Author: Blue Flowers
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When I was 35 years old, my husband passed away. It has been ten years since my husband passed away.
In these ten years, I have often longed to find a good man to live with. I hope this man can support my family with me.
However, after searching and searching, day after day passed. Year after year passed, and the wonderful man I needed was never found.
It wasn’t until I was 45 years old that this man finally appeared. This man is a retired bank leader. Now he is 65 years old.
This man’s surname is Zhang, and people still call him Manager Zhang today. When Manager Zhang was 60 years old, his wife died of illness. He has been looking for a new partner ever since. Since Manager Zhang has superior conditions, he is naturally looking for a young and beautiful woman who is willing to serve him.
Unfortunately, Manager Zhang met young and beautiful women in the process of looking for a partner, but these women were all rich women and were not greedy for his money. Naturally, she is unwilling to marry him. When he met older women who were willing to marry him, Manager Zhang felt that they were too old to be a good match.
The result is that one day passes and one year passes. Manager Zhang is still a bachelor.
One day when I was 45 years old, I was introduced to 65-year-old Manager Zhang.
While we were in love, Manager Zhang thought I was young, beautiful, and very temperamental. He would love to marry me. But I made several conditions to him. Manager Zhang agreed without hesitation. Makes me think Manager Zhang is very rich. And he is a good man who is willing to spend money on women. Such a man can be trusted for life.
So, what conditions does the 65-year-old Manager Zhang promise to the 45-year-old me? I will tell you one by one below:
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During the process of falling in love with Manager Zhang, Manager Zhang said that as long as I was willing to marry him, he would transfer the villa worth more than 2 million yuan in his name before his death. Give me a high-end villa.
Manager Zhang said that he has a villa worth more than 2 million yuan in his name, which is the villa where he lives now. Until he dies. Just transfer this villa to my name and make it my house.
At that time, I thought, if I get married to Manager Zhang. After all, he is 20 years older than me. When he died, he was able to transfer this villa to me, which shows that he truly loves me and it is worthwhile for me to serve him.
For example, I calculate this: Manager Zhang is 65 years old, if he can live for 20 years. That is, live to be 85 years old. He transferred this villa to me. Because this villa is now worth 2 million yuan, then I can earn 100,000 yuan every year.
If Manager Zhang can live to be 95 years old. That means he lived for 30 years. I served him for 30 years, and when he transferred this villa to me before his death, I could earn more than 70,000 yuan a year. It's also very cost-effective.
The reason why Manager Zhang really likes me also shows that Manager Zhang is an excellent woman who is willing to spend a lot of money on women. Being able to marry such a man is naturally a blessing.
Thinking this way, I naturally had the urge to marry Manager Zhang. Because you will never find such a good man again. Don't miss the opportunity, it will never come back.
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was in love with Manager Zhang. Manager Zhang also promised to pay to help my two sons find wives.
It can be said that although I have two sons, how happy I am in the eyes of others! However, it is these two sons that worry me the most.
Because both sons are in their 20s. I will be 30 years old in a few years, but my two sons will go to Guangdong to work after graduating from technical school. However, they always feel uneasy when working, and often quit their jobs and go home to live in old age.When I had no money, I asked my mother for it. If I didn’t give them money to spend, they would make a fuss, which made me very troubled.
is now in a relationship with Manager Zhang, a retired bank leader. He promised to pay for wives for my two sons.
and promised each son to contribute 100,000 yuan. In our place, one hundred thousand years would be enough to marry a wife. So for two sons, it is 200,000 yuan. For me, who works in a supermarket. This two hundred thousand yuan is simply an astronomical figure. Unexpectedly, Manager Zhang agreed to help me pay this huge sum of money without hesitation.
Judging from Manager Zhang’s promise. He must be very fond of the young and beautiful me. And I was able to marry such a wonderful man. It means there is smoke coming out of my ancestral grave. Because in ten years, although I had many boyfriends, none of them satisfied me.
It is precisely because of this that Manager Zhang is now willing to marry me, and I must seize this opportunity. When talking about love, take the initiative and then take the initiative. I must be proactive enough to make Manager Zhang reluctant to leave me. Let Manager Zhang marry me as his wife no matter what. In this way, I succeeded.
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Manager Zhang also made me promise that after I marry him, he will take care of my family’s living expenses.
