, and how to choose
? It is definitely not possible to be born.
I don’t believe in the past life, nor the afterlife, so this life is not up to me to choose. Where I was born, who my parents were, whether I was poor or rich, ordinary or gifted, I had no choice.
When I was a child, I could only choose who I wanted to play with, and it didn’t mean much. The village was only that big, and the sky was just the sky of the village. Friends were also I can't choose those few, because I still need to be diligent in exchange for the opportunity to play with them.
With partners, desire is stronger than choice.
If you have made a choice in your consciousness and made the decision for yourself, then I think you have experienced this experience in middle school. Because, I chose to study and work hard. During the six years of studying hard in that cold window, I was addicted to reading. I also broadened the world through reading and made more friends.
gradually realized that hard work is optional and learning is your own decision.
These two choices continue to play a role in life and work. Apart from this, the only choice and decision-making I can remember is marriage. Regarding feelings, I don't make any calculations. Among all living beings, I only care about the feeling of my heartbeat and the feeling of my eyes. I also stick to this "voice" and choice.
Believe in destiny and be firm in identity
Later, I felt that I basically had no choice and autonomy. Responsible in life, accepting at work, tolerant among friends, understanding in society, doing good in muddy places, maintaining peace between dreams and reality, that's all. There is indeed a lack of blood and courage here, but I always think that being as plain as water tests a person more than being vigorous.
As plain as water
For example, tonight, I worked overtime until late at night, dragged my tired body back home, and thought to myself, do I still have a choice? Can I make my own decisions? Although I felt that this kind of overtime was too formal, and even though I was very resistant to this way of completing the target, I finally maintained my peace and continued to work overtime with my colleagues to promote various tasks step by step. Everyone has their own position and perspective, especially at work. It is your duty to complete tasks and you should work hard. Dissatisfaction may not help, and full of complaints will only lead to more depression. Everything has meaning if it exists. Choose to work hard first, and then choose to change.
There are lights in the night, and there is light in my heart.
There are many trucks late at night, rushing into the city.
is blocked all the way.
The world is so big, why can you control your luck? Hard work is the only choice you can grasp.
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