At the paternity testing center, many unknown secrets are revealed. Here you can see the struggle and disillusionment of family ties, as well as the betrayal and deception of love. When someone steps through that door, it often means that a tragedy and comedy of life and destiny

In the paternity testing center,

many unknown secrets were revealed.

Here you can see the struggle and destruction of family ties,

You can also see the betrayal and deception of love.

When someone steps through the door, it often means that a tragic comedy of life's destiny is about to be staged.

One day, a girl walked into the paternity testing center.

She is pregnant, but she doesn't know whose child it is.

So, I brought five boys to do paternity test .

The girls said to the boys: "I will marry whose child belongs to whom."

When encountering such a thing,

5 boys are supposed to be hostile to each other,

After all, what does it mean to come here together?

They feel more confused It is clear to everyone that

this is naked betrayal and deception.

However, the reality is exactly the opposite.

5 The boys not only looked happy,

even had some vague expectations.

Why is this happening?

Because the girl’s family was rich and her parents were urging her to get married, she simply found several boys at the same time.

Once she gets married, the girl's father will reward her future son-in-law with a Ferrari .

Under the huge temptation of money,

the five boys put down their dignity.

They didn't care about betrayal at all.

They didn't care about who they married.

They didn't care about whose child they were.

They only cared about whether the relationship could bring benefits.

I have to say, it’s really sad.

What is even more sad is that there are always some people who are afraid of buying fake goods when buying things, but they treat marriage as a child's play.

People often ask: What is the purpose of marriage?

Some people say:

I can pretend to be mature outside,

I can also quarrel with others.

But, I think there is such a place,

There is such a person,

When I fall asleep with my back to her,

I don’t have to worry about this person. Give me a knife from behind.

Some people say:

In order to see him when I get home from get off work every day,

In order to stay with him outside of work,

In order to live together legally,

In order to have my own nest,

In order to share you

to have someone to accompany you anytime and anywhere,

to be able to reach out and hug him when you want to hug him.

Some people say:

If you don't start a family,

If you don't raise your own children yourself,

you won't be able to realize some of the meaning of life.

What our parents mean to us

What we mean to our children

This is a continuation.

From this continuation,

we will realize certain values ​​of life.

Some people say:

I have reached my age.

All my friends are getting married.

My family is also urging me.

I feel there is no reason not to get married.

Some people say:

Men get married for a better life,

Women get married for the sake of themselves. Get married out of anger.

Regarding marriage,

everyone has his or her own opinion.

Some people are happy while others are unhappy.

At least, we can know:

Marriage is not someone’s savior,

It cannot ferry us to the other side of happiness smoothly,

If you want to use marriage to escape the pain of life, you will probably fail.

Marriage is not someone’s grave.

People will not be broken into pieces and trapped in hell as soon as they fall into it.

There is no need to blame all the misfortunes in life on marriage.

Marriage is neither a refuge nor a shackles, but a lifelong practice for two people.

There are ups and downs in life, and there are too many difficulties and obstacles. It requires two people to share the joys and sorrows and advance and retreat together.

We make many decisions in our lives, and getting married is the most important one!

Although marriage is a major event in life, in reality, there are never a few people who treat marriage as a child's play.

There is a female photographer in the Czech Republic . In

she got married 88 times in 15 years.

88 husbands,

come from all walks of life,

different races,

different countries.

In every relationship,

she will live with these men for a period of time.

What is the reason for such frequent marriages?

She said: "I want to try and experience a different life."

There was a man in Changsha who

got married and divorced 23 times in one year.

There are even several marriages

where the marriage certificate is applied for on the first day,

and then the divorce certificate is applied for on the second day.

He said: "Marriage is free, you can get married if you want, and divorce if you want."

Although, in life, there are only a few people who get married many times and get divorced many times.

However, there are many people who blindly enter marriage.

Many young people have experienced being forced to get married by their parents.

feels that it would be shameful for children not to get married when they reach a certain age.

feels that they can still help their children if they get married early.

So, when their children grew up, they worried about this matter.

Children, resist, they are just ignorant and do not understand the painstaking efforts of their parents.

