The mutual love between two people is enviable, but more often than not, love cannot be achieved. It makes you miserable and you can’t stop. Do you want to persevere? If both parties are single, you can persist, but if one party is married, it is not suitable. A married woman sai

The happy relationship between two people makes people envious, but most of them are in love.

makes people miserable and can’t stop. Should I persist?

If both parties are single, you can persist, but if one party is married, it is not suitable.

A married woman said that her marriage is not happy, but now she has an unmarried man who is very nice to her, treats her well, is smart, and will consider her in every aspect.

would greet her when she was sick, make porridge for her, and always accompany her when she was in a bad mood. Compared with her husband at home, she was much better, so she was a little shaken.

I don’t want to miss such a good man.

There is no right or wrong in feelings.

You can't help but fall in love with someone. No matter who falls in love with whom first, there is nothing wrong with it emotionally. After all, everyone likes good people when they see them.

There is just no right or wrong in feelings, it does not mean that your character is good.

A man of good character should only be polite when he is in love.

likes to be uncontrollable, but his behavior can be controlled.

He knows that if you fall in love with a married woman, you should bury your feelings in your heart and know what can be done and what is out of bounds.

True love is restraint.

A good man must have principles

He loves you, but if you are married, he must know how not to embarrass you.

If his kindness to you is based on the pain of others, that is crossing the line. There is no bottom line and he only considers himself.

Do you think he loves you, but have you ever thought that if you really get divorced, will he definitely accept it?

If he doesn't accept it and you get divorced, where will your future go? Can you condemn him? Adults must be able to bear the consequences.

If he doesn't want to marry you, you can't go back to your old family. He can naturally turn around easily, but what you have to face may be your husband's suspicion or divorce.

The story of Jin Yuelin and Lin Huiyin is well known, but his love for Lin Huiyin was upright and open. After

learned that Lin Huiyin got married, he did not interfere in their love. Instead, he chose to bury his love in his heart, and then bought a yard next to Lin Huiyin's residence, and the two became neighbors.

was very rational about this relationship from beginning to end and did not want to cause trouble to Lin Huiyin.

We can't control who we fall in love with, but if it's a wrong love, it's someone we shouldn't love, and that violates the bottom line of morality. We should put the brakes on early to avoid causing greater harm to each other.

Sometimes letting go is true love.

A truly good man knows how to keep a distance from a married woman, instead of contacting her even though she knows she has a family.

I'm not your woman, so don't ask for help. I'm not your man, so don't be romantically involved. This is the basic bottom line of being a human being.

Andy Lau has a song "Secretly Obsessed" which tells the love story of a man who falls in love with a married woman.

is becoming increasingly obsessed with her, but he cannot express his love to her. He is worried that he will lose the chance to be friends if he opens his mouth, so he can only hide this love deep in his heart. The lyrics of

are like this. In fact, I am fascinated every time I see you. But you and I have different roles. Even if we exceed the relationship of friends in lonely dreams, I can only love you secretly and be fascinated by you secretly.

The sentence "You and I have different roles" is a good explanation of the need to know each other's boundaries when falling in love with a married woman.

It is better to love without knowing it than to hurt others in the name of love.

You think the other person loves you, but if you can have an unmeasured relationship with a married person, most of them don't have a strong enough sense of responsibility.

If you fall in love with a married woman, love to the extreme means restraint, and you can't bear to disturb or hurt her.

This is the attitude a gentleman should have towards a married woman. Even if he really likes her in his heart, he will not lose his sense of proportion.

He knows his own bottom line, restrains himself, observes etiquette, and maintains the proper distance.

Don't let this innocent feeling change beyond recognition, that is not love, it is selfishness.