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has two sons in the family. Mother -in -law not only treats her son equally, but also treats daughter -in -law and grandchildren equally. Son and daughter -in -law are a whole. The grandchildren are the continuation of their family blood. These people are relatives, and her mother -in -law should treat them fairly.
Different daughters -in -law comes from different families. Naturally, there will be many different places. Mother -in -law should tolerate them as much as possible. The relationship between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law is difficult to get along. If my mother -in -law still needs to treat different daughter -in -law, then this big family will definitely be discordant.
has long been for men and women equal , and should not have the idea of being light and young. The achievements of women in some areas are far more than men's achievements. What are the reasons to see how to see women? The social status of men and women is equal. In family life, men and women are equal.
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children have given birth to a child, and the mother -in -law only cares about the children who take care of their eldest son's house in the countryside and do not wait for her daughter -in -law to confine. The daughter -in -law had no choice but to be a full -time mother. Who knows, the mother -in -law sent the child's child to the younger son's house and asked the daughter -in -law to help take care of it.
This happens to happen in Ling Yanmeng's house. For her mother -in -law does not come to take care of her confinement, and she is very angry about her child who takes care of her brother's family. Let's listen to their stories.
Self -described: Ling Yanmeng
Age: 28 -year -old
Profession L0
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I have a brother. When I am married to my husband, my brother's child is just two years old. It's a mother -in -law. Listening to her husband said that her brother -in -law went to work as soon as she got married. Later, when the sister -in -law became pregnant, she returned to her hometown to raise her fetus, and her mother -in -law took care of her. After
was born, her mother -in -law took care of her confinement and contracted all the expenses. When the child was four months old, the sister -in -law broke the milk for the child, and then went to work in a foreign country, and the child was brought by her mother -in -law.
The second year after marrying my husband, I was also pregnant. Of course, our husband and wife were very happy. When my husband said that after I gave birth to a child, my mother -in -law would definitely come to serve me to confine and help us bring the children. I am also convinced of this, because her mother -in -law always said that she treats the two sons in a good way.
was when I gave birth to a child, and when my husband asked my mother -in -law to serve me to confine, my mother -in -law said that she would take care of her grandson at home, can't take care of me to take care of me, and let us find a way! This surprised me and my husband. We thought that my mother -in -law would definitely come.
I secretly wondered if I was born because I was a girl. The sister -in -law was born with a boy. The mother -in -law was a male light and a girl, so I didn't come to serve me to confine. After I told my husband, my husband said it was impossible. My mother -in -law must not really go. A big grandson entangled her, and she couldn't help it.
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My mother died in the past few years. My dad worked in a private factory. No one came to take care of me at all. Now my mother -in -law does not take care of me. If HTML May May is invited, my husband and I can't afford it. When we got married, the loan bought a wedding room, and now we have been repaying the mortgage. How can we ask Yueyue?
so we can only overcome us. The husband goes home after class every day. After returning home, he is a lot of housework. After my husband goes to work, I take care of myself and take care of my children. I ate a lot in the confinement, and because I was a novice mother, I didn't understand many places. If my mother -in -law was there, I could ask her.
I complained about her mother -in -law very much. She said in a vocal treating the two sons, but in fact it was not the case at all. After the eldest son had a child, she paid for the money and kept helping to bring the child; after the younger son had a child, she ignored it and didn't care about anything.
finally turned to confinement. My husband and I finally improved a little bit, and my husband was easy. But in a blink of an eye, my maternity leave is about to end, which means that I have to go to work.Her husband called her mother -in -law again and wanted her to help bring her children, but her mother -in -law said she was going to pick up the grandchildren to kindergarten.
said that he could let his father -in -law pick up and drop off. My mother -in -law came to our house to bring my granddaughter, but her mother -in -law resolutely disagreed. She said that her father -in -law couldn't bring her children. If the grandson had three long or two shorts, she could not explain to her eldest son's house, so she had to stay in the countryside to take care of her grandson.
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Husband has no choice but to discuss with me and let me resign as a full -time mother. I was reluctant to do that job, and I was angry when I thought of my mother -in -law so differently to treat the two sons' houses. Her husband was helpless, and he couldn't ask for fucking, so he could only feel sullen. No one in
helps us bring our children, and we can't afford a nanny, and we don't worry about handing the children to an outsider, so I can only be a full -time mother. Unexpectedly, after my mother -in -law knew that I resigned from work, I sent the kindergarten's summer grandson, and asked me to help take care of a summer vacation. I stunned
, how could there be such a thing? My mother -in -law said that bringing one is also a band, and two are also band. Anyway, my daughter is still young and is not working hard. The nephew is sensible. As long as I was responsible for cooking and washing him, I can pick it up when the summer vacation is over.
Mother -in -law who wants to come up with the nephew, but not a kitten and puppy. How can it be as simple as eating and clothes? The mother -in -law also said that she and the old man's money were posted on the grandson, so she went to make a cleaners and had to make some money. Now the grandson is going to take a summer vacation. If she takes her grandson at home, she can't go to work. I am very angry with
. My in -laws even spent their money on my grandson. How can I spend a little bit on my granddaughter? My mother -in -law said that the eldest son and husband worked in a foreign country. It was not easy and could not make money. The younger son is stable and earns more money than the eldest son, so they have to help their eldest son's house.
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I am very angry. The eldest son's husband and wife are working, and the salary is not low. They have been crying in front of the in -laws. Later, my mother -in -law did not ask me at all, so she claimed that she had left the child and returned to the countryside. When
returned from get off work, I told him that he was very angry, saying that we were busy enough, how can we still take care of the nephew? Besides, taking care of children is to bear responsibility. The nephew is the age of naughty and troubles. We can't afford this responsibility.
said angrily that her mother -in -law not only did not help us, but also had trouble to us. In order to comfort me, my husband told me not to take care of it. He would deal with it. The next day, her husband asked for a day off in the unit, and then sent his nephew back to the countryside. When her mother -in -law was sent back, she quarreled with her younger son. After
, I heard that her mother -in -law took her nephew to be a cleaners, because she was busy cleaning and did not notice the child. The child fell down and fell into a calf fracture. Her forehead and arm broke.
rushed back in a hurry after knowing that she was in a hurry, and she blame her mother -in -law as soon as she returned, scolding her mother -in -law and crying. Her husband and father -in -law were very angry, so they scolded their brother -in -law and trained their husbands and wives. Later, her mother -in -law no longer wanted to help them bring their children, and my brother could only take the child to the place where he worked.
Conclusion:
Raising the child is the responsibility of the parents. Grandpa and grandma have no obligation, and parents cannot force grandparents. The reason why Ling Yanmeng's house was unhappy was caused by the irresponsibility of his brother -in -law. They gave birth to a child but did not raise them. They threw the children to the in -laws. When
Ling Yimeng's mother -in -law brought her grandson, she had to work hard and had to pay money. Of course, the burden was heavy. Because of the heavy burden, she didn't care after the younger son's family gave birth to a child. But in this way, she was not fair to the two sons' houses, and of course the younger son's house would have opinions. In order to do the work of a cleaners,
sent her grandson to the younger son's house and asked her daughter -in -law to help take the child. How could the daughter -in -law be willing? It is responsible for bringing children. Children not only have to eat, but also educate them. Education requires parents and teachers to bear it.
parents have the obligation to support and educate their children, which is clearly stipulated by the law. If you do n’t have the ability to raise your child, do n’t give birth to your child; since you have given birth to the child, you must be responsible for the end. You ca n’t just throw the child to the elderly.
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