Men and women living together before marriage has now become a common and normal thing. On the contrary, if you have not lived together before marriage, or have not had any passionate stories, it is often regarded as abnormal. Men will be called by others, Huanghualang of Qin Dynasty , that is, an ignorant person, and women will be called by others. A Huanghuanu of the Qin Dynasty, that is, a person who has never left home.
Today's society is a society with rapid development of science and technology, economy, and education. It is a society with people's open minds. Openness, curiosity, trying new things, and tolerance have become more and more labels for young people, and they are often used in this way. Be proud of it and be ashamed of it.
(desire)
The same goes for relationships between men and women. As long as it's pleasing to the eye and has an impulse, everything else doesn't matter. Falling in love at first sight, hooking up with someone, living together, etc., is easier than drinking mineral water. Relationships have become more and more virtual, wealth has become more and more real, and going to bed has become more and more casual.
The randomness between people turns the mystery of the past into transparency and turns the original expectations into reality. Although you will be hurt to varying degrees and make yourself feel lost, trying is better than not trying, and running in is better than not trying at all. It is better not to get along, but to have conflicts before marriage than after marriage.
Therefore, whether the advantages of living together before marriage outweigh the disadvantages or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages depends on both parties involved. Because real life is not a reading test, there is only one standard answer. In real life, everyone will give different answers based on their own circumstances. As long as both parties involved can be harmonious, the answer will not be wrong.
(Expectation)
This is why many women agree to the man’s request and readily accept cohabitation despite knowing that there are unexpected risks involved in living together or having sex before marriage.
Some of it is because I really like him and don't want to disappoint him. Especially after meeting him, any of his shortcomings were turned into strengths by him, and any little tempers of his were accepted by him gently, so he gave everything to him before marriage without hesitation. Anyway, things are bound to happen sooner or later. It is better to happen sooner than later. Happening early and enjoying it early is also a sweetness of life.
Especially those who live away from their parents and work hard in other places, there are few people who are not under great pressure. Premarital sex, such as cohabitation before marriage, has become normal and can no longer be normal. Living together can not only cultivate the relationship between the two parties, but also reduce financial pressure, especially mental pressure.
(try)
Every time you have sex, it can not only relieve the pressure on both parties, but also increase mutual understanding and know what kind of life you need. Life passes by in a hurry. If you have to hold back and suppress yourself for everything, life will be too dire and difficult for people to bear. Therefore, whether you live together or not depends mainly on whether you like it, whether you are happy or not, and whether you can bear the consequences of risks.
As long as it is something that makes you happy, there is nothing to be afraid of. Once you have made up your mind, just believe that you can do it and move forward bravely!
