Text | Gu Ziyu 01. Some people say that love that goes both ways in love is the happiest, but the feelings in the world are never so appropriate. Some people love more and some love less. In fact, there is really no way to explain things like love clearly. Some people love so hum

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Some people say that the happiest love is the love that goes in both directions, but the feelings in the world are never so appropriate. Some people love more and some love less.

In fact, there is really no way to explain things like love clearly. Some people love so humblely that even if they don't get a response from the other person, they won't change their infatuation.

Xiao Li is 10 years older than his wife Xiaomei. During the first few years of their marriage, the two had a very good relationship. Xiao Li doted on his little wife. They gave birth to two children one after another and lived a very happy life.

For some time, Xiao Li had physical problems. After recuperating for a period of time, he recovered well, but he found that Xiao Mei's feelings for him were very different from before.

When Erbao was half a year old, Xiaomei insisted on going out to find a job, but Xiaoli couldn't negotiate with her. In desperation, both children were left to the care of Xiaoli's mother.

The old man has to cook and take care of the children, so sometimes he can't go downstairs all day long, but Xiaomei is like a hands-off shopkeeper, never coming home after work and not coming back until midnight every day.

She met many friends through the dating software on her mobile phone. Every few days, she asked Xiao Li to charge his phone bill. Xiao Li felt puzzled, so he printed out the call details and discovered his wife's secret.

But Xiaomei denied it, saying that they were just ordinary friends and had no in-depth relationship. Xiaoli felt uncomfortable and had no choice but to give up.

One night, a man called Xiaomei to invite him to dinner. Xiaoli refused to let him go out, but Xiaomei insisted on going out. She agreed to have barbecue downstairs.

It was late at night and his wife had not come home yet. Xiao Li called again and Xiao Mei said that she had gone to the other end of the city for dinner. In desperation, Xiao Li called his mother-in-law and Xiao Mei came home.

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When Xiaomei and her friends get together, Xiaomei never takes Xiaoli with her. Even if Xiaomei celebrates her birthday, Xiaoli is not allowed to show up. She said she is worried that Xiaoli’s presence will affect the atmosphere. Xiaoli has a vague feeling that his wife dislikes him. .

Once during the Chinese Valentine's Day, Xiao Li wanted to spend it with Xiao Mei, but Xiao Mei said that she had made an appointment to spend it alone. Xiao Li became very angry after hearing this. Why would he spend such a special holiday with another man? Don't you understand the meaning?

Xiao Li felt more and more that he couldn't understand Xiao Mei. Although he felt a little awkward in his heart, he still didn't want to give up on Xiao Mei. He was unwilling to do so.

In order to keep Xiaomei by his side, he asked Xiaomei to quit his job and go into business with him, taking her with him wherever he went. He thought that in this way, Xiaomei's heart would be with him.

Xiao Li has a good friend who is also his partner. The relationship between the two is very good. No one expected that Xiao Mei would hook up with him.

By the time Xiao Li realized something was wrong, the two were already together. Xiao Li accidentally discovered the chat history between the two of them on his mobile phone. Xiao Mei actually called that person "husband", which made Xiao Li furious. .

Faced with his wife's betrayal again and again, Xiao Li was so angry that he cried, but he still couldn't make up his mind to break up. He really loved Xiaomei, hopelessly.

Friends around him felt unworthy of Xiao Li and thought that such a flirtatious woman was not worth lingering on. However, Xiao Li gave her another chance again and again, but she did not want to repent and cheated on her repeatedly.

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Some people say that married life is like a person knowing whether his drinking water is warm or cold. Whether he lives happily or not is his own business. Everyone else is the audience, and he is the protagonist.

But there is one thing that cannot be wrong, that is: the person who loves more in a marriage is destined to have a hard time, just like the song goes: The person who loves me gives everything, but I do everything for the person I love. Tears, frantic heartbreak.

So there is such a soul torture. Should you choose a marriage partner that you love or someone who loves you? The answer is half and half.

Choosing the person you love is destined to be very difficult, because some love will not be responded to, and you will feel disappointed. Over time, your heart will feel tired and your feelings will fade.

It may be easier to choose someone who loves you to get married, but it is really a regret in life to not have that kind of soul-matching emotion.

Of course, with the passage of time, some feelings will become increasingly intense and sublimated through mutual support, but some feelings will become weaker and weaker in the face of time, and finally die.

Some people say that love is a game, and the person who loves more is destined to be the loser. In fact, I want to say that there is no winner in the world of love. Everyone is trapped in a network, but some people are more affectionate. , some people are more ruthless.

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Whether it is long-term love or ruthless love, they are all bound by emotions. It’s just that some people love each other more, choose to sink, and are unwilling to wake up, while some people love themselves more and will choose at any time. Pull out.

The most beautiful love is nothing more than: holding your hand and growing old together, choosing a city to grow old with, and one person to grow old with. Who doesn't want this kind of love?

In real life, how many people feel that they are happily married? Looking at the high divorce rate is the best illustration.

No one in the world of men and women can escape the word love. Everyone is acting out their own story in the emotional world of love and hate. Some people cry and some laugh. This is life.

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