Have you ever thought about this question: Why do I look like a beauty no matter how I look at it? I have fair skin, long legs, and a good figure. Why don’t men cherish me?
"I am one of the best among the crowd. It is so honorable to take me out. But my friends are not as good as me in every aspect, but they are always held in the palm of men's hands and cared for like little treasures. This Why? "
You must be so confused. You are obviously very good. . It should be the same as the plot in the TV series. There is a handsome and rich man who likes you and takes care of you. has a cheating life. But reality gives you a blow, making you unable to figure out what the problem is with .
Today the genius is here to chat with you and solve your confusions. tells you from a man’s perspective, what kind of woman will make them fascinated.
. Release availability
Students who often study in my class know that men are born hunters. They must constantly conquer prey to gain a sense of achievement. They prefer things that are sure of their pursuit. So do women.
Let me tell you something about my brother. When we had dinner together before, I asked him, Why did he stop pursuing the goddess he had always liked before?
My brother said: "The girls have rejected me. They must not like me. There is no point in pursuing me."
I was curious about how she was rejected. My brother said again: "I asked her to come out for a meal." Fuck, she actually rejected me, doesn't that mean she's not interested in me? "
I smiled and said, "Maybe in the eyes of girls, she doesn't even know that she rejected you. "
Because the woman rejected him, let him. He felt that the availability was low and did not agree to eat by himself, that is, did not express his good feelings , so he thought that the woman did not like him. If the woman agreed to his request for a meal, he would launch the next attack.
So, it’s not just that you are good-looking and have a good figure, men will take the initiative to chase you, because men also need to evaluate their own success rate.
On the contrary, those girls who look average and look ordinary are more popular with men, because there is a very key factor in this: availability.
The reason is very simple. The signals they release make men feel, I have a chance, and as long as I work hard, I can catch you.
So you see, every time you chat with the person you like, in order to maintain your reserve, you will pretend to be aloof and reply to the other person Well, oh, I understand.
In the eyes of men, your availability is very low. Men are so rational. If doesn't work, then take the next one.
. Take the initiative with skill
Many women will take the initiative to drop the price, so be reserved and put it in your mouth.
But often like this, the ones waiting are bad men, because they have been in love for a long time and know how to manipulate women and coax them.
If you are always aloof and reserved when facing the man you like, thinking that you can be passionately pursued by him without doing anything, this is most likely impossible.
I have a student, she is just average in every aspect, but she has found a high-quality boyfriend, both in terms of appearance and economic conditions. I was curious about what she used to hook her boyfriend. Friend's.
She told me: "Although he is very handsome and rich, and has many women around him, he has a cold personality. I was the only one who took the initiative to approach him."
The first time we met was at a friend's dinner. , I saw him at that time, he was so handsome, he fascinated me, my careless demeanor suddenly calmed down, and I became very ladylike.
Then I looked at him with a shy look, smiled and flirted with him, then immediately turned around to chat with my friend, and then I asked my friend to add his contact information, made an appointment with him. We met for dinner, , and I would flirt with him from time to time, such as fixing his clothes, flipping his hair, etc. Slowly, he began to respond to me .
Later, he showed off photos of himself cooking, and I praised him: "I didn't expect you to cook so many dishes. My future boyfriend must also be able to cook. This is very like a good man."
Not long after that , and he started chasing me.
From the eyes, body, language, step by step to make this man feel good about me. All these are done to give the man a signal: She seems to have a good impression of me, she seems to like me, I will try my best, Chase her.
People are more likely to like those who like themselves. Learn to take the initiative and make men fascinated.
3. Cat-like women
Many female friends like to raise cats, and there are many people who like to suck cats. Similarly, cat-like women are also very attractive to men..
What does a cat look like? Anyone who has ever raised a cat should know that the more you want to pet her and keep her docile in your arms, the more she won't come over. But if you do something seriously, she will suddenly come over and nuzzle you.
A cat-like woman has her own rhythm. She knows the balance between two people, when to leave, and when to appear, and can control them all.
gives men uncertainty , that want to scratch, but can't, the feeling of being far away makes people itchy.
The more this is the case, the more men want to get you and conquer you completely.
Although the cat owner will feed and drink her every day, this does not mean that she can be manipulated at will. This is her maverick character.
Women are the same. They are independent, enjoy loneliness, and will rely on a man when he is with him, but they are not dependent.
This can often capture the hearts of men, and can make men dream about it.
