If you want to be happy in a marriage, both parties must give, respond, and look at each other with respect and appreciation.
If you only complain that two people will get separated no matter how much they love each other, there are only relatives who can't break up, and there are no couples who can't break up.
Only by nourishing each other, warming each other, and communicating with each other can the relationship between husband and wife be stronger. And if your husband doesn't see your efforts, that would be really uncomfortable.
If you want your husband to say he loves you, first you must take the initiative to express your love to your husband. If you love your wife, you should not leave her alone in the dark, do not let her live in suspicion, and give her enough. She feels safe.
TV series "Come on!" Mom》 What I like most here is the love of kindergarten teacher Lu Chuan. His love is true and respects women. He felt compassion when he saw Zhou Nannan, a single mother, raising her child alone and having to face the hardships of life.
At first, he felt that Zhou Nannan was an irresponsible mother because she often came to pick up her children very late and could not take care of any of her children well. Later, he learned that it was really difficult for a woman to take care of a baby and work at the same time.
After Lu Chuan fell in love with Zhou Nannan, he helped her solve the problem of not having a house to live in and helped her take care of her son Xiaoyang. He will not hide his true feelings because Zhou Nannan is his parent; he will not steal Xiaoyang's father, nor will he use the image of himself as Xiaoyang's teacher to add points to himself; nor will he treat Zhou Nannan The ex-boyfriend comes back and uses scheming tactics. He can only give a woman a sense of security. He knows that if you love someone, you must show up when she needs it most and give her care.
Zhou Nannan asked Lu Chuan: "If you keep comparing yourself with Yang Shuo and give up on me and Xiaoyang for this reason, then I think you may not love me that much at all."
Lu Chuan chased after him: " Zhou Nannan, I love you more than anyone else!"
In fact, what women love is not a rich man, but someone who can give them a sense of security in marriage.
Because he loves her, he even loves her children and respects them.
One time when all the children in the class were laughing at Xiaoyang for not having a father, Xiaoyang insisted that he had a father, but his father was a superman and could become invisible. He could not come back to see him when he was on a mission. Xiaoyang said this, which was also the kindness of his mother. lie.
But a child’s mind is simple and simple, how can he know so much? In order to protect Xiaoyang's inner fantasy of his father, Lu Chuan folded a paper airplane and flew it into the class. The paper airplane also had the word "Superman" written on it. Let the children stop laughing at Xiaoyang, and tell them that we must help Xiaoyang keep the secret together.
I believe that when we reach middle age, we all move from past love to marriage. Qian Zhongshu is indeed right, marriage is like a tomb. People outside the wall want to come in, and people inside the wall want to come out.
《Come on! The lawyer couple Su Qing and Li Xiuping in "Mom" can be said to have experienced mutual appreciation, mutual efforts, and starting a business together. In middle age, they have their own law firm.
But what did a married man do? The eldest son is disobedient and has an extreme personality. He only blames his wife.
all have to work, but Su Qing not only has to be busy with work, but also attends children's parent-child activity meetings, parent-teacher meetings, helps children with homework, and deals with various children's problems. As for my husband, Li Xiuping, he just lay down when he got home and didn't care about anything. If something goes wrong with the child, I just advise my wife to be a full-time housewife and not to work.
Li Xiuping said to Su Qing: "You really should consider working full time!"
Su Qing: "Then why is it me who goes home? Why don't you think about it, you can go home and be a full-time dad?"
Li Shuhei still said confidently: "I have never participated in that parent group. Even if I put down all my work, I can't make any difference."
A father who has never participated in his children's school activities can say such a thing. It was very chilling, and in the end he cheated on his lawyer’s secretary.
The words of the mistress were also disgusting. She said that Su Qing only saw the case and the children, and they didn't even have a married life.
Let me ask you about that middle-aged woman. She has a career and children to take care of. A young girl is here to blame her first wife and want to take possession of the wealth and company that she spent her youth and endured all the hardships. It’s too simple to think!
Also "Come on!" The marriage between doctors Tian Siyang and He Xiaohan in "Mom" is also very breathtaking.
Her mother-in-law favored boys over girls, which caused her daughter Youyou to have gender cognitive disorder. Her mother-in-law also kept urging her daughter-in-law to have a second child and bought her folic acid.
As a doctor, Tian Siyang knew that folic acid was used to prepare for pregnancy. He also gave it to his wife and asked her to eat it. Her wife did not want to eat it, so he ate it himself. He asked his wife to lie about taking it and not to contradict his mother. While her mother-in-law often sneered at her, Tian Siyang just watched the football game with headphones.
In the end, He Xiaohan couldn't help but take her daughter out to live. When she was pregnant with her second child, she exploded and said: "Tian Siyang, I used to endure everything your mother said to me for Youyou and you, because I always There is a little hope that you can take responsibility and stand up for me, but what about the reality? You clearly know that I have been wronged, but you can remain silent. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this world is because of you. A husband who doesn't do anything. "
Marriage is not like falling in love. It only requires two people to be happy. After marriage, you have to face family, children and many other problems. At this time, the man's attitude is very important.
A good marriage must be my contribution. You can see that you cherish the traces that time has left on my face.
hopes that all husbands can see how much their wives have contributed to their families and not become the hands-off shopkeeper.
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