The introduction says that in real life, many nannies fall in love with their employers. Because the employers are rich, nannies will choose to be with their employers in order to live a good life. Therefore, I hope all employers will be cautious when encountering such nannies. D

Introduction

said that in real life, many nannies will fall in love with their employers. Because the employers are rich, nannies will choose to be with their employers in order to live a good life. Therefore, I hope all employers will be cautious when encountering such nannies. , don’t believe it easily, otherwise you will really regret it.

html A 276-year-old man angrily accused a 43-year-old female nanny of being immoral, but the nanny scolded her: "Don't be disrespectful, I am doing this for your own good." What on earth is going on? Let’s take a look at this story.

76-year-old Uncle Xia

I am 76 years old this year. My surname is Xia. I was a teacher before I retired, so after retirement I got a pension of 6,000 yuan. Now I have retired for 16 years. Although my pension It’s not a lot, but it’s enough for myself. Even if I get sick in the future, this little money won’t be enough to treat me, but I never worry. Why? Because I have two apartments for rent and can collect 20,000 yuan in rent every month, I don’t have to worry about anything. I just need to enjoy my old age.

So after retirement, I do the things I like every day, or take my wife to travel around the world. I feel particularly happy in this kind of life. I thought this happiness can last for a long time, but who knows that my wife is still with me? I got sick and passed away in my seventh year of retirement. After my wife passed away, I became an old man living alone. Gradually, I became sad every day and my health became worse and worse. I didn’t want to be like this, but I controlled it. I can't help myself, because the relationship between my wife and I is so good that I can't do it without being sad, and I'm not used to living without her.

In the blink of an eye, I have lived alone for many years. Although I slowly accepted the fact that my wife passed away, I still feel that life is very lonely and I am not used to it.

And my health is getting worse day by day. Because I am getting older, the parts in my body are also aging, so it is normal for problems to occur. However, every time I am sick, my children will come back to take care of me. At that time, I felt quite happy. , because I have received the filial piety from my children. But who would have thought that after a long time, my son-in-law and daughter-in-law started to have opinions, because I would make a reservation once or twice a month, so they had to come back for a period of time every month, just because they were always running up and down. My daughter-in-law and son-in-law felt that I was dragging them down and seriously affecting their lives.

Although my daughter has never said anything to my son and is happy to come back to serve me, my daughter-in-law and son-in-law can't always accept it. I don't treat me as a family member. They always give me a dirty look every time they come back, or Just quarreling with my children.

Later, in order to prevent the children from quarreling and not being disliked by them, I came up with the idea of ​​hiring a nanny. As long as I hired a nanny, I would not have to trouble my children anymore, and they would not complain so much.

Although hiring a nanny is expensive, I have a monthly pension of 6,000 yuan and so much rent, so I don’t have to worry about not being able to afford one.

Later, I also went to housekeeping company to choose a more diligent nanny. This nanny was a middle-aged woman in her forties. I heard that she had been a nanny for five or six years, so she was quite experienced. , she chose to be a nanny because her family was poor and she was uneducated, so this was the only job suitable for her.

Seeing that this woman was so short of money, I believed that she would be able to serve me well. In order to let her serve me well, I promised to give her a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan. The nanny was also very happy after hearing this. , I have never received such a high salary in so many years.

After the nanny came to my house, she took care of me in every possible way. I was very satisfied with her. In order to let her stay here for a long time, I was also very nice to her. Basically I would not treat her as an outsider, so I am a A very respectful employer.

But what I didn’t expect later was that this nanny actually developed feelings for me, and also hinted that I wanted to be with me again and again. I could also see what she meant, but I always pretended to be stupid because I I never thought about looking for a wife, and even if I were looking for one, I wouldn't be looking for a nanny. After all, the nanny is so much younger than me, and I can't waste other people's youth.

But this nanny always stalked me and once said to me: "I really like you. If you are with me, I will definitely treat you well and you won't have to in the future." "I'm worried."

Although it is very happy to be pursued by a young woman, I always feel that something is wrong, and why would she choose to be with me when she is so young? There are so many better men than me, why did you choose me? Then I asked her why she wanted to be with me? She responded directly: "There are not so many reasons. I really like you. I hope you won't hesitate so much."

I responded directly: "We are not suitable. You are much younger than me. You will be laughed at by others when we are together." , and I never thought about being with the nanny. Also, don’t you have any other purpose for being with me?”

The nanny saw that I kept trying to get answers, and then told me directly. : "Let me tell you the truth, I am with you solely because you are rich. If I am with you, I will definitely be able to live a good life, and my family will no longer have to live such a hard life. , although now I get 8,000 per month for serving you, but I want to get more benefits. "

When I heard her say this, I felt bad. It turned out that he really had a purpose. If I hadn't been rich, she wouldn't have pursued an old man like me. Then I rejected her directly because I couldn't be with such a woman.

As a result, the nanny was very angry after being rejected by me, but she did not give up, and her behavior became more and more excessive. She always dressed very revealingly on purpose, and was unwilling to go back to her bedroom at night.

Later, one time I really couldn't stand it anymore, so I scolded her for being immoral, but she scolded her instead: "Don't be ignorant, I did this for your own good, so that you can marry a wife as young as me, yes." It's your honor, what qualifications do you have to scold me? Besides, how can you be so good? I don't believe that you are still indifferent even if you are like this."

I heard him say this on the spot. I was so angry that I fired her directly, because I really didn’t want to be pestered by this kind of woman, and I didn’t want to guard against her all day long.

After I fired her, I hired a male nanny to come back. After having a male nanny to serve me, I felt much more comfortable. So after this time, I understood that when hiring a nanny, I have to hire a male nanny, so that I can live at ease.

Conclusion

As a nanny, you should abide by the principles and do not do disgusting things for money, let alone choose to be the hostess of a lonely home. This will not only make other people make irresponsible remarks, but also destroy yourself. reputation.