text | Tao Xiaojing
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In every man's heart, there is a box full of desires. It seems to be just staying there quietly, but the desires inside are already turbulent.
When love has not come, men can still restrain their desires and fail to let them pop out.
Once he falls in love with a woman, these desires can no longer be suppressed. Even if a man has been trying to suppress it, his inner desires will pop out one by one, waiting for the woman to satisfy her.
If a woman cannot satisfy a man's desire, his love will sink little by little. When he couldn't bear it anymore, leaving became his last choice.
You finally got a man's love, but you missed it because you failed to satisfy him. Don't you feel regretful?
If you don’t want to lose a man who truly loves you, then you know that after confirming the relationship, a man will have three desires, and it will be better to satisfy his feelings.
longs for you to give him a certain amount of private space
Before a relationship is established, what a man longs for is for two people to be closely dependent on each other; after a relationship is established, what a man longs for is freedom.
Men actually can't stand two people spending time together every day. If you are too clingy to him, it will bore him.
Under the influence of this sense of boredom, it is easy for men to have the idea of leaving. Once a man has this idea, there will be problems in the relationship between the two.
If you want to make each other's relationship better, women should understand that one of the biggest desires of men is that you can give him a certain amount of private space.
A man needs private space to deal with his own affairs, and also needs private space to do the things he wants. Only if you satisfy his desire as much as possible, will he love you more.
Maybe a man has not clearly communicated his desire to you, but he has always been hoping that you can read his mind and satisfy his desire.
No matter how much you want to be with him, you should think more about him. Learn to satisfy his desire, and your relationship will be better.
I hope you can give him more understanding
Men need to understand. If a woman cannot give him the understanding he wants, no matter how good she is to him, it will be in vain.
For a man, understanding is like a glass of ice water in summer. It can not only sweep away the anger in his heart, but also make him calm down and see the beauty of life.
Men have a strong desire for understanding even when they are alone, let alone when two people get along.
A man doesn’t want to be questioned by women all the time, nor does he want a woman to always make trouble in front of him. Once a woman does this, he will leave out of boredom.
If you don't want to see this situation, then you need to know how to give men more understanding. Soothe a man's heart with understanding, and he will love you more deeply.
It is not difficult to satisfy a man's desire for understanding. You just need to consider the problem from his perspective and think for him more.
You have to know that no matter how much you pay for a man, it is not as valuable as an understanding. Only by satisfying a man's desire for understanding as much as possible can there be no problems in your relationship.
longs for you to accompany him when he needs it
Women are actually very willing to accompany men, but if a woman's company is not appropriate, then this company will only bring disturbance to the man, not warmth.
Companionship between men and women requires skills, and you can’t just accompany them if you want. If a man doesn't need your company, but you stay by his side all the time, it will make him upset.
Although a man also needs a woman's company, he does not want it all the time. A woman can only play the role of companionship by being by his side when he needs him.
When a man is in need, no matter what you are busy with, you cannot ignore him.
Even if you can't appear next to him right away, you should still use your mobile phone or the Internet to make him feel your presence.
If you ignore him because of other things or people, he will most likely give up the opportunity of companionship to other women. By the time you react, others have already taken advantage of you.
If you want to hold on to a man firmly, then you have to understand that men have a certain desire for companionship. Only by staying with him when he needs you can you preserve your relationship and get the happiness you deserve.
Xiaojing’s emotional message:
In the eyes of men, whether they are in love or getting married, they are all to satisfy their own desires.
If a relationship cannot satisfy him at all, then it is impossible for him to fall in love with it, let alone stick to it.
Men are all like this. Only when their desires are satisfied can they release their inner love without reservation.
If you want a man to love you to the core, then you must try your best to satisfy the man's inner desires after confirming the relationship.
You have to know that after a relationship is established, a man will have three inner desires. Even if he doesn't say it, you must find a way to satisfy him.
When a man gets what he wants from you, he will become more and more attached to you and his love for you will become deeper and deeper.
