In 2000, 40-year-old Tengger was in trouble.
5 All his restaurants closed down. His house was gone, his car was gone, and his wife was gone.
Tengger said: "At that time, all I had in my body was the 20-year-old Kali. 10,000, but there’s no point regretting it.”
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Tengger was born in the grassland. His parents are herdsmen on the grassland. He is the third eldest child in the family.
He has two sisters. Later, a younger brother was added to the family.
A younger sister. The life of a family of seven is difficult.
He has been able to do these tasks since he was young: cooking, feeding sheep, and collecting cow dung.
Growing up on the grasslands, music and dance are an important part of their lives.
Even the elderly and children can dance a few Mongolian dances and sing a few Mongolian long tunes.
Tengger has been singing since he was a child. He has a good voice and sings Mongolian songs very melodiously. When
is not working, he sits on the grass and sings a few songs to his friends.
Only at this time did he stop being so naughty and causing trouble, and instead devoted himself to singing.
Because he is naughty and active, Tengger's academic performance has not been very good.
When he was taking the exam, his sister gave him the suggestion to apply for an art school,
because art schools had relatively poor performance in cultural courses. It is said that the requirements are low,
and my younger brother is very talented, whether it is singing or dancing.
Tengger also felt that his sister was right, so he applied for the Inner Mongolia Art School and was successfully admitted.
But the major he chose was not singing, but folk dance and musical instruments sanxian.
His hearing is so good that he can know the pitch just by pressing any key on the piano.
Teng Gele spent four years of happy college life in Hohhot.
After graduation, he stayed in school and became a teacher.
In the second year, he went to Central Conservatory of Music to continue his studies, although his father did not support it. ,
Because the teacher's job is relatively stable, and my son has to study and he has to pay for tuition.
Another year passed, and he was admitted to Tianjin Conservatory of Music to study composition.
His lifelong hobby began at this time.
His classmates used all the subsidies from blood donations to buy learning materials,
Can It was Tengger who surprised everyone. Before he could keep his money warm, he used it to buy mutton and spirits.
After graduating from the composition department of Tianjin Conservatory of Music, he was assigned to the Beijing Central Ethnic Song and Dance Ensemble.
From now on At that time, he was engaged in sanxian playing, and sometimes he also danced with others.
Because he likes to drink and eat meat, his living expenses are limited, so he can only find another way.
This habit started when he was in junior high school. When his parents went out, he would secretly drink the kumis at home.
At family gatherings or weddings and weddings, he will definitely be willing to help because there is free wine to drink.
When Central Song and Dance Ensemble ran out of wine, he began to think of a way, so he appeared at various competitions.
He met his first wife at this time. Once he went to participate in a cultural performance.
He participated as a singer.
The host of the performance was the Mongolian girl Hasgaowa . After the event,
he and Miss Haas became friends. After chatting, they found out that
he and Haas were actually classmates in elementary school.
At that time, Haas was already a well-known host,
and he was just an unknown song and dance troupe actor,
who often had to sing for people to earn some tips to supplement his life.
There was a gap between the two in their careers, but they hit it off very well.
After seeing each other once, they couldn't forget each other and kept in touch.
They had known each other for less than a year, and they held a simple wedding in Beijing.
After Haas So marrying him is, as she said,
I fell in love with his ambition, he is a very thoughtful person, and you will not be lonely living with him.
After getting married, they had no money to buy a house, so they lived in a small 20-square-meter bungalow assigned to them by the song and dance troupe.
Although the conditions were difficult, they were very happy.
In 1989, Tengger won first place in the pop singer audition,
a record company approached him to sign a contract.
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Tengger's career took a turn for the better. He and his friends formed a "Canglang Band".
's next song " Paradise " became popular all over the country.
He has more and more social activities every day, and often encounters situations that he cannot refuse.
He already had this hobby, but now he can no longer control it.
He often gets drunk late at night and staggers around alone. go home.
Although the wife was helpless at this time, she knew that her husband was on the rise in his career, so she had no choice but to accommodate him.
After Tengger achieved success in his career, he opened five restaurants one after another.
Because he was outgoing, he had many friends in the entertainment industry.
often came to his restaurant for parties, basically eating and drinking for free, because when they When paying the bill,
Tengger always said boldly: “My friend, it’s mine! "
And he has many fans. When they come here to eat and sometimes meet Tengger,
they will sincerely praise and say: "Teacher, we like your songs so much, we will always support you!"
That's it! In a word, with a wave of Tengger's hand, he often doesn't have to pay the bill.
