Your parents-in-law paid the down payment for a house and require your son to repay the mortgage. As the daughter-in-law, are you willing to bear it?
Some people say that no matter what the parents of an only child, the house will always be reserved for the only child. But if you are not an only child, it is difficult to predict. After all, not all parents can handle everything in a bowl of water.
Luo Bing (pseudonym) met a pair of selfish and partial parents-in-law. Under the guise of buying a house to provide for his retirement, he asked his eldest son to repay the mortgage. In the end, it was discovered that the parents-in-law were actually buying a wedding house for their brother-in-law.
01. The parents-in-law paid a down payment to buy their own house for retirement.
When Luo Bing got married, her parents-in-law had no money or effort, no bride price, and no wedding room. If Luo Bing hadn't been reasonable with her parents, perhaps her marriage to her husband would have been ruined long ago.
Luo Bing complained that her parents-in-law did not contribute any money, but was persuaded by her husband. After getting married, the couple worked together and worked overtime, and in just three years they bought their own house in the city.
After I bought the house, my mother-in-law wanted to get involved, saying that my brother-in-law was not married yet, so the two brothers' names should be written on the real estate certificate . Luo Bing had a big argument with her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law finally calmed down and didn't dare to mention it again.
But who knew that it had only been two years since they bought a house, and their mother-in-law, who had been complaining about being poor and having no money, proposed that she would pay the down payment to buy a house for her retirement, and would not live with her two sons in the future. This request from her mother-in-law was beyond Luo Bing's expectation.
02, parents-in-law asked eldest son to repay the mortgage
What was even more unexpected to Luo Bing was that her mother-in-law asked Luo Bing and her husband to help repay the mortgage. For this matter, the mother-in-law, who never took the initiative to come to the house, actually deigned to come to the house and brought some toys in her hand, which were toys for Luo Bing's daughter.
Luo Bing and her husband were both a little flattered when they saw their mother-in-law caring so little about their daughter for the first time. You know, from the time Luo Bing got married to the time she gave birth to her children, her mother-in-law could hide as far away as she could, but she would never come near them.
Luo Bing was worried that her mother-in-law had other plans, but she couldn't turn away her mother-in-law who came to give her granddaughter a gift, so she had to invite her into the house. However, before the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law exchanged a few words, the mother-in-law got straight to the point.
The mother-in-law said that the couple bought a house with their own money to provide for themselves in old age and would not get involved with their two sons in the future. When Luo Bing heard that her mother-in-law was buying a house by herself, Luo Bing felt quite conflicted. First, she was angry that her mother-in-law was rich but refused to spend a penny to help them buy a house. But because her mother-in-law was able to buy a house by herself, it also saved them from having to pay for her mother-in-law in the future. Elderly couple quarrel.
As a result, the mother-in-law went on to say that the house was bought, but they were old and had no way to earn money to repay the mortgage. They hoped that the monthly mortgage of 4,000 yuan would be repaid by the eldest son and daughter-in-law. When the younger son gets married and starts a family in the future, it will be his turn to repay the mortgage.
03. Eldest daughter-in-law: Notarize the house first, then pay the mortgage.
Worried that the eldest son and daughter-in-law would not agree, the mother-in-law also promised verbally that as long as they repay the mortgage on time every month, this house will be left to them in a hundred years. Luo Bing didn't think her mother-in-law was so kind. She asked her mother-in-law: The house was given to us, but where is the brother-in-law? He's not married yet.
The mother-in-law's face stiffened, and her eyes were a little erratic, but she still held back her temper and said, "Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. We have worked hard to raise two sons, and the sons should be self-reliant instead of gnawing at old age."
Even though her mother-in-law kept promising that the house would be left to her eldest son, Luo Bing still didn't believe that her mother-in-law, who had always been partial to her brother-in-law, would be so generous. Just in case, she proposed to notarize the house to us first, and then repay the mortgage. Anyway, the house will be left to us sooner or later, so we can't be more relieved that we can notarize it to each other. After all, my brother-in-law is not married yet, and I don’t want to make a wedding dress for him.
Luo Bing kept her promise and took her mother-in-law to get the notarization done.But the mother-in-law was indifferent and said with an extremely ugly face: The house belongs to us. Who we want to give it to is just a matter of words. Why do we need to spend money for notarization to protect it?
04. Her parents-in-law are actually buying a wedding house for their youngest son.
Luo Bing insisted on taking her mother-in-law to have the notarization done, but her mother-in-law also refused to go. When Luo Bing saw her mother-in-law's actions, she understood everything. It turned out that her mother-in-law was just pretending to buy a house for herself to provide for her retirement, in order to deceive them into helping her brother-in-law pay off the mortgage. After all, the house is in the name of the parents-in-law. If they want to transfer it to their brother-in-law at any time, it is just a matter of words.
This house was originally bought for the younger son’s marriage, but the younger son’s ability is limited. They can help provide the down payment, but they are unable to repay the mortgage, so they can only turn to the older son who is financially better off.
But who knew that the eldest daughter-in-law would be so vigilant that she would have to get notarization done before repaying the mortgage. Once the notarization was done, wasn't all my hard work in vain? The mother-in-law was exposed and had no intention of staying any longer, so she had to run away.
Today’s topic:
Do you think that a man with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan should honor his parents with 100,000 yuan a month, right?
Pinxia explanation: Analyze marriage emotions and teach you to understand human nature!
