If your husband treats you badly and we can't divorce, there are two ways to make him obedient. My husband and I have been married for 13 years. In the first two years, we quarreled every day and even fought together. I was almost beaten to death by him once. I really wanted to divorce at that time, but for the sake of the children, I couldn't get divorced. Then I thought, we have to live in this life, we can't keep arguing like this, and continuing to argue like this is not an option. I don't know where. I had to be beaten to death by him all of a sudden, and then I took the initiative to fundamentally solve our problems. How exactly is it done? The first step is to pretend to be deaf and dumb. For example, yesterday he just walked in and I told her to pick up a courier. At the moment, I just finished changing my clothes and didn’t want to go out. Then, I asked him to pick it up. After a while, the result was that he was furious and quite dissatisfied. He said, why didn't you tell me when you called me just now? I've been working all day, can you let me rest for a while? Why are you busy with so many things? I just went upstairs, and you asked me to go down to pick up the express. At this time, I just ignored him, because I knew, As long as he doesn't clearly say that he won't go, that means he has agreed, and I will do whatever I have to do. Wait a while, and he will go by himself. Or, after he has finished complaining, you can remind him to go. Get the courier back and just wait and see. He will go after a while, but he may mutter a few words when he goes, or open the door a little louder to express his dissatisfaction with you. It's okay, let's keep going. Calm down, by the time he arrives at the courier station, he will be dead long ago due to that unhappy thing. He will even call you sometimes and say that I am going to buy some food. What do you want to eat? , I bought it for you. Do you think it’s completely different from when you first went out? Actually, it doesn’t mean that you will go downstairs as soon as you receive the order. He won’t. He just doesn’t like to listen to orders. The second trick is to teach him to do things and make him feel distressed. For example, when I had the surgery, the wound was so painful that I couldn’t sleep. He acted like a normal person and did whatever he was supposed to do. Later, I Feeling that I was particularly wronged, I told him, I am hurting so much, can't you come over and take a look at me? He did come over, but they said that if I come over and take a look at you, you won’t feel any pain, right? Hearing this made him angry for a moment, but I thought about it carefully. Maybe he really shouldn't have done something. Next time I feel pain again, I will change my tone and talk to him. He said, I told him, if you rub my shoulders and legs, I can feel relieved. Then, he quickly came over to rub my shoulders and legs. He saw that I was in pain, and he felt that I was in pain. He grinned and asked me why the pain was so severe. I ignored him and started searching online for what I should do. At that time, the most popular content on his phone was how to help me relieve my pain. Every time I finish my work, he will ask me if I am feeling better. At that time, I should praise him, and then I will tell him that it is much better. My husband is lucky to have you. He may also say, It’s so difficult. I feel so bad when I see him. He understands you immediately. You see, most of the time the difficulty is not that you don’t want to do something, but that you don’t know what to do. You have to teach him, so In daily life, when you feel aggrieved, don't think about it as soon as it comes up, why is he doing this, why did I marry such a thing, I really don't want to have sex with him, and what I said before getting married is completely different. Everything you said before getting married is a lie. Don’t think so. It’s not that exaggerated. It’s just that when we were in love, he moved from his world to ours because he loved you. Now that we’re married, he’s You've returned to his world, and then he continues to treat you well in his own way. It's as simple as that. I use these two tricks very often.
