Ren Duomei, a woman who regards marriage as an investment, comes from a small place, and graduates from a second-rate university, married to her doctoral husband who is two houses in big cities and is chased by doctors and nurses in the hospital. In order to maintain this marriage, she became a full-time housewife when she got married, and used all her strength to flatter her mother-in-law and pleased her husband with every hole. I also clearly know that I am a wife who may be replaced at any time, so I moved the theory of "there is a workplace, there is competition, and there is competition, there is crisis" in the workplace to marriage.
It’s a pity that after three years of marriage, her husband rejected having children, but her parents-in-law gave her all the pressure. A "second-generation medical practitioner" appeared around her again. The young, beautiful and anxious mistress even crossed her and even got in touch with her mother-in-law.
survives on marriage, but his virtuousness and virtue have become a shortcoming. My mother-in-law looks down on me, and my husband is close and close. I only have 3 minutes to communicate with the video. All the news is the last one to know, and even my circle of friends blocked her. Essence The label of "a tall married daughter" on her body cannot be torn apart, because she is always an outsider who is strictly guarding her in-laws.
I have seen this sentence: A bird standing on a tree is never afraid of the branches breaking. Because it relies not on branches, but on its wings.
In-law's family
Ren Duomei is very beautiful, but this is not a good thing for her mother-in-law.
Because mother-in-law chooses daughter-in-law, the most important thing is education, ability, family background, rather than appearance. Women who even think that they are too beautiful will lead their son badly. But as a mother, she doesn't want to have a quarrel with her son no matter what.
Everyone says that women understand women the best, and their mother-in-law agrees to Ren Duomei enter the door, but they have extremely high requirements for her. The first thing to do when you come to your house is to check your hygiene. Even if your son is not at home when he goes abroad, the family must be spotless. Unfortunately, my mother-in-law discovered her newly sold vacuum cleaner, , and she warned her without any concealment, "If you mop the floor, you have to use a mop, and it is wet, it is the cleanest." Duomei naturally dared not resist. Although his expression was a little unhappy, he still answered obediently, "Mom, I understand."
In fact, when Duomei got married, she did not receive a high bride price, and her name was not added to her two houses in her husband's family. Even though she wears high-end clothes every day, lives in a big house, and drives an Mercedes-Benz car, none of this belongs to her. Because the house was bought by her parents-in-law and the car was bought by her husband before marriage, the clothes in the closet that looked a little bit were hers. But she still had no complaints and was even a little happy.
My mother-in-law occasionally praises her for being sensible, and she quickly answers, "It's all my mother who has trained her well." My mother-in-law brought a box of ginseng and asked her to give it to her husband's leader. She didn't dare to use it herself before she gave it to her. She was determined to return it to her mother-in-law. Because my mother-in-law disliked her parents' home as a small place, even if her parents came to a big city to find her, she would not dare to arrange for her to live at home. Even if the two families could not escape, they would quickly knock their mother to "Second Aunt's House". But she didn't have any second aunt's house, she just used an excuse to rush her mother to the hotel to hide.
Mother-in-law High blood pressure was hospitalized. She brought soup that had been boiled for several hours to visit early in the morning. But when she arrived at the hospital, she didn't even dare to sit on a stool. When she saw her mother-in-law pretending to be asleep, she didn't dare to wake her up. Put the soup quietly and leave.
It is really rare to see his daughter-in-law who is as filial to his mother-in-law as she has been in three years. However, she knew that she did not have much filial piety in her heart, but if she wanted to seize this marriage, she had to learn to be a junior high school student.
Unfortunately, she was named a 24-filial daughter-in-law, but she couldn't touch her mother-in-law's heart. Because the mother-in-law only hopes that her son can achieve success in his career, but as for a caring young wife like her, she has caught a lot of them on the street. It will be a matter of time before people with no core competitiveness in are replaced.
Far home
Du Mei is a typical woman who married a good husband and forgot my mother.Why does
say so?
Because every time her parents come to a big city to find her with various local specialties, she will arrange for her parents to stay in a hotel. Although the hotel is not bad, her inner feelings are still worse than living in her son-in-law's house. A big piece.
It is true that the relationship between the two families was tense because of the high bride price she asked for when she got married. However, she has been married for more than three years, so she can't keep the relationship between the two families stalemate, but she doesn't plan to Make any improvements.
The mother who lives in a hotel and cooks noodles, she nags with her as usual about the resentment of not being able to live in the house, and repeatedly reminds her not to indulge her husband too much to prevent her husband from cheating, and she still knows nothing. But in addition to answering, she also seemed a little impatient.
More beauty is not a love brain, and I know that I have married into such a family background. marriage certificate is not the only weight to control my marriage. But she was not a woman who rose up after listening to her mother's ugly words. On the contrary, she could remain calm even if the marriage really turned on.
Because the mother's family is weak, it is the biggest reason why women cannot raise their heads in their in-laws' family.
