Communication between people conveys information and friendship to each other. We communicate with leaders, colleagues, friends and even strangers in our work and life. Good communication can get the desired results and resonate, but when communicating with others You must have a good grasp of the scale and skills of your speech, otherwise what you say may have very negative consequences for you, betraying yourself or others.
When communicating with leaders in work and life, we must think clearly about what can and cannot be said. Generally speaking, leaders will have a purpose when they take the initiative to chat. He will not tell you the purpose directly, but will tell you the purpose during the chat. In order to get the information he wants, we must first be honest and truthful when communicating with the leader. We cannot make up random things, but we cannot tell everything. For example, the leader may ask you: How is Comrade So-and-so? At this time, we cannot speak ill of others behind their backs. Even if you have a conflict with someone, it is best not to say it. You can say that you know some truths, but you cannot make them up, or just say: Everything is fine. Because the leader may have more information than you do, slandering people behind their back will only leave a bad influence in the leader's eyes. If you speak ill of others behind their back today, you may speak ill of the leader behind their back tomorrow, so you must think twice when speaking to your leader.
We also need to be cautious when chatting with ordinary colleagues, friends or strangers. We can only say three points and leave seven points, because we don’t know the purpose of the other party’s chat. Even if ordinary colleagues and friends are happy and have a good relationship on the surface, there may be something behind the scenes. To cause harm, what others ask or say usually has a purpose. Don’t talk nonsense about things that you have not confirmed. Remember not to speak ill of people behind their backs, only good things, because the bad things you say will usually reach the ears of the person concerned. , so we cannot be quick to tell the truth, speak without restraint, and speak freely.
You must know that there are many stories about misfortune coming from the mouth. During the ancient Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao 's counselor Yang Xiu thought he was very smart and could guess the boss's thoughts. He dared to say anything in front of his boss Cao Cao. In the end This led to the disaster of death. At the same time, Xu You was also arrogant and arrogant. He thought he had merit and even ignored his boss Cao Cao. He went around talking bad things about his boss and died in the end. It is a pity and a shame. sigh.
So, speaking skills are very important, sometimes it can be a matter of life. In all communication, you can only say three points and leave seven points. Don’t be self-righteous. You know everything and dare to say anything. This will not end well. On the contrary, even if you pretend If you don’t understand something, others may help you.
