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. Jealousy is a derogatory term. It is one of the seven deadly sins. It is no better than lust and greed.
A person who likes jealousy often means that he is narrow-minded. Therefore, we will choose to stay away from friends who have jealousy.
Of course, jealous people will not easily admit their villainy, nor will they put jealousy as a label on their faces. Their deliberate concealment will make it more difficult to distinguish.
Maybe the other person is smiling with you on the surface, but they are cursing you secretly. The dark side of human nature is never easily exposed to the sun.
However, according to psychology: a person's behavior is the projection of thinking. No matter how well you hide it, there will always be clues that can be analyzed and pursued.
People who are jealous of you often look like these 3 ways. The details will not lie to you.
1: What you have, she also wants
In the recently popular TV series "梦华录", Song Yinzhang made mistakes step by step on the road of life precisely because he was poisoned by jealousy.
When she learned that Zhao Pan'er was about to become the queen of beauty, she was controlled by jealousy and obsessed with running away with the fake businessman Zhou She, which eventually led to domestic violence and being deceived.
When she learned that Zhao Pan'er was about to marry Gu Qianfan and become the wife of a high-ranking official, she was blinded by jealousy. In a fit of anger, she took the initiative to find Shen Ruzhuo and devote herself to him. Unexpectedly, she fell into his trap. After Shen Ruzhuo disliked her, he sent her to please his boss. lead.
Song Yinzhang would often be deceived. The reason was all because of her jealousy of Zhao Paner. When she saw what Zhao Paner had, she wanted to have it too.
But she never thought that Zhao Paner relied on her own charm to attract fate, but she clung to her all the way. How could she really agree with him if he followed suit without considering the essence.
If she had not been jealous, her life might not have been so rough. Those who are jealous can often only attract people who are on the same wavelength as her, and are then forced to live a miserable life of ups and downs.
2: I often imitate you
Tingting is naturally beautiful and good at dressing up. She has many excellent suitors in her youth. While others were worrying about how to get out of singlehood, she was thinking about who to choose as her boyfriend.
Recently, she was reminded that there is a female friend who is not pursued by anyone. She often imitates her dress in the circle of friends, and even her photo poses are completely copied.
What makes people even more speechless is that the female friend imitated Tingting’s tone of voice and various catchphrases she said in front of other people, which is really disgusting.
From a psychological point of view, often imitating others is a sign of low self-esteem. Because she knows that she is not good enough, and because she wants to become better, when she meets someone who makes her envious, jealous, and hateful, imitation is the fastest way to reduce the distance.
It is human nature to pursue the life of your dreams. If you want to do something, there will be jealousy. Benign jealousy will lead to competition. With competition, there will be faster progress and improvement.
When faced with jealousy that won’t hurt you, you can be appropriately tolerant. But if the other person's jealousy has hurt you, then there is no need to be arrogant. Kindness must be sharp and protect your own interests tit for tat, so that the villain can be timid.
Three: Insinuations when talking to you
Xiaohua seems to be very popular no matter where he is. Whether it is a leader, someone of the same level, or someone lower than him, he can get along with him.
A colleague next to him was dismissive of his good popularity and always ridiculed Xiaohua with a gun and a stick. Xiaohua would be sad because of it at first.
But later Xiaohua discovered that the reason why his colleagues attacked him was that he was always alone. There is no one close to him, no one wants to interact with him, and seeing the excitement around Xiaohua, of course he will be unhappy.People like
often appear around us. They like to insinuate when they speak, carry guns and sticks, and always hurt others without any scruples.
When they are criticized, they usually use their straightforward temper to cover up their true thoughts, but in fact, adults are not that easy to fool.
In the face of other people's weak explanations, not exposing them does not mean that you cannot see through them. This is your cultivation and tolerance. You will kindly leave enough dignity for the other person, but unfortunately you are always hurt ruthlessly.
A good friendship can give you a boost in life, but if there are always villains who are jealous of you in your circle of friends, then your life will be more risky than others. They will bring you unexpected "surprises" and make you unhappy in various ways.
Therefore, you need to be careful when making friends. Never treat villains as confidants, and don’t easily forgive evil people who hurt you. The consequences of sincere wrongdoing are cruel betrayals!
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