"People of my age, some children are already in college. I want to be a father too much. Don't worry. After the child is born, I am willing to take care of my baby at home and let you go out to film..."
011 In 2018, 38-year-old actress Xie Lan accidentally found herself pregnant. Her husband and both parents asked her to give birth to the child. Her husband teacher Xiaohong gave birth to the child with peace of mind. He said this to her seriously.
Faced with the continuous persuasion of the family and the repeated promises of her husband, Xie Lan, who had already insisted on dink 12 years, finally had to give birth to the child and became a mother.
From the time her husband promised her to be a DINK couple before marriage, to the time after marriage, the husband kept persuading her to having children, is Xie Lan's marriage really what she wants?
9, she gave birth to a child for love. It has been ten years since she gave birth to the child. Has she lived happily over the years?
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Xie Lan was born in January 1973 and is from Zhenjiang, Jiangsu. She grew up in a special family, with her parents both deaf and mute.
Fortunately, her parents' deafness and muteness were all formed by the acquired drug poisoning , and they were not born, so they were not inherited from Xie Lan and her younger brother.
Although she was born in a special family, Xie Lan never felt inferior because of this. On the contrary, she was sensible and well-behaved and knew how to protect her parents. When she was a child, she would immediately fight back when she met someone gossiping.
And her parents were also very nice to her. After discovering that she had talent in gymnastics, she even saved money and sent her to the sports school to study.
981, 8-year-old Xie Lan officially entered Zhenjiang Sports School. In order to practice gymnastics well, she practices basic skills very hard every day.
It’s a pity that although she made great progress, became the best among her classmates shortly after she entered the sports school, and even became a good seedling for being favored by the provincial gymnastics team. But when she was 11 years old, she had a training session Shi's accidental injury made her say goodbye to the gymnastics sport completely.
Xie Lan, who failed to continue to develop on the road of gymnastics, then returned to campus to study cultural courses. It was not until she graduated from junior high school that she determined her new direction in her life.
989, after finishing junior high school, 16-year-old Xie Lan was admitted to the Zhejiang Funny Theater Troupe. Because she kept her figure very well when she was practicing gymnastics when she was a child, and her outstanding appearance, she quickly gained a foothold in the troupe.
As she has more and more opportunities to perform on stage, she has gradually fallen in love with the art of performance. She is determined to achieve certain results on the road of acting. Just like when she was studying gymnastics before, she is working hard to perform every day. Knowledge.
In order to go further on this road, in the third year of joining the troupe, she resolutely gave up this job that was just a job and applied for Beijing Film Academy .
With her rich experience accumulated on the troupe stage and excellent acting skills, she successfully passed the Nortel TV admission examination and became a student of in the Nortel TV Performance Department.
In 1992, 19-year-old Xie Lan officially came to the campus of Beijing Film Academy. The same year she came here also famous actors such as Gao Xin, Wang Xinjun, Liu Weiwei, Li Yixiang .
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After entering Beijing Film Academy, Xie Lan worked hard to learn the knowledge of performance while actively seeking opportunities for development, and often traveled around major crews to find opportunities for filming.
When she was sophomore, she had outstanding appearance conditions and successfully won the famous director Yu Rentai , who has directed classic works such as " Thousand Kings 1991" and " The Legend of the White-Haired Witch ". She was invited to participate in the role. The film " Midnight Song " starring Leslie Cheung .
Although Xie Lan was just a college student who had not left campus at that time, and had not even filmed any film and television works, Yu Rentai still asked her to play the role of the heroine of the opera "Juliet". After the
film was popular, the fledgling Xie Lan successfully gained a foothold in the entertainment industry with this role and officially started her acting career.
After that, Xie Lan participated in "Courtesy Fighting", "The Show Girl", "Century Citizen", " Camel Road ", "The Story of the Red Apricots", " Little Women ", "" Film and television works such as Conscience " have become popular successfully with this excellent work after another.
While she was recognized by the audience, she has excellent acting skills and has won many awards for these works. , among which she starred in "Walking Through the Severe Winter" in 2000, won the seventh place for her. Outstanding Actress Award at the Huabiao Awards!
While her career is developing rapidly, Xie Lan, who has not improved in terms of love, also met her beloved man, and this person is her later husband Shi Xiaohong.
