In the process of interpersonal interaction, the embodiment of high emotional intelligence is to express your own opinions into the hearts of others. However, because most people tend to put themselves first when communicating with others and express their opinions forcefully, which leads to poor communication and the final effect is obviously not very good. Therefore, in communication, there are several important points that you will definitely encounter. Pay attention to and learn these points, and emotional intelligence will increase a little bit:
①. Respect others, maintain the other person's self-esteem and face, and communication will be smooth. Already half successful;
②. Give the other party suggestions in a tactful way, not Able to use a strong commanding tone, such as what you should do;
③. You should take the initiative to forget the privacy or secrets that others actively or unintentionally share;
④. Affirm the other person's point of view, mostly agree with the other person's views on things, and disagree with a small part. It cannot be all positive, nor can it be all negative;
⑤. When the interests of both parties conflict, proactive overtures are better than tit-for-tat;
⑥. Lies will eventually be exposed, and sincerity can impress the other party more than sweet words;
⑦. Empathize with others, bring your own feelings, empathize , use emotions to others ;
⑧ . Ordinary friends say it with praise, but say it with your closest friends. The best friend is at heart, not flattery;
⑨. Take advantage of the situation and make the other person willing to do what you suggest;
⑩. Adjust the height of thinking to treat different people. , first of all, let the other party understand. Don't let the other party not understand because what you said is too profound.
