I met an old colleague a few days ago and talked about his children's marriage life. He sighed deeply and said that young people nowadays are really difficult to understand and guess. His son got divorced less than a year after getting married. Yes, I am very surprised. Isn’t your daughter-in-law your son’s high school classmate? I heard that after seven or eight years of dating, you were in love with me and you should know the truth. Why did you get divorced just after getting married? He said yes, we have been together for such a long time and have not separated. We have a deep relationship and we are always stuck together. Nothing will happen if we don’t get married. But problems will arise as soon as we get married. He was also confused and very confused, what? He couldn't explain why.
It started as love at first sight, and finally fell in love over time. Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, kindness, and finally character. When we talk about love, we don’t talk about responsibilities and obligations. There is only romance, no soy sauce, vinegar and oil tea. There are only two people and no two big families. There is only a view of love and no world view and values of life. Earn money and spend it by yourself. Buy a house. Buying a car, giving wedding gifts, and getting married are the parents’ business. Most of today's young people are selfish, greedy for enjoyment, and self-centered. When it comes time to pay for themselves, they finally feel that they are not ready and unable to do what they want. Finally, they are exhausted mentally and physically, and they cannot tolerate each other and break up.
Deep love is not as good as long-term companionship, and there is no need to say more about love . Is there any difference between before marriage and after marriage? Before marriage, we are two individuals, relatively independent. We like to play together. If we don't like it, we can separate for a while. When we are happy, we get tired of being together. When we are unhappy, we can find friends to play with. After marriage, there is a family, and the nature is very different. You cannot let your temper run away from home, stay up all night, eat and drink, and act unscrupulously. It is not appropriate to live such a life again. We must put the family at the center, consider the feelings of the other party and even the other party's parents in everything, be thoughtful, compromise with each other, and temper our strengths, so that we can stay together for a long time.
We always think that the future is long, but we forget that things are unpredictable . We always feel that as long as two people love each other, they will never be separated. We never thought that married life is also full of twists and turns, not only romance, but also vicissitudes of life. Before getting married, they are boys and girls. Once they get married, they become men and women, that is, they have a family and a person. They have to stand upright and live independently. Relying on parents is a thing of the past.
said online: Marriage is a mistake, divorce is enlightenment, remarriage is a fallacy, remarriage is stubbornness, having children is a big mistake, and living alone does not delay anything. I think this is a fallacy and is misleading others and myself. It is such a happy thing to get married and have children with the one you love, to share weal and woe, and to grow old together. Only in this way can we live up to our youth and not come to this world in vain.
