Human progress means a better state of mind than at the beginning of the world.
Rabindranath Tagore once said: "Only by going through hellish training can one develop the power to create heaven, and only by bleeding fingers can the swan song of the world be played."
When a person reaches middle age, his heart is broad, gentle and generous. This will prolong your life and bring you good luck.
01. Be broad-minded, have a relaxed attitude, and be tolerant
In 1976, an ordinary little girl was born.
However, the embarrassment of life caused her to have no milk when she was born, and her body was very thin.
When she was young, her father abandoned her again, leaving her and her mother alone.
When she reached school age, her classmates often laughed at her for being a wild child without a father. At first, she always ran home crying and complained to her mother, but her mother could only cry with her. But later, she forced herself to ignore the mocking voices.
In a singing selection, the examiner asked her: "What does your father do?"
She replied: "My father went to look after the children at someone else's house."
The teacher looked at this little self-deprecating child with a smile in his eyes. She shed tears and couldn't help but be moved by her stubbornness and strength.
She walks and sings with her head held high every day , because of her impressive talent, she was competed by many publishing companies and audiovisual art companies, and many tapes were recorded for her, becoming a dazzling "star" among many young singers at home and abroad.
She is popular throughout the country Sun Jiaxing , who sang "Looking for Dad" at the song seminar, her singing technique of "Looking for Dad" was hailed as a "good example" of popular singing methods for teenagers.
It is her relaxed mentality and no longer entangled with her father that makes her a strong girl. It is also because of her tolerance that she does not resent her father and has a bigger picture.
Only brave people know how to be tolerant; a coward will never be tolerant, it is not his nature. ──Stern
02. Be gentle and avoid both arrogance and impetuosity
Guo Degang ht Mr. ml4 will say something every time he performs:
"My ability is average, my level is limited, I am just a primary school student in the cross talk world."
When it comes to the art of cross talk, Guo Degang's name is well-known in today's China. But even though his career is at its peak, Guo Degang remains as low-key and humble as ever.
Thinking of his entrepreneurial experience, we can't help but feel the same way for those of us who are new to the workplace. We went to Beijing three times just to find a small group or an organization to accept us and allow us to continue talking about cross talk.
As a result, no one gave him a chance, and no one looked at him seriously.
once boiled a pound of noodles into a pot of batter so that he could eat two more meals.
Now Deyunshe is glamorous, but Guo Degang is still humble, just like his apprentice Luan Yunping said in an interview: "My master is still so simple now, a steamed bun has hair. , he took off the hairy area and continued to eat. "
After experiencing hardship, too many people can't control themselves and start to indulge in extravagance, eating and drinking, extravagant and wasteful, just to make up for the hardships and sufferings. Rolling eyes, unfair treatment.
But a thousand-mile dike is destroyed by an ant nest. The joy brought by temporary success is likely to impact our calm brain, making us indulge in honor and applause, and then breed arrogance.
Lao She once said: "Pride and complacency are a terrible trap for us; moreover, this trap is dug by ourselves."
Full of losses, modesty benefits. It is a summary of the wisdom of the ancients. A humble heart can bring happiness and purify the soul.
03. The quantity is large, so we should not only be in awe, but also sublime.
As the saying goes, "Thunder, rain, and dew are all God's grace."
Nature has given us everything, and only with respect can we live in harmony. However, some people want to be unconventional and do whatever it takes for their own selfish interests.
When a person does not know how to be reverent, then he has no bottom line. Of course, a person without a bottom line will have no scruples and act arbitrarily.
Some time ago, the incident of an Internet celebrity eating a great white shark once again refreshed our three views;
html On August 1, the Internet celebrity blogger "Tizi" released a video of grilling a shark, which attracted attention. According to police identification, the video The shark in the picture is the Great White Shark, which is a second-level nationally protected animal.
Looking through her past videos, she has eaten a six-meter-long earthworm and a sixty-pound giant salamander!
In the video, she pretends to be an innocent little girl. No one would have thought that she could bite a shark that is taller than her!
Such people are ignorant and have no awe .
The British poet Robert Browning once said: "Ignorance is not innocence, but guilt."
Ignorance is not terrible. Ignorance can change itself through hard study; but the fearlessness of being alone is hard to describe.
People without awe have no "heaven, earth, king, relatives, and teachers" in their eyes. They can only see themselves, and they only have self, interests and enjoyment in their eyes.
The ancients said: "If you are afraid, you will not dare to do anything and achieve virtue; if you are fearless, you will do what you want and bring disaster."
Only with awe can we maintain inner peace and abide by the calmness and calmness of the soul.
In the vast universe, life is only one hundred years, but as short as flying catkins.
The value when life is about to end is higher than the value at the beginning of life. This should be the meaning and purpose of our lives.
The efforts and hard work we put in to respect life are human dignity and the essence of life.
During this long process, only if you can let your mind rest and practice practice, your life will not be wasted.
About the author: Hanxiao, loves words, loves smiles, and loves life.