Under the influence of children,

you can still delay it at first.

When everyone around you gets married,

yourself gets older and older,

gradually begins to compromise.

Especially looking at the married peers around me

Some of them are happy

Some of them are covered in feathers

In my heart, I feel envious, anxious, confused, and empty

All kinds of emotions are intertwined,

I gradually become blind,

I feel that the conditions are almost the same. Let's marry.

In order to prevent his parents from constantly talking about it,

also tried to calm himself down.

Because of age, because of pressure,

with anxiety and confusion,

many people have just started another life in a hurry.

And if you get married just for the sake of getting married, what happens next?

It is true that some people are still living a good life, but more people are gradually becoming disappointed in their marriage.

Some people complain about what marriage has brought to them?

Some people gradually wear off their edges and endure it silently, while

some people simply separate themselves and live in peace.

After all, we didn’t get along well before marriage. How can we have fewer conflicts after marriage?

have different outlooks on life and cannot get along with each other at all.

Differences in values ​​make it difficult to understand each other.

Conflicting views on consumption lead to quarrels over money.

Not to mention, if you don’t keep your eyes open before marriage,

you may encounter someone with bad character or bad personality,

you may also encounter cheating, domestic violence, , abuse after marriage...

There are too many such things... ...

happens to others, we see it as a story; if

happens to ourselves, it is an accident.

Blindly starting a marriage is like a big gamble for us, and we will lose nine out of ten times.

Finally, I would like to give a piece of advice to young people:

Marriage is not a child's play,

It cannot be regarded as a task,

It is not necessary when one reaches age. Done,

is not forced to compromise under pressure.

Those who are lucky enough to live a good life are only a few.

More people have suffered in hasty marriages.

Life is only a few decades, and we need reason and sobriety.

When it comes to marriage, a major event in life, we cannot Acting on impulse,

think more before getting married and nip problems in the bud, which is the attitude towards being responsible for yourself.

I have compiled some issues that each other needs to know before getting married.

If you are not married yet, why not exchange answers with your partner.

If you are a parent, you can also tell your children to talk to each other about these issues in the future:

1: About the house.

Buy a house or rent a house after marriage?

Where to buy a house?

Is the down payment paid together?

Is the loan repaid together? How to sign the

house? How is

decoration designed?

2: Questions about children

Should I have children after marriage?

How soon do you plan to have a baby?

If your parents push you, can you withstand the pressure?

Who will take care of the children?

Whose surname does the child have?

What is your educational philosophy for children?

What should parents do if they interfere in their children’s education?

3: Questions about money

Who manages the money at home? How to distribute money in

? What are the earning capabilities and goals of

? Will the consumption outlook of

be the same?

4: Regarding the issue of parents, can

respect both parents? :

Will parents live together?

How often do you visit your parents?

Whose house will you spend the Chinese New Year at?

What should we do if our parents interfere in our lives?

How should we support our parents when they are old?

How will the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law deal with the conflict?

5: Questions about life

How to share housework?

My eating habits are different, how to balance it?

Do you mind if you smoke and drink at home?

If you snore while sleeping , will you get kicked out of bed?

likes to keep pets, is it acceptable?

When making decisions in life,

which matters should be decided by men, and

which matters should be decided by women?

6: Regarding the bottom line, how much room does

have for interacting with the opposite sex? Does

accept the other party's mental cheating or physical cheating?

How long can the quarrel last?

What are some things that you would never accept?

What is one thing that you will never give up because of marriage?

7: Question about experience. Does

have any genetic history?

Do you have any sexual preferences or fears?

What special experiences have you had?

What are each other’s personalities and hobbies?

There is no unified answer to these questions.

But it can leave us room to make a choice.

It can also allow us to understand each other better.

Reach some consensus before marriage,

We will not always be disappointed after marriage.

I often hear some old people say: At that time, when things were broken, they only wanted to repair them, and the repairs could still be used. But now, when things are broken, people only want to replace them with new ones.

is deeply touched!

In the past, there was always noisy and noisy, but life was still manageable.

Now, I have loved before, but cannot leave.

However, instead of waiting until marriage to make a fuss, why not communicate well before marriage...

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