What era is it now, and what family rules are there? It should be an equal society now. If you follow the traffic rules in the article, you will never find a wife in your life. I hope this case can remind all men. No matter how you were inside, no matter how good you are in it now.
You can't do this. What you wait for will only lose everything and divorce your wife. Faced with these family rules, if it were me, I would choose to divorce. I hope everyone can pay attention to this. Don't let such a tragedy happen again. Let’s take a look at this matter together. On the night of the wedding, my husband proposed five rules for the whole family. My husband: For your own good, I: Get out, get divorced.
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31-year-old Ms. Xue:
Ms. 0 My mother told me that you are already 31 years old and are pregnant with the other person's child. How can we abide by those rules? Isn't it for your own good? What if you divorce your husband? What should I do if my child is divorced? Have you ever thought about these questions? If you are not married yet and have no children, then it's fine, the problem is that you already have children.
I really don’t know what to say, that’s because the rules are too unfair. Faced with these rules, I can only choose to divorce. If it were you, you would do the same. My father told me, I know this is a rule that is difficult for you, but your husband's conditions are too good.
has good conditions, so there are these rules. And don’t forget that if you separate from your husband, the children in your belly cannot be dealt with. Do you want the children in your belly and you say you love your husband very much? It is because of love that you are with your husband. Can’t you survive a little bit of difficulties now? If this were the case, we shouldn't have agreed to be together at the beginning. I was speechless. I didn't know that my husband and they were like that before. I only know now.
What can I do when faced with this? On the night when my husband and I got married, my husband slapped me in the face. My husband told me that from now on, I am the owner of this family, I am your husband, you must listen to me in everything, Otherwise, don't blame me.
originally I thought I would be very happy after getting married. But I couldn't bear it. On the night of my wedding, my husband would slap me, and this slap woke me up directly. I chose love, so I was with my husband, but my husband treated me like this.
My husband told me that I slap you for your own good, as long as you abide by the 5 family rules I set for you. Then we will live a good life in the future. If you are disobedient, don’t blame me for using the rules of the family. I have the final say on this guy, it’s all for your own good. My mother came here like this before. My mother and my father are so loving, isn’t it because there are family rules?
Don’t talk about my mother. My grandparents are also kind because this is the family rules, so for us, we must abide by these 5 family rules. Otherwise, don’t blame me. Don’t you love me very much? If you love me, just listen to me, for me and for this, he is even more for yourself. Do you understand?
Article 1 Family rules, you must give me the money you earn in the future.
Why do you say you have to give me the money you earn? I give the mortgage, and I give the living expenses, and I am a man and I have to have face. If you don’t give me your money, I will be able to have face. How can I live without face? I am your husband. If I am your husband, you should respect me and give me face. Of course, I will not treat you badly. If you say you have 5,000 yuan a month, then I will give you 250 yuan a month, which is 1/20.
and so on. No matter how much money you make, I will give you 1/20. Although 250 yuan is not a lot, I will give you everything at this home, eat mine, drink mine, and use mine. Yes, isn’t it enough to spend 250 yuan a month in the future? It costs 250 yuan a month, which means that it costs about 10 yuan a day, and you don’t have to pay for anything. It’s already great to have 10 yuan a day, right?
Although you gave me your money, I still have to pay back the car loan and mortgage, and I have to pay for the expenses at home. This is the case for those who have children in the future, so you should be content. You don’t have to spend money on anything, and then there is still 250 yuan, and there is nothing to be satisfied with. My parents' generation didn't have much money, they only cost a few dollars a month. Now I'll give you 250 dollars a month. What's the point?
Article 2 Family Rules, I will listen to me unconditionally in the future.
I am your husband. If you don’t listen to me, do you want to listen to other people’s? If you listen to me, I will not quarrel with you, and I will not hit you. This is also the life you want. If you don’t listen to me, I quarrel with you or say I hit you, who can I blame? It's because you don't listen to me.
There are many families who are not doing well. Do you know why? It is because those women don’t listen to their husbands, so men will quarrel with them and beat them. If you listen to me, even if I want to beat you, even if I want to There is no reason to quarrel with you, let alone beat you. For our happiness, you must listen to me, no matter what you do, and whatever I say is what I say, even if my thoughts and even if my statement is wrong, you must listen to me.
My mother and I have never quarreled in their entire lives because my mother listened to my father completely, and then my father had no reason to quarreled with my mother. You also want to be happy with me in the future. So just listen to me. I won’t quarrel with you. If you listen to me, I have no reason to quarrel with you. And what I can guarantee is that I will treat you well. If you listen to me, I will definitely do it. Treat you well because I love you.
Article 3 Family Rules, your parents will come to take care of my parents in the future.
is a matter for the future. Why do you say that your parents should take care of my parents? Isn’t it because my parents are too difficult? How much did my parents pay for this house? If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have asked my parents to buy a house. For this house, my parents and I paid everything, and they had no money, and even sold a lot of land in their hometown.