In her heart, she had already planned it. As long as she flattered her mother-in-law, pleased her mother-in-law, and then gave birth to a child smoothly, even if her husband really had a second heart, she would not be considered supportive. So, what she has to do now is to prevent her parents from getting involved in her marriage as much as possible, and cut off the conflict between her husband's family and her parents' family from her.
No matter how good her mother's family is, it is still useless without ability. Although her in-laws treats her as an outsider, she is rich and powerful. As long as she manages well, she can always get more. The money is always in her hands. She knows the truth that putting the bags in order to be safe.
mistress lingering
junior sister, this kind of creature is indeed a reserve member of mistress.
No surprise, a junior sister appeared beside Duomei’s husband. Moreover, this junior sister is not only a “second-generation medical practitioner”, but her father is also the new dean’s master. I am beautiful, have strong education and ability. The most fatal thing is to be eyeing her husband.
Just when she went to the hospital to pick up her husband from get off work, the junior sister threatened her straight ball.
"I didn't expect you to be very loving before returning to China, but I think the most important thing for senior brother is to sit firmly in the yard, but you can't help him. I can help him, this time I'm just for He went to New York." ”
The junior sister who can say such words is obviously challenging Duomei. Looking back, the main reason why my junior sister is so unpredictable to her wife is her superiority. Whether
can grasp happiness is not a means, but a ability.
In fact, Duomei has long known that this junior sister is ill-hearted. The reason why her husband is still tolerant after returning to China is that she has repeatedly repaired her relationship with her husband. It was also because she knew that she could not compare with her junior sister. The marriage certificate was not good, and the only bargaining chip was her caring and tempting body.
Unfortunately, the junior sister directly crossed her and climbed up to what beautiful mother-in-law. You should know that my mother-in-law has never truly accepted Dumei. Now there is a young girl with background who pays her son. Not to mention rejection, if allowed, my mother-in-law would be celebrating with drums and drums.
Ren Duomei fights against the scheming junior sister, and there is almost no chance of winning. But since she regards marriage as an investment, how could she give up whenever there is news? However, this battle to defend marriage is not easy, and the first thing she has to bear is that she has to have the ability to protect herself first.
Husband doesn’t want children
Husband Zhang Weichen likes Ren Duomei, but he doesn’t like it very much.
Because a man will only be blinded by beauty for a moment, but it is difficult to trip him up and never leave for the rest of his life.
Zhang Weichen ruled out the objection of his parents, rejected all those who took the initiative to have an ambiguous relationship, and married Ren Duomei, but when he had a beautiful wife and was focused on his career, he found that a beautiful wife would be beautiful, but right He really doesn't do much.
Especially this new topic of studying abroad, I had to lose the opportunity to stay abroad because I had no connections and finally returned to China in shame. This kind of blow can really stay in a man's heart for the rest of his life.
Although he was once again fascinated by how beautiful his virtuous and beautiful, when the two of them were in love, he still never thought about having a child. The one who can make a man's arrow on the string but stops his horse in an instant must be his second intention.
Since the junior sister appeared, he has begun to have new considerations. On one hand, he is pointing at his wife who lives, and on the other hand, he is a junior sister who can help him become famous. It is difficult for a man not to be moved. Otherwise, he could use his married identity to keep a distance from his junior sister. I won’t be able to block my wife when I post on Moments.
But this is fatal to Dumei. Not to mention that my mother-in-law has issued an ultimatum to ask her to have a child as soon as possible. She also urgently needs to tie this hard-earned marriage with her children. However, she couldn't decide on giving birth alone.
A man who is willing to have children with a woman may not be true love. A man who does not want to have children may not even have love, let alone sincerity. With the woman's sixth sense, Duomei knew that her husband's heart was shaken. Perhaps she had not been attacked yet, but the dam of a thousand miles was destroyed by an ant hole, so she really didn't have much time left.
What is the picture of a high-married daughter
After watching " Their Names ", I kept thinking that Ren Duomei has good conditions. Even if she loses Zhang Weichen, her life will not be too miserable. She has put so much effort into it. If you have to marry a high man, what is the purpose of it?
Later, I realized that she was just for the word "high marriage".
There is a passage in "Basement Notes":
What a person needs is only his desire for independence, no matter how much it costs to achieve this independence, no matter where this independence will lead him.
Duomei has lived in a vain and stolen family since childhood. Using marriage to change her destiny will be her only way out. And she really realized this way out. Faced with the wealth that has been obtained, I am afraid that I will not be willing to give up.
Just like Mo Lan in "Knowing or Not", she betrayed her innocence and wanted to marry to the Count's Mansion with a poor character, because the phoenix that landed on the ground was not as good as a chicken, and she would rather step on the tail of a phoenix than be a chicken.
is like Duomei. He looks down on those who are inferior to you and cannot climb on those who are better than you. He finally catches one, and he will not let go even if he loses his skin.
only plant wutong to attract phoenixes.
If you want to change your destiny, no one can rely on it. If you rely on it, you will fall, and you will run away. Only you can be the most reliable. Treat yourself as an independent and complete body, every effort belongs to you, and every step forward is solid. Only by climbing the peak can you touch your destiny!
