Many single elderly men like to hire nannies to take care of themselves in their later years. There are many elderly people who are still in good health and fully capable of taking care of themselves. Why do they hire nannies? In fact, they have other purposes.

Many single elderly men like to hire nannies to take care of themselves in their later years. There are many elderly people who are still in good health and fully capable of taking care of themselves. Why do they hire nannies? In fact, they have other purposes.

Sister Li has been working as a nanny for eight years. She has met all kinds of employers, including paralyzed old people who cannot take care of themselves. Such employers offer relatively high wages and the work is relatively tiring, especially for larger employers, a woman. There is no way to take care of them, so many people hire male nannies to take care of them.

Sister Li is a senior nanny, and she also chooses employers when she works. She chooses employers who can take care of themselves and dress neatly, and most of these employers are men.

Sister Li said:

I have served three elderly people who are healthy, neatly dressed, and have high pensions. The main purpose of finding nannies for them is not to take care of their food and daily life, but for other purposes.

's first employer:

was from Brother Ang's family. He was a doctor. After he retired, he was bored at home alone, and he couldn't cook or do housework, so he decided to hire a nanny.

His requirements are very high. He must be under 50 years old, have three years of work experience, and have a high school diploma. However, the salary he paid was also high, 6,500 for a live-in nanny, which was enough for me.

In the first few days when I went there, Brother Wu was still observing me and did not show his true face. After a week, Brother Wu started to set rules for me.

The house must be kept spotless. I have to wash my hands several times before cooking. I also have to use hand sanitizer for about half a minute. I have to rub every place. What is the seven-step method of washing hands? I have to complete the seven steps. Each step must not be missed. If I missed a step, he would have to ask me to wash it again.

I wiped the cabinets at home until they were peeling, but he still thought they were dirty. Moreover, I had to disinfect the house once a week, and after disinfection, everything had to be taken out and washed.

He is not very particular about what he eats. He can eat any dish and is never picky about food. He is just too strict about hygiene, which makes me very busy.

He requires me to wash his quilt and pillows once a week. If there is no sun, he also asks me to dry him with a hair dryer. The most unbearable thing for me is that every time I work, he is watching over me. I felt uncomfortable all over.

After working for two months, I really couldn’t stand it any longer, so I resigned. I usually work for others for more than a year, and some work for two or three years. There are very few people who leave after working for one or two months.

’s second employer:

is a retired cadre. His pension is 8,000 a month. His son is still the boss of the company and gives him a lot of money every year. He has three houses in his name.

He is 68 years old, and he personally selected the nanny. Maybe I got along well with him, and he fell in love with me at first sight. He also gave me a salary of 6,500 a month, and my job was to take care of his food and daily life.

He is very particular about what he eats. Sometimes he wants Western-style steak, sometimes Japanese food, and sometimes sashimi. I can’t cook what he said, and I have never eaten it.

Most of the time I was the one doing the cooking, and he was doing it himself. Every time he asked me to eat with him. I don’t really like eating those things, but I’m a nanny, and there’s nothing to choose from. I just eat what’s available.

One day he held a candlelight dinner and asked me to have a drink with him. My drinking capacity was not bad, so we started drinking with him. Later, he got a little drunk, so I helped him go to bed to rest, but who knew he would He hugged me. I was so ashamed that I tried my best to break away from him, and then locked myself in the room. No matter how he shouted, the door would not open.

I didn’t expect that he, who is almost seventy years old, would still think about those things. As a woman in my forties, I have long since forgotten.

I submitted my resignation the next day, but he kept apologizing to me and asking me not to leave. He said that he was confused because he drank too much and that he had no wrongdoing towards me. I didn't believe it and insisted on resigning.

Later, he sent me clothes and jewelry to make me happy, but I refused, so he had no choice but to let me go.

The third employer:

is from Brother Li’s family. He is only five years older than me. He only has one daughter who married out of town. His wife divorced him when she was young. He lives alone and is very lonely. .

He said that I invited you here just to chat and talk with me. You don’t need to work. I can do it myself, but I can only give you 3,500 yuan in salary every month.

I thought the work would be easy and I could still do some part-time work, so I agreed. After I went to his house, he really didn’t want me to work. He was very diligent and did all the work himself. As long as I stayed with him, he would do all the work. I wash vegetables for him during meals, and he picks up vegetables for me during meals. Sometimes when I want to do some work, he just grabs it and does it himself. He is a restless person and very kind-hearted.

I also like him very much, but I don’t feel at ease because he only takes money and does nothing. Besides, he is a man and I am afraid that he will have other demands, so I don’t want to do it.

His daughter wanted to come back to see him, and he begged me to pretend to be his girlfriend. He said that he had been looking for another one, but there was nothing he liked. He fell in love the first time he saw me.

But I have a husband, how could I do such a thing? I was afraid that he would have some evil ideas, so I quickly resigned and left.

I only worked in these three men’s homes for two or three months, but in other people’s homes I worked long-term.

Therefore, those elderly men who hire nannies do not take care of themselves. Many have other ideas. Of course, some of them hire nannies to cook and wash clothes for themselves, but it is difficult to take care of them. The requirements are particularly high, and some have mysophobia.

wrote to the end:

No matter what the purpose of hiring a nanny is, as long as you have no evil intentions and are an upright and innocent person, others will not do anything to you.

For an upright person like Sister Wu, no one else can seduce her. No matter you use money, materials, or emotional cards, she remains unmoved and is devoted to her husband. Only such people can stay in the nanny industry for a long time.