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Shi Xiaohong, who is 11 years older than Xie Lan, was born in 1962. He was from Xi'an, Shaanxi. He was a soldier in his early years and later entered the entertainment industry to develop.
Before meeting Xie Lan, Shi Xiaohong had already participated in " Love in the Rainy Season ", "Flying Over Desperate Land", "Poison Kiss", "Helan Snow", " Emperor Wu of Han ", " Never Close Your Eyes ", " Works such as "Getting into the wrong sedan chair and marrying the right man".
Compared with Xie Lan, his qualifications and career development are not bad at all.
Xie Lan and he met while filming the work "Loess and Blue Land ". At that time, Xie Lan played the role of "Yang Fan" in the film, while Shi Xiaohong played her partner in the film The role of "Wang Tiejun".
Although the two have an age gap of 11 years, they don’t seem to have any sense of incongruity in their works or in their lives.
They fell in love because of the drama, and they had a very hot fight in and out of the drama. Before the filming was finished, they became friends who could talk about everything. After filming the work "Loess and Blue Land", the two of them have maintained close contact in private. As the contact time becomes longer and longer, the two gradually develop a good impression of each other, but No one expressed his feelings to the other party.
Later, once, a Changchun friend of Shi Xiaohong bought a new car from Beijing and asked him to help him send it back. As a result, a driver who was traveling with him on the way had a car accident and ran into a large truck , and the car was hit beyond recognition.
Although Shi Xiaohong, who was driving another car, braked the car in time and was safe, this car accident experience made him figure out a lot of things. That night, he immediately called Xie Lan, whom he had long been in love with. Confessed her.
And unlike most people's confessions, he proposed to her before Xie Lan could give her a reply: "I love you, I want to marry you, are you willing to ? "
Maybe he felt a little hasty, so he continued: "You don't have to rush to reply to me, you can think about it carefully, I'll wait for you."
For more than a week after the confession, Shi Xiaohong kept He didn't dare to contact Xie Lan until he returned to Beijing from Changchun that he finally talked about this matter again when he met Xie Lan.
Facing Shi Xiaohong's direct love, Xie Lan did not feel embarrassed after fully understanding it. She said firmly: "I do."
Just like that, under Shi Xiaohong's brave pursuit, he successfully took Xie Lan's hand. , come together with her.
Because Xie Lan especially likes the profession of an actor, she made an appointment with Shi Xiaohong to not have children when she fell in love. Out of love for Xie Lan, Shi Xiaohong, who particularly likes the child, had to agree to her request.
000, not long after they fell in love, they quickly entered the palace of marriage and became a couple.
After marriage, Xie Lan put almost all her thoughts on her career and developed her acting career to a prosperous level.
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001, Xie Lan was invited to participate in a large number of powerful players including Chen Baoguo , Siqin Gaowa , Liu Peiqi , He Saifei , Jiang Wenli , Du Yulu and other powerful players. The classic hit drama " Da Mansion " starring the actor.
In the film, she plays the role of "Li Xiangxiu" in the second grandma Bai Wenshi . She interprets the playfulness and stinginess of this character to the fullest, leaving a deep impression on countless audiences.
In addition to the work "The House", Xie Lan has participated in one excellent work after another and portrayed one character after another that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
From "Ding Xiaoli" who is tenacious about life and love in "Snow White Blood Red", to "Yin Xuemei", the ordinary and great people's teacher "Yin Xuemei", to "Qin Hailan" who is full of scheming in " Heart Fire ", And the kind and filial "Liang Hongying" in " Ancient Village Women " and so on. While
, these classic works and characters have attracted countless fans, they have also won the Golden Eagle Awards, the most popular actress of the audience, and the best actress of the 4th New Rural TV Art Festival. Film and television awards!
While she was working hard to develop her career, her husband took on the responsibility of taking care of her family, especially to her deaf and mute parents, who were even more filial.
When Xie Lan was busy filming, her husband often took care of her parents and cared about her parents' lives. At the same time, he also helped her handle her relationship with her parents so that Xie Lan would not have to worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
For Xie Lan's only younger brother, Shi Xiaohong has always treated the other party as a brother, and has solved the other party's material needs in life.
