as two years ago.My husband kept me away from my male best friend. At that time, my husband told me how long I had lied to me. Now I finally know, are you still related to your male best friend? I don’t want to tell you about this anymore. Now I will give you a choice, either to divorce or to stay away from your male best friend.
If you want to divorce me, just say it directly, if you still love me, just listen to my best friend who stays away from her. Isn’t this for this family? I know my husband is for the sake of the family, but I can't stay away from my male best friend because I think my male best friend has a good relationship with me. Don't say I can't do it.
Many women cannot do this because women have a habit of not rejecting everyone. If you treat him well, he will definitely not reject you. Your male best friend is so kind to you. Can you reject male best friend? So women must be careful and never refuse everyone.
There is a reason why a male best friend treats you well, just like when fishing at the beginning, if you don’t make a nest, those fish will not come over. To put it bluntly, it is the bait given to you. In the end, you will definitely pay the price, and the same is true for my male best friend to treat me. At that time, I actually resisted my husband and even lied to me.
I told my husband, since I chose you, I will live with you well. If you don’t like my relationship with my boyfriend, then I will cut off my boyfriend’s relationship. He said that, and I deleted the WeChat of my male best friend in front of my husband. As a result, I added WeChat again on the morning of the second day.
not only added back, I also changed the notes. In other words, even if my husband saw me chatting with that person, my husband wouldn't know who that person was. I changed the notes to the name of my husband's brother. And it was a real brother. When my husband saw it, he thought that I was chatting with his real brother. He would never have thought that this person was my male best friend.
not only did I change the notes, but I also asked my male best friend to change her avatar, which was exactly the same as my husband's brother. If that happens, my husband will not be able to find out that this person is my male best friend. This has always been like this. My husband never noticed it. I didn't realize it until something happened that I realized that I was just lying to myself. Although my husband was not perfect, this danger still exists. That day I wanted my male best friend to come to my house for dinner.
Originally, I didn’t want my male best friend to come and have a meal. But at that time I had a quarrel with my husband. I told my husband that today is your birthday, and I will prepare a lot of dishes for you. You will come back to have dinner tonight. You haven’t had dinner with me for a long time, right? But my husband told me, yes, I haven't had dinner with you for a long time, so let's do it. I'll go back to dinner earlier tonight.
After eating, my husband went to work, but my husband did not come back. At around 7 o'clock in the evening, my husband had not come back yet, so I called my husband. I told my husband, didn’t you say you’re back for dinner? It’s time now, why don’t you come back for dinner? You won't forget this, right? My husband told me, how could I forget it? I just can't leave for the time being. You can have dinner first, I will go back later.
After saying this, my husband hung up the phone. I was very angry and agreed to come back to have dinner with me, but I didn't come back. It would be fine if you don’t come back, you’re still so perfunctory. Stop talking about me, if other women say that, I will be angry, and then I angrily sent a message to my husband, and I told my husband, what are you doing?
If you don’t come back, you won’t come back tonight. The more I talked, the more angry I got, the more uncomfortable I felt. Then my husband told me, do you think I can’t think of coming back? I have to work, where is the time? Today my leader arranged work for me, and I might not be able to go back tonight. If you are hungry, just have a meal first. If I can't go back tonight, I'll tell you later.
Forget it, I don’t want to tell my husband anymore, I promise me what I promised. I couldn't do it. I was very angry and asked my male best friend to come to my house for dinner. I wanted my male best friend to comfort me.After my male best friend came home, she kept comforting me and brought me a lot of delicious food. While comforting me, she ate with me.
In the end, my male best friend told me that I should drink wine on such a happy day, so I will go home after drinking. I agreed without thinking too much. I usually drink with my male best friend, and it is not the first time, so I didn't think too much.
As a result, I got drunk. My male best friend deliberately caused me to drink. To put it bluntly, he just wanted to get me drunk. When I woke up late, it was almost 10 o'clock in the evening and my head hurted. What was going on? I remember that I was drinking just now, so why do I live in the room now?
is fine if I am in the room, I find myself naked. I hadn't figured out what happened yet, and before I could figure it out, I saw my male best friend, who slept in my husband's position. At that time, I thought this person was my husband, and I was confused and thought that my husband was back. Now I realized that that person was not my husband at all and my male best friend.
I said something naked, and what has happened to us. I regretted it and burst into tears in an instant. My husband loves me so much. My husband hasn't come back yet. Isn't it just to work overtime? Isn't it for money? Isn't it for this family? But I did something that hurt my husband.
The more I think this way, the more I feel scared, and the more I think this way, the more uncomfortable I feel. I quickly woke up my male best friend. It was so coincidental that my husband also came back at this time and I heard the knock on the door. My husband was very angry. He probably failed in his business and drank wine.
I want my male best friend to hide behind the door and he will leave quickly when I open the door. I thought it was perfect, but my husband discovered it. When my husband saw this, he didn't say much, and just swung his fist and hit me. I know this is my fault, so I dare not refute or resist. After I was beaten by my husband, my husband told me, let's get a divorce. Since you don't want to be with me anymore, I will give you two.
You don’t love me anyway, my husband cried while talking. Faced with this, I don’t know what to do. The only thing I thought of was to escape, and then I went back to my parents' home and told my parents about this. I really didn't want to divorce my husband and didn't want to lose all this. My parents told me, who can I blame this ending? If you want to blame yourself, blame yourself. If you didn’t go too far, would your husband divorce you?
Now, you can only accept all of this yourself. The more my parents say this, the more uncomfortable I feel, the more I want to escape, because I don’t want to lose everything, but can I still go back to the past? Now I know that the male best friend treats me well for a purpose, just to find a suitable opportunity to get me. So your male best friend is also good to you for purpose. Don’t let everything ruin your male best friend. When something happens, it’s over.
Conclusion:
There is no free lunch at the end of the day. Everyone does things with a purpose, including your husband, your husband, if he doesn't love you or want to be with you, do you think you will be nice to you then? 100% no. If you didn’t love your husband, would you be nice to your husband? The same principle is definitely not true, so there is a reason why your male best friend is good to you. Is it really because you are good friends?
don’t you think it’s beyond the relationship of a good friend? So you must refuse these good things, because others are good to you with purpose. If you accept others' goodness, that is, indirectly accept others' love for you, you will ruin everything about you.
Nothing happened yet, because there is no chance yet. Once you have the chance, you will be like the woman in the article. If you regret it, you will know what to do. It will be too late to wait until that time. For yourself and for your family.You must stay away from your male best friend, otherwise you will definitely regret waiting for you. Let’s just say that if you are not responsible to yourself, then no one will be responsible to you. So you must learn to be responsible to yourself and how to be responsible to yourself, that is to stay away from your male best friend.
