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You can't hide that you like someone. Even if you don't say it, the details of your behavior will betray everything.
When a girl likes a man, her first reaction is to know if he has someone in his heart.
is too reserved to ask directly, and even more embarrassed to find out whether the other person likes him or not.
is just like a detective, looking for clues from the details of getting along with the man he likes.
Do you respond to messages in a timely manner when chatting? Is the other person’s expression full of information when you look for him? Does your daily life concern his heart...
Every time you explore a place, you feel happy and sad at the same time, always thinking that you are I have seen people's hearts clearly, but I can't tell whether I have really seen them clearly.
In fact, if a person has someone else in his heart, he usually behaves like this.
1. Always care about a person's daily life and whereabouts
The most direct manifestation of liking someone is that you want to pay attention to the other person's daily life and whereabouts, want to know what he is doing every day, and also want to know the person you like. Whoever you are with will determine whether you still have the chance to have the love you want.
is like Sun Shaoping in "The Ordinary World". He fell in love with Tian Xiaoxia . After confirming his feelings, he missed each other all the time. When
is not working, he will clean himself up and arrive at the date, patiently waiting for the girl he loves to arrive; when he is working, he will be full of motivation because he has expectations in his heart.
By chance, Sun Shaoping knew that there was a very good man showing favor to Tian Xiaoxia. He was sad for many days and thought about it every day, thinking that the two were already together, until he met Tian Xiaoxia again. , after clarifying their feelings for each other, they put their worried hearts back into their stomachs.
Caring about a person's daily whereabouts is the most basic expression of someone's heart, just like when two people are together, they must talk about three meals a day and pay attention to the vegetables, rice, oil and salt.
Wanting to know how the person you like is doing, and hoping to contribute more of your own strength to make the other person live a better life, is the original intention of falling in love with someone.
is like the male protagonist in " Xiaolou You Dongfeng " who loves the heroine meticulously. On the surface, he wants to eliminate the heroine from his life, but secretly he has been caring about her silently, sending rice, flour and oil for fear of her. I was wronged.
If love cannot be implemented into caring for a person's daily life, suspended love will not be reliable.
2. When you are sad, you will treat the other person as the first person to confide in.
When you like someone, you have already inadvertently regarded the other person as the biggest support in your heart. When you feel uncomfortable and want to cry, you will unconsciously want to find the other person. Talk, after you have poured out all the grievances and uneasiness in your heart, you will feel much better;
If you are unhappy at work or unsatisfactory in interpersonal relationships, you will speak out all your innermost feelings without reservation to the people you like.
When you like someone, you will remove all your defensiveness in front of the other person and regard the other person as the warmest harbor in your heart.
is like Tian Runye in "The Ordinary World". Her family has been urging her to get married. This kind of trouble has troubled Tian Runye and she cannot work with peace of mind. She wants to find an outlet for her emotions. The first thing that comes to mind is It is and Sun Shaoan that I have liked for a long time.
Even if the two of them do nothing together and just stay together quietly, it is a rare healing for Tian Runye.
When people feel fragile, they will always find a haven for themselves, where they can pour out the weakness in their hearts without any defense.
Regardless of men or women, they will show their weakness unscrupulously only in front of the person they like.
Just like Lin Rui in " Positive Youth ", she always plays the role of a strong woman in front of outsiders, so that everyone around her feels that her heart is very strong and indestructible.
And Lin Rui was also used to hiding his true self from outsiders. It wasn't until he met Xiaobei that Lin Rui dared to pour out the unhappiness caused by his native family and dump all his emotional garbage on the people he trusted.
3. Always keep this person’s name on your lips
If you like someone, you will remember them and incorporate them into your life.
When I am with the people around me, the topics mentioned are always related to the people I like. Familiar names are spoken in my mouth again and again, which is sweet in my heart.
A friend of mine is like this.
When I met her, I found that she looked very good, as if something happy had happened. When
was chatting, she keenly caught a very high-frequency name, which was a male colleague in her unit.
My friend repeatedly told me how the two met and what topics they had talked about. He also frequently praised the outstanding performance of the male colleague in the unit. Of course, he also did not forget to describe in detail how good the male colleague looked. The ground is to your liking.
Her friend's words had betrayed her heart a long time ago. Even though she denied her love for boys at the time, not long after, she heard the news that the two were together and their little life was very sweet.
Always talking about a person habitually is an obvious sign that someone is in his heart. The name that appears most frequently is where the heart belongs.
In fact, it is not difficult to find out what kind of behavior you will have when you like someone.
When you really like someone, all your resources will continue to be tilted towards the person you like.
If you want to know whether a person likes you, it doesn't matter if you are embarrassed to ask. As long as there are significant factors related to you in the other person's words and deeds, that is potential liking.
Today’s topic:
How do you think you will behave when you like someone?
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