A letter from a reader said: When I was in school, I traveled to Lijiang. I was fascinated by the scenery of Lijiang. Then I came up with an idea: after graduating from college, I would rent a few houses in Lijiang and make a living by running an inn. In the end, the ideal came t

A letter from a reader said:

When I was in school, I traveled to Lijiang. I was fascinated by the scenery of Lijiang. Then I came up with an idea: after graduating from college, I would rent a few houses in Lijiang and make a living by running an inn. In the end, the ideal came true. During this period, I met all kinds of people.

A netizen and I met through online chat half a year ago. At that time, she did not inquire about anything about Lijiang from me. In my opinion, she did not come to travel, but wanted to know something about Lijiang through me. Otherwise, I can only become: the relationship between an innkeeper and a customer.

One day half a year later, she suddenly told me that she wanted to come see me. I readily agreed. After all, I have been out in society for two years and have yet to have a serious relationship. And I feel that if we have a good relationship after meeting, and she is willing to stay, and we get married, it will be the best thing.

After she came to Lijiang, I naturally wanted to take her to see the surrounding areas.

During the seven days she spent with me, we got along very happily. Of course, I also spent a lot of money.

How I felt at the time: Falling in love will eventually cost money.

What I didn't expect was that when she was about to leave, she told me the truth. She was just here for a trip. She hoped that we would not disturb each other again in the future.

Isn’t this just an emotional liar: cheating my time, cheating my money, staying in my inn for free.

However, besides admitting defeat, what else can we do?

People nowadays have so many tricks.

Muzi Li Emotional Analysis:

In this era, the Internet is something that many people will be involved in. Online dating has naturally become an important way for many people to choose a spouse. After all, everyone is very busy with work on weekdays, and they can come into contact with things in reality. The opposite sex is also very limited.

In this case, some people will show themselves through self-media, which will inadvertently attract bees and butterflies.

Many people do this for three reasons: 1) To promote themselves, maybe they will become Internet celebrities, so as to maximize their own interests; 2) Through self-expression, why not find your favorite marriage partner? To; 3) Promote one’s work.

I think it was in this state that you and the netizen met.

Maybe, the way she chats with you is different from the way other netizens chat with you, so you will think she is special, or that she is not utilitarian.

is just that, what you end up seeing is a scam.

The key is that during the seven days you spent together, she also sacrificed her body. Perhaps, her body is cheap in her eyes.

Don't talk about taking advantage of others. After you two met, after a short period of getting along, she felt that each other was not suitable, which led to the breakup.

At least, in some brief moments, she still has a crush on you.

Online dating is like this: the process of getting to know someone is very simple, but the chance of winning is very low.

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