People reach middle age. As the body functions fade, the loss of collagen and the metabolism slow down. Therefore, our skin begins to become loose, the fat begins to increase, and the whole person looks dim and irrelevant, and the charm is something that even more unimaginable.
So, when women reach middle age, they spontaneously become the "yellow-faced woman" in the eyes of many people, without any slimness, and use leftovers to make themselves eat fat.
Therefore, the divorce rate of middle-aged couples is also high, because men cannot experience the novelty and choose to end the marriage.
The kind of happiness a married person gets from the other party is just the beginning of a marriage, and it is by no means its full meaning. The full meaning of marriage is hidden in family life. Only by constantly managing and working hard can it become better. After all, happiness in a marriage is never achieved overnight.
No one stipulates that middle-aged women have only one way of living in life. As long as they are willing, they can exude different charm no matter what age they are at.
Psychological research shows that when a person reaches middle age, a woman with high emotional intelligence has a molting effect.
The most terrifying thing about a woman is that she never changes and remains unchanged
In fact, a person's middle age is sometimes somewhat similar to noon, just like a quadratic function diagram with an opening downward opening on the coordinate axis. Middle age is an extreme on the coordinate axis. After passing this extreme, some people's life begins to decline, so middle age is also an extreme on the life curve.
Some women regard marriage as a long-term meal ticket, and think that they start to rest assured when they enter the marriage.
So, from the moment they entered the marriage, their lives pressed the pause button - being full-time housewives, all their value is achieved through the stove and endless housework;
gave up the management of their self-image and was filled with haze every day, and whoever approached her would feel the negative energy emitted from her body;
didn't know about work, had no hobbies, and the social circle lost many friends because they didn't manage for a long time.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang said in her "A New Year's Eve": "How much life is there? How much gold can be refined by stubborn iron be? But different levels of exercise must have different degrees of achievement; different degrees of indulgence and indulgence must accumulate different degrees of stubbornness."
It's a pity that these women never know to inject new blood into their lives. Day after day, their marriage becomes lifeless because they lose freshness, and they themselves do not have the chance to control their partner.
molting effect: People should break out of their comfort zone and transform into a better self
Each of us has our own relatively safe area or comfort zone, and we will not have any worries in this circle.
But a comfortable environment will gradually destroy a person's fighting spirit, just like boiling a frog in warm water, it will make them mediocre and mediocre, wanting to change the status quo but powerless.
The so-called molting effect is that a person can and dare to break out of his comfort zone, try different things, and change himself.
The insects in biology are painful in the process of molting, but after pain, they will break out of their cocoon and become butterflies. Therefore, although it will take hardships to jump out of the comfort zone, after transformation, they will be a brand new and better self.
Reading, traveling, exercising and cultivating a hobby can all save a middle-aged woman from a decadent state, and every experience in a person's life is actually the same.
The sweat left by every effort is counted. These have brought us to this day step by step through time, and thus we have made a different self.
Continuous growth can maintain continuous attraction
In life, many women actually "dead" after they are thirty, because when they step into a certain point in time, their lives will no longer move forward. At this time, they are just a shadow of themselves, and they will spend the rest of their lives imitating themselves.
The unchanging things will lose their original life over time. Even the deepest feelings cannot resist the destruction of the same. There will always be some changes, so you have the motivation to continue.
Therefore, we must constantly change ourselves, enrich ourselves, and continuously improve our sense of value, so that our position in the relationship between the two sides of the gender can be consolidated and men can "submit" to ourselves.
Whether it is in her early twenties or thirty years old, even if we are in our thirties, as long as we face aging calmly, then a woman of any age will have the unreplicable beauty she presents at that age.
Never let yourself stop. Steps or souls must always move forward on the road. This way, offends us every day with freshness, and will attract our partner because of our own value, and we will not worry about the other party leaving.
