When you are cheated in business, or when you encounter unfair treatment in interpersonal relationships, or in the ups and downs of partners, in money transactions, in favors and gifts, even if you never overestimate your relationship with your relatives and friends, life will also Let you experience some things and let you understand whether the people around you are humans or ghosts! People are accustomed to lamenting the indifference of the world, and only then do they truly understand the indifference of the world when encountering conflicts of interest. A friend who talks about everything, sometimes when we need his help, he may give us the feeling that he will just stand by and watch. You must have taken the initiative to help a friend in difficulty, and there must also be someone who took the initiative to help you when you were in difficulty, and someone who helped you when you fell into trouble! We can help others, assist others to succeed or achieve other people's goals, but we should never expect others to be grateful. If you never forget your kindness to others, you will eventually lose such friends. If you don't forget what you have given in the past, you will control and demand, and demand in the name of feelings. This is unequal interpersonal communication, which will seriously hurt feelings. Some people take feelings lightly, while others take feelings seriously. It is very dangerous if we stay in comparison. We don’t think that people who take feelings lightly are unsympathetic, and we don’t have to be very insistent that our friends must value feelings and righteousness. If so, we will become self-centered and full of greed. Jealousy, arrogance. When you stop comparing where you are now with where you wish you were, you can start to be grateful for what you have. I do what I can do by myself.
