Happiness is feeling loved.
This is a must for a healthy relationship, but I have seen too many girls worrying about gains and losses in love.
Their thoughts are not on how to make themselves better or manage their relationship, but on whether he loves them or not.
A girl said that after dating a boyfriend, he started to treat her very well, shared his daily life, planned their future, and was also very meticulous to her in his daily life.
But after getting along for a while, her boyfriend proposed to live together, but she refused. She didn't want to move so quickly and felt that she should get to know him better.
At first, her boyfriend expressed understanding, but later in the night he called her several times to ask her to come over, but she still didn't agree.
As a result, her boyfriend was very cold to her and never responded to her messages. No matter how many messages you sent him, he would pretend he didn't see her.
She was a little confused as to whether her boyfriend loved him or not. After all, he had never touched her before and he was pretty good to her before.
In fact, when you start to doubt, you will not love him so much.
Maybe he is not completely cold towards you, but it is just that he doesn’t have anything better.
If you can't feel it, you don't love it. When facing someone who doesn't love you, you should love yourself even more.
In " Perfect Companion ", when faced with his wife's miscarriage and crying heartbrokenly, Lin Qingkun said coldly, how can you tell Jingjing to wash your face? Wu Min said, the doctor asked not to use cold water.
You can't face Chen Shan. You have to go back. His wife's father passed away, and Cong was hospitalized until his death. He didn't come for a day. It was also Chen Shan's father. He said that in the face of life and death, everything is a trivial matter.
My wife had a miscarriage and I was asked to take her to the hospital, but she looked indifferent. My colleague had a miscarriage, so she rushed in and took her to the hospital. She was nervous. My wife was moving alone, and Chen Shan was embarrassed. In such bad weather, it was lucky that you came to pick her up. I.
Don't pay attention to what others say about loving you. The important thing is to understand with your heart what a person has done for you.
Women always like to hear good words, but it is best to be a pragmatist and look at actions to see results.
It's obvious whether you love or not.
In fact, it's obvious whether you love or not. It's just that you can't let go of your obsessions and dare not accept the facts.
Think carefully about it, you must have had a smile on your face and a pair of clear eyes, but now you have tears in your eyes and the pain of being hurt by love in your heart.
There are some things you already know the answer to, but you have never dared to face them.
If the other person really doesn't love you, your love will turn into flattery, but what you get in exchange for flattery is not love.
Some people appear just to teach you a lesson, and those who leave are not suitable for you. You have to believe in the truth that there will always be people who think you are not good enough.
No need to stand on tiptoes, the person who loves you will naturally bend down.
If you have time, why not love yourself more
What is love?
In fact, it is your own value that attracts the other person. When you have enough value, you are not afraid of not having love.
When love is gone, it can only be said that your value in his heart is not high, or he thinks so.
There are a few powerful women in the world who don’t care whether men love them or not, because they know that it is impossible for all men to love you, and it is impossible for all men not to love you.
When you have to make him prove that he loves you through the action of "doing", the ending is difficult to be happy.
People who love you don't need you to do anything, and people who don't love you just hasten their departure.
So don’t worry about whether he loves you or not. Love yourself more when you have time. A woman with a rich spiritual world is better than anything else.
It's hard not to be loved by a woman like this.