My family is me and my two sons, a total of three people. It can be said that our family of three spends at least one to two thousand yuan on various living expenses in a month. If Manager Zhang is willing to bear all the expenses for our family of three, it will cost him at least one to two thousand yuan more every month.
Since this is the case, the burden of my life is gone. The living arrangements of the two sons have also been settled. Because my two sons often stay at home and grow old, and do not go out to work. Their lives are also a burden. If I marry Manager Zhang, this burden on my shoulders will be gone.
After hearing what Manager Zhang said, I was even more moved and said from the bottom of my heart that I must marry Manager Zhang. And he vowed to serve Manager Zhang well after getting married. Treat him as my first wife. That is to say, let Manager Zhang enjoy all the benefits of my original husband.
So I took the initiative to discuss marriage with Manager Zhang. Manager Zhang laughed with joy. Laughing at his good fortune to be able to marry a young and beautiful woman like me as his wife.
Manager Zhang said that although he had romanced young women before, those women were too high-spirited and disliked Manager Zhang for being too old. I also think Manager Zhang is not handsome enough. I despise Manager Zhang even more for the stench of old age.
When Manager Zhang heard what those women said, his beard stood up. But after all, they are other women, and it's hard to lose your temper with them. He had to leave the women angrily.
And now, I keep praising Manager Zhang for how handsome he is. How funny he is, how willing to spend money on women, how outstanding he is, it makes Manager Zhang laugh with joy. Manager Zhang also said that being able to marry a woman like me is a lifelong blessing for him.
Because of this, the 45-year-old me and the 65-year-old Manager Zhang quickly went through the marriage registration procedures. After we completed the marriage registration procedures, I felt that my good days had begun!
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After I registered for marriage with Manager Zhang, a 65-year-old retired bank leader, I was looking forward to a happy and beautiful future life. Suddenly I fell from heaven into hell, because I never imagined that I would have nothing to spend after marrying Manager Zhang. After spending all the money, it turns out that Manager Zhang is an iron rooster!
After I moved to Manager Zhang’s house. Manager Zhang said he would give me 1,000 yuan a month for my family’s living expenses. I was very puzzled at that time. This 1,000 yuan is not enough for the living expenses of both of us. What's more, what if my two sons also come to live with me?
Because I had just married Manager Zhang, I didn’t have much to say, so I took the 1,000 yuan he handed me. Then I go shopping for groceries every day. Since I only had this 1,000 yuan in my pocket, I had to save money to buy groceries.
Since I am used to saving money, after spending the 1,000 yuan for a month, I still have 45 yuan left.
I thought that in the second month, Manager Zhang would fulfill his promise when we were talking about marriage and would give me more living expenses. It turned out that I was wrong. In the second month, Manager Zhang only gave me 955 yuan for living expenses.
I couldn’t help but ask Manager Zhang why he gave me 955 yuan? He said that every day when I came back from shopping for groceries, he would ask me how much I spent, and he would keep track of everything. It turned out that I still had a balance of 45 yuan last month. Therefore, he only gave me 955 yuan this month. Because he agreed to only give me 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses.
After hearing what Manager Zhang said, I couldn't help but argue with him. Well said before. I have a family of three to support. This villa will be transferred to my name in the future. I also have to pay to help my son find a wife. But now after getting married, I am not willing to pay even an extra penny for monthly living expenses. How does this work?
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Unexpectedly, Manager Zhang changed his tone from before the marriage and said that I could live in his home for free, which can be regarded as a sum of money. They said food and drinks would be included every month without me having to pay a penny. He also said that the money in his pocket was not brought by the strong wind, but the pension he had worked hard for a lifetime. Every penny is money! Of course it's impossible to spend it indiscriminately.
After hearing what Manager Zhang said. The person standing in front of me is no longer Manager Zhang. But a real iron rooster! At this time, I felt like I had been deceived by Manager Zhang. He also clearly saw the true nature of Manager Zhang. Such a man cannot be trusted for life.
Manager Zhang’s purpose in marrying me was to find a free young and beautiful nanny at home, and he didn’t treat me as his wife at all. It’s okay not to want such a man!
After having such an ideology, I immediately filed for divorce from Manager Zhang. The remarriage ended after just 45 days. Let’s talk about it: Am I wise to stop my losses in time?