So in the future, your parents have to come here to take care of my parents. Not only do they take care of my parents, but also our question. Didn’t you say that you are the only daughter, and you have to support your parents in their old age. How to support your parents in their old age? Will you let your parents come here for nothing? You must let your parents make some contributions. If you can’t make contributions, don’t come here. There is no free lunch in the world. Even if they are your parents, even if they are my father-in-law and mother-in-law, they still have to come here to retire, and they must contribute to this family.
For example, it is OK to support my parents in their old age or take care of my parents. Anyway, my parents have worked hard all their lives and they have to need someone to take care of them when they are old. Then you need your parents to take care of my parents. Don’t think that you have treated your parents badly. It is already a great benefit for your parents to come here to support their elderly care.
Article 4 Family Rules, if I have anything to do with other women in the future, you can't care about me.
Although it is modern now, not ancient, men nowadays also have their own freedom. What I want to do is my own business, even if I have anything to do with other women, or if it is ambiguous or what is going on Yes, you can't care about my business.
In ancient times, men could have three wives and four concubines, but now I am now, I don’t have three wives and four concubines.By the way, I just chat with others or go out to play together. I will never do anything more excessive. At that time, I don't want you to make trouble with me because of these things. Any man who is not like this? Don't talk about me. That's it, I think every man is like this in real life.
You women just need to do what you should do. Just wait for me to come back at home to cook the rice and listen to me. What I do is my business. No matter how I play outside, I will go home when it gets dark, because I am your husband after all, and what I can guarantee is that I will never divorce you and will never hit you because of such a thing. of. I know how others are, and at most others are my playmates. Then you are my wife, I know.
Article 5 Family rules, listen to me when I am at home, and listen to my parents when I am not at home.
my parents raised me, I am not easy for me to raise me, I am not at home, you can’t bully my parents. Not only can you not bully my parents, but you also have to listen to my parents. My parents say what I say. You will do whatever my parents want you to do. Treat my parents how you treat me. My parents have the final say. . For example, if my parents want you to go east, you have to go east. If my parents want you to go west, then you have to go west.
Don’t feel embarrassed. If you do this, my parents will not quarrel with you. Then there will be no such thing as , mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there will be bad relationships with those mentioned. You listen to my parents so much, do you think my parents will make trouble with you? Definitely not. If that happens, you will definitely get along well in this family. My parents will be nice to you, and the same is true, I will be nice to you.
Just say that. When I am not at home, listen to my parents. When I am at home, just say that. I am the first, my parents are the second. Just listen to ours. Not only will they be nice to you. It's even better to this family. You won't want to make trouble with us. If you make a fuss with us, it will not be of any benefit to you, so don’t make a fuss with us and listen to us.
After my husband finished speaking these rules. Why not chatting anymore? My husband slapped me just now, and now I slapped back. I told my husband that you didn't treat me as your wife at all. In your heart, I am just a tool person, or a slave.
or otherwise, the rules would be so harsh. My husband told me that my parents and my grandparents all came through this way, and they lived so well because of these rules. I don’t care if you have to agree. If you want to live with me well, you can agree to this rule, otherwise don’t blame me. I treated me like this on the night of my wedding. How can I live my life in the future?
will not be able to live the life in the future. The more I think of this, the more uncomfortable I feel, and my tears instantly flow. I chose my husband because I love him. There were too many boys who pursued me in the past, but I rejected others and chose my husband. I didn’t expect that my husband would treat me like this that night.
could no longer bear it, so I chose to divorce, and I went back to my parents' home. Soon my parents and the others learned about this matter, but they didn’t divorce me. What do you think about this matter? Please help me judge it. If it were you, what would you do? Shouldn't you choose to divorce?
Conclusion:
is really helpless in the face of this matter. If it were me, I would also choose to divorce. To say something bad, your husband doesn't love you at all. If your husband loves you, he wouldn't treat you like this. . In your husband's heart, he has put forward 5 rules for you to make you surrender.
To put it bluntly, it is bullying you. You must refuse this. Once you agree to the pain in the future, it will never end. He can treat you like this and your parents like this in the future. So there is no need for you to do it for the sake of The so-called true love is meaningless and there will be no happiness.
so there is nothing wrong with you choosing to divorce. If it were me, I would also choose to divorce. I hope this case can remind all women to be careful when choosing a partner. Never be with these bastards, otherwise you will regret 100% of the time. Even if you abort the child, you will not be with these men. Together.
also hopes that this case can remind all men. In what era now, should you still treat your wife like this? What you do this will definitely be a tragedy. Don’t blame your wife for divorceing you at that time. If you want to blame yourself, you are too embarrassed. Do you understand?