In just a few years, all five restaurants closed down, and his health became worse and worse.
Later, the car and house were sold, and I only had 200,000 yuan in my body.
He spent all his money on drinking, and he squandered at least six to seven million on this matter. When he was 40 years old, his wife filed for divorce.
Although he was a little confused at the time, he knew that someone who was leaving could not be kept, so he put her on the train.
During the Chinese New Year, he returned to his hometown on the grassland in Ordos, Inner Mongolia alone from Beijing.
He did not only ride horses but also drink. Every day he emptied himself, starting with two kilograms of liquor.
Two months later, he took the train back to Beijing alone.
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In 1997, he went to perform at the Naadam Convention with his friends, where he met Mongolian dance actor Zhula .
When their band finished singing the last song that day, a beautiful girl presented them with flowers.
The girl was wearing A bright yellow long-sleeved coat with beautiful little flowers embroidered on the cuffs.
After the performance, everyone had dinner together, and the girl took the initiative to sit at their table and chat with them about music.
It turns out that she is an actress in a song and dance troupe. She has known Tengger as a singer for a long time and has always admired her. I was very happy to meet him today.
On that day, everyone talked and laughed, but Tengger didn't drink a glass of wine. They kept each other when they separated. contact details.
A month after returning to Beijing, Tengger did not receive a call from the other party, so he took the initiative to call her.
The other party was surprised when she received the call. Tengger invited her to come if nothing happened. Playing in Beijing,
Zhu La happened to have an event in Beijing to attend, so I went to Beijing after being invited. After
Zhu La arrived in Beijing, I watched many performances with him and was fascinated by this talented and slightly experienced man. .
The two people kept getting along with each other in different places, and two years later they entered the palace of marriage.
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In December 2004, Tengger received the most beautiful gift in life: his first child was born.
He got a daughter in middle age and regarded her as a pearl. However, the doctor soon told them that his daughter had a congenital disease.
This was a bolt from the blue for him. During that time, he gave up all his work and worked for My daughter sought medical treatment everywhere.
You can give up your career, but you can't lose your daughter. Although he tried all his efforts as a father, his daughter's life was fixed at the age of 6.
After his daughter left, his heart was completely empty. During that time, he started drinking again, drinking one bowl after another.
The pain of losing his daughter made it impossible for him to stay at home alone. He would not cry every day, and even if he was in pain, he would just keep it in his heart.
One day he dreamed of his daughter, who asked him to be strong and sing. From that morning on, he seemed to be reborn.
He cut off his long hair, which was not much, and completely transformed into a cute bald man.
His music style also began to change. He let himself go more and more, and began to cover other people's songs.
As long as someone invited him to participate in the show, he would participate as promised.
During this period, he also participated in the filming of two movies, He played a guest role in it.
He puts all his energy into his work and wants his daughter to know that he is living a good life and will not worry her.
Tengger loved to be competitive when he was young. He couldn't get over many things and would get into fights with others if he didn't deal with them even after a few words.
Nowadays, he is getting along with everything. At this age, he no longer wants to compete.
He said in the program that when reporters went to his hometown to interview his mother, his mother said in Mongolian : "It doesn't matter whether you are famous outside or not, as long as you don't do bad things, that's fine."
In the eyes of his mother, a person who doesn't A son who does bad things is a sensible son.
Today, Tengger is 62 years old. He talks less and less, but he is also becoming happier.
Although his son is already fifteen years old, in the dead of night,
he will still think of her daughter. If she were here, she would be eighteen years old.
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What is the story of Tengger’s ex-wife’s life after she divorced him?
It seemed that she left very freely at that time, but in fact she was very heartbroken and did not come out for a long time.
Half a year after the divorce, she resigned from the song and dance troupe and traveled alone.
She understands that no man can be everything in your life, so don't be man-centered.
Don't think about relying on anyone. You must know that no one can rely on except yourself.
After she recovered her mood, she returned to the entertainment industry.
participated in the filming of film and television dramas such as " Return of the Heroes from the East", " Warm Love" and "Return to the Tiny River".
After years of hard work, she owns a house in Beijing, but she is still single.
Her family, relatives and friends persuade her to find her partner as soon as possible, but what she feels is freedom and ease.
The older she gets, the less she wants to marry her because she looks around. Even those who are married feel that their lives are no better than hers.
Hasgova is 61 years old. She is still single and has no children.
She has achieved three things: financial independence, good health, and maintaining appearance.
As for when to get married, it is still not on the agenda.
She said: "Not getting married or getting married is just a state of life for a period of time. In the end, you will only be alone in life."