It can be said that Whether as Xie Lan's husband, Xie Lan's parents' son-in-law, or Xie Lan's brother-in-law, Shi Xiaohong has achieved a clear conscience!
It is precisely because of the support and understanding of her husband that Xie Lan was able to develop her career with peace of mind after marriage and develop her career so well.
In order to repay her husband's efforts, she has been managing their relationship carefully. Therefore, the relationship between the couple has been maintained particularly stable after marriage, and her husband has always felt particularly happy about this.
The only thing that makes Shi Xiaohong regret is that after marriage, Xie Lan always insists on DINK and does not give birth to a son and half of his daughter. This is the thing he is most worried about, and it is also what their parents have been worried about for them. matter.
It was not until 2011 that the matter that worried Shi Xiaohong and her family was finally resolved.
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This year, Xie Lan, who had been persisting in DINK for 12 years since her marriage, unexpectedly became pregnant with Shi Xiaohong's child. Faced with the arrival of the child, she was immediately in a dilemma, who loved her career.
On the one hand, she loves and develops very well, and on the other hand, she loves her husband and family deeply, and she really doesn't know how to choose.
Fortunately, when she was in a dilemma, her husband and family gave her the confidence to give birth to a child.
After learning about her pregnancy, her husband was ecstatic at first. When he saw the worried look on her face, he immediately promised her: "Don't worry, I will take care of the child after he is born, it will not affect his impact. Your career."
Her mother-in-law also advised her: "I know you don't want to have a child, but since this child is pregnant, it means that you are destined to be with you, and you will still be born."
Facing the repeated recurrence of family members After persuading, Xie Lan finally made a decision that she would give birth to the child.
After confirming that the child was going to be born, Xie Lan put down her acting career that she had been passionate about for many years and prepared for the arrival of her child at home.
On April 14, 2012, after ten months of pregnancy, she successfully welcomed her child through a caesarean section in Beijing, and at the age of 39 she became a mother.
everyone says that being a mother is strong, but Xie Lan is just the opposite. Since the child was born, she has become a different person and gave all her tenderness to her child.
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In order to take care of the child, after the child was born, Xie Lan seemed to have given up her acting career and rarely filmed again.
We can see that in the 8 years between the time she gave birth to a child in 2012 and 2020, her only works she participated in are "Love Ladder", " Cherry Red Pocket Mom ", and "My Early "Girlfriend" these three works.
Compared with working hours, she devotes more time and energy to her family and children.
She took care of her children with sincerity, took on the responsibility of being a mother, and accompanied her children through a happy childhood.
In addition, , who had neglected to accompany her family before, also made up for her family during this period, especially her deaf and mute parents. She was very filial to her parents, not only letting her parents live long. The dependence has also become her parents' greatest support.
And as the child grows up, in 2021, Xie Lan also put her focus back on her career.
This year, she has brought film and television works such as "The Game Can't False" and "090 ". She performed particularly well in these works and has once again been recognized by the audience.
At the same time, she also participated in the drama version of "The House of Mansions" this year, which also caused quite a response.
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Now 49 years old, Xie Lan has returned to her favorite acting career and working hard. However, unlike when she was young, while developing her career, she did not ignore the company and care for her family.
She understands and supports each other with her husband. When she has a filming scene, her husband will be responsible for taking care of the family. When her husband is busy filming, she stays at home with peace of mind.
With the joint efforts of the couple, they not only take good care of their family, but also maintain the relationship between the couple very stable.
Although they have been married for more than 20 years, the couple, who are as loving as before, still live a very happy life.
I have to say that from insisting on DINK after marriage to becoming a good wife and mother after giving birth, Xie Lan's transformation has really been very big.
But for her transformation, the audience and fans were sincerely happy for her. After all, from the changes she had had children, we can find that her life has become more complete.
What's more, the arrival of the child did not completely stagnate her career. She can still bring excellent works to the audience. From this point of view, she has gained a lot of career, love and family, but in fact, this kind of life is so talented It's happier.
is here. I wish Xie Lan, who is very good at taking into account both her career and family, can develop better and better. I look forward to more of her good works.
At the same time, I also wish her family life will be happier and more fulfilling.
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