Why are the problems you encounter always problems? Why do you always fail to solve a problem no matter how hard you try? There is a classic line in the movie "Everything for Her": Find the key point in everything, this is the core of your breakthrough. When a question arises whe

Why are the problems you encounter always problems? Why do you always fail to solve a problem no matter how hard you try? There is a classic line in the

movie " Everything for Her ": Find the key point in everything, this is the core of your breakthrough. When a question arises when something appears, there are always dozens of "hypothetical" answers, and these "hypothetical" answers are all based on the correlation with the matter.

is presented to people for observation through various reasons and angles, but the core of the facts will only choose one path, and will only take the core route at that time based on the location, time, people, and conditions. But only one core plays a key role. What you need is to find this core condition without being confused by dozens of "hypothetical" answers.

In fact, there is no right or wrong in things themselves. Things are presented truly and naturally according to the laws of nature. They are right and wrong summarized by human interference and selectively distinguished based on people's likes and dislikes.

Only by being able to touch the core key can you grasp the essence and not be confused by the appearance. If you only focus on peripheral assumptions, you will never be able to touch the core essence. If you don't think deeply enough, you can only stay in the false answers. What you need at this time is not the essence, but the ability to discover the essence. The essential thing will always exist, but generally few people can discover it. Most people do not have enough thinking ability and patience, so it is difficult to discover it. .

What you need is to know enough people and enough things to really increase your knowledge and gradually open your mind. At the same time, you need to spend a lot of time on repeated, boring and boring exercises until it becomes yours. You can only fully master it subconsciously, which is why most people think it is insignificant and are unwilling to spend time. However, if you master the ability to discover the essence, you can avoid at least 30 years of detours or even a lifetime. At this time, your core competency will be your personal A moat to resist the invasion of others, minimize losses and protect one's own interests.

By observing the experience of people and things, you will slowly discover that everything you encounter is constantly changing because people are in control. All things revolve around the core factor of "people", which directly or indirectly controls the operation of all things. In essence, there is only one relationship between people, and that is interest.

As long as there are interests, people no matter how estranged the relationship is can become brothers, but when interests are involved, even father and son will become estranged enemies. Why do many people cooperate with relatives to do business? No matter how good or reasonable you are, they will think that you may have selfish motives. This is the truest side of human nature. Is human nature based on kindness or evil? In fact, human nature is not "selfish". If you have enough chips, a gentleman can instantly become a devil.