-01-Life is unpredictable and the world is vast. There are always some feelings. At this moment, love is deep in the bones, and the next moment, it becomes "the labor and swallows fly to the west and the east". Just because people's hearts are fickle and love doesn't last long. P

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Life is unpredictable and the world is vast.

There is always some emotion. At this moment, love is deep in the bones, and at the next moment, it becomes "the labor and the swallow fly to the west and the east".

Just because people's hearts are fickle and love cannot last forever.

Maybe, at the moment, two people fall in love at first sight, but not long after they get together, they become tense; or maybe, at the moment, two people are unwilling to give in to each other, but the more they come into contact, the more they find that this person will make you fascinated, and then No other thoughts.

It can be seen that true love is never a momentary sentimentality, but settles down little by little in the firewood, rice, oil and salt; in the scraps of chickens and dogs, a little by little understanding of each other; after the prosperity comes to an end, little by little gratitude for meeting; in the warmth and warmth of human relationships, a little by little. Little by little, I discovered: It turns out that there is really someone in this world whom I can love with all my heart.

Therefore, men’s love often does not require you to guess, you can see it at a glance just by looking at the surface.

There is no reason for him to love you. He will be nervous about you and afraid that you will leave him. If he doesn't like you, even if he is "pretending", his eyes will show indifference and alienation.

Love is hard to predict, but sincerity can be seen.

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In history, there are too many undying love stories. They are like trees, taking root in two people. With their tenacious vitality, after thousands of years, they still make us sigh and move.

Just because their love always reflects what modern people lack when facing love: "persistence".

There are always men who love too impatiently, and there are always women who love too confusedly.

As the saying goes, when you are drunk, you know the wine is strong, and when you love, you know the knowledge.

Love may be elusive, especially some emotions. In the eyes of a woman, it seems that the more infatuated she is, the less loved she is by a man.

But, in the final analysis, there is only one kind of woman who makes a man fall in love with him and is obsessed with her, that is: someone who has given him an unforgettable feeling.

A woman who "is strong and independent and be herself"

Time flies, and time cannot be bullied.

In love, there will always be regrets, but a "strong and independent" woman, even if she is disappointed in love and complains about men, she will still "be herself" and manage her life seriously.

It is precisely because of her "tenacity" that men will be fascinated by her.

Perhaps her family background is very ordinary and there are not so many bright spots in her life. Or maybe her life is very ordinary and her personality is very peaceful, but you will find that whenever she encounters difficulties, she never flinches. Will actively think of ways to save a family from fire and water.

She will not bet her future on a man, nor will she want to build herself into a princess. Rather, is like an all-purpose robot cat. In the quiet days, gradually makes the person next to him obsessed with and dependent on it; and like "plain boiled water", it nourishes him lightly and makes him stay away from it all his life. not open.

She never wanted to change the person around her, but only used her words and deeds to influence him, and used her own thoughts to mobilize him.

Living with such a woman, a man will inadvertently become full of burning hope for life.

Too many married women will give up on themselves after marriage and indulge in life in bits and pieces, while a "strong and independent" A woman who "does herself" will always hold on to the light in her heart with elegance and self-control, make her life lively, and make her family feel "happy".

Such a woman makes men feel from the bottom of their hearts that they have no regrets in this life as long as they live with her.

A woman who “helps him and is assertive”

I don’t know when, but I will always hear voices like this around me: The one in my family only knows how to drink, play cards and games, and doesn’t care about the family at all.

Just because some women are not willing to get married and have children. From the bottom of their hearts, they do not like the husband around them. Therefore, in her words, they will convey a feeling of "unfortunate marriage, marrying the wrong person" a feeling of.

But marriage, sometimes, is also an investment.

If you invest in the right person and you find a good way to help him, you can also make a family more lively. If you can't catch up, complain and continue to live the same life, then most likely , you have been stereotyped for your whole life.

Those women who can live their lives in pursuit of perfection will have one trait in them, that is, they are independent-minded.

In other words, if a man has poor qualifications or always encounters setbacks in his career, she will help him seriously and sincerely, go through every difficulty with him, and hold up the umbrella above his head with him... However, if this man is just a puddle of mud, and no matter what she does, all he gives her is deception, greed and utilitarianism, then the woman will also have the backbone to choose not to let her life be so obsessed that it is buried in the dust. .

Therefore, once a woman has a "determination", most men will have emotions that are difficult to let go. Whenever they think of everything a woman has done for themselves, that unforgettable longing will rise spontaneously, making him The pain was excruciating.

Reminiscing about old feelings is actually the ultimate answer that time gives to a love.

How many men, even when they are old, recalling their past, what they miss the most will always be the woman who shared hardships with them, who always pushed them forward from behind, and always gave them courage and strength.

A woman who is "warm and gentle, like the spring breeze"

A woman's emotions are just like the tone of perfume.

A warm and genial woman will make a home exude a gentle tone "like the spring breeze blowing on the face" anytime and anywhere.

She will not dislike the poor and love the rich, and will not compare her man with others. She just wants to run her home well, and her soul is as clean as a pure land. She will make "home" like a safe haven, allowing men to stay away from home. When you come back after hard work, you will always feel warm and cozy.

After all, there will always be a nine-tenth chance that something will go wrong as one lives, and no one can wander in calmness all his life.

A warm and genial woman is like a sail held up when the wind and waves come. This kind of life-and-death dependence will make it difficult for men to leave her.

She will not yell at men, nor will she hysterically demand that men treat her as a queen. She just quietly gives men support and strength under her unfazed appearance.

Her softness and non-meanness will give men an indescribable "comfort" that makes getting along with her not tiring.

Whenever she encounters difficulties and troubles, her sunshine, optimism, and lack of confusion will always make men "clear the clouds and see the sun" and see the beautiful and positive side of the future.

Because of this, the interconnection of their souls and the attraction of their hearts will make a man keep her in his heart throughout his life and want to cherish her.

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Love, in fact, has right and wrong.

And the right person is the person who makes you live a life that is not depressed, lonely, or confused.

Those women who make men unforgettable and fall in love for a lifetime, most of them have the attributes that make each other happy. Even if there is love and hatred mixed in, it will make men grateful to meet her and they will be unforgettable for a lifetime.

A woman who "insists on being independent and being herself" will let him bathe in the sunshine, and even if his life is not as he wants, he will still find a halo of happiness;

A woman who "gives him help and is independent-minded" will make him deeply grateful. , Even if the current life is tired, he will find the power of life;

A woman who is "warm and gentle, like the spring breeze" will make his heart warm, and even if there are wounds in his heart at the moment, he will find the tenderness to heal.

In short, the woman a man "most wants to keep in his heart for the rest of his life" is a woman who can face reality at all times and live a transparent life. Such a woman can make him love unforgettable anytime and anywhere.

author, calm fox

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I hope you can find the deep affection in the ordinary years in my words! Thanks for attention!