I was chatting with some married female friends two days ago, and a topic came up: No matter how much a man loves you, what are the things that cannot be compromised?
Everyone agrees that we cannot compromise on these three things: we cannot give up our work, we cannot give up our social circle, and we cannot give up our growth.
1. Can't give up work
Yunyun is a beautiful woman with outstanding appearance. When she was young, she had countless suitors. Later, she married a successful businessman.
After getting married, her husband doted on her very much and didn't want her to go out to show off, so she settled down and became a rich wife at home.
The sweet life between her and her husband only lasted a few years. After that, her husband began to dislike the old and found other women outside.
She was very angry at what her husband did, but she couldn't live without her husband. So many years of pampered life had made her lose the ability to make a living. In order to live, she had to swallow her anger.
She is currently working hard to return to the workplace, hoping that one day she will no longer have to rely on others and can choose a more dignified life based on her own abilities.
Maybe you can rely on others for a while, but you cannot rely on others for a lifetime.
Others cannot give you a reliable future, only you can.
Don't wait until there is nothing you can do to change the status quo before you regret it.
Everything needs to be prepared for a rainy day, so that when risks come, you can have the confidence to start over at any time.
2. Can’t give up the social circle
Xiao Min married a career-oriented husband. In order to fulfill her husband’s needs, she was willing to resign and go home to care for her husband and raise her children, and deal with daily necessities.
At first, she was very satisfied with this life, because her husband and children lived comfortably under her care.
But over time, she found that she was out of touch with this society.
Because she spent all her time and energy on her family, she completely gave up her social circle.
Faced with a single and boring life and her husband's booming career, she realized a great sense of crisis.
Now she not only manages her circle of friends again, but also starts an e-commerce business in partnership with her friends.
Although life is more tiring than before, she never tires of it. She finds her own value in the connections with people.
If a woman only has her husband in her life circle, it will undoubtedly be sad.
No matter how close the relationship is, you still need to keep your own personal space. This space has your own social circle.
3. Can't give up growing
When Xiao Zi was divorced five years ago, she was still a very ordinary girl. She was divorced because her husband felt that she had no sense of growth and could not keep up with his pace.
After being abandoned by her husband, Xiao Zi worked hard. After five years of hard work, Xiao Zi has established her own world in her career. She also did not fall behind in her studies and went to school to study for an MBA.
When her husband found out about Xiao Zi's changes, he actually wanted to get back together with her.
If a person does not grow up, he is like a frog in a well. He becomes disgusting, sees only trivial things, and lives a trivial life.
What a person can best grasp is actually growth. If you give up growth, it is equivalent to giving up a better future. As
grows, the process may be painful, but the results will definitely become sweeter and sweeter.
If you want a better life, you must not live without growth.
The destiny has always been in one's own hands.
No matter how much you meet a husband who loves you, never give up your job, your social circle, or your growth.
I hope all girls can have a better future.
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