Zheng Banqiao has a famous saying: It is rare to be confused.
When people reach old age, they have experienced too many human feelings and sophistication, seen too many human feelings, and have a profound understanding of human nature and human feelings.
"The same rice feeds all kinds of people." Even brothers and sisters who grow up in the same family will grow into people with different personalities as time goes by.
It is said that brothers and sisters are like brothers, but no matter how close the blood relationship is, you still need to carefully maintain that emotion.
In a family with many brothers and sisters, learning to pretend to be confused while knowing better, and learning to "pretend" is conducive to family harmony and unity and friendship among sisters.
1. When dealing with money, learn to pretend to be poor and not show off your wealth
Among brothers and sisters, due to different growth, everyone's achievements will be different when they are old.
Especially after getting married and starting a family, the situation of each small family will also be very different.
Don't show off your income at family gatherings. Some people enjoy the envious looks and "looks up" to them when others show off.
Jealousy is human nature, even among brothers and sisters. It is an unavoidable emotion. Your success and high profile will unconsciously hurt the "poor" of other people, causing inexplicable emotions in people's hearts.
If your excessive display of wealth leads to your brothers and sisters often asking you to borrow money, do you want to meet their needs every time? Do you want to refuse? If you don’t refuse, your money was not returned on time after you lent it. Do you want to ask for it?
Learning to pretend to be poor does not mean that you are obviously rich but cry poor in front of your brothers and sisters. Because the family knows everything about you, there is no need to "pretend to be poor" excessively. Otherwise, your hypocrisy will make everyone look down on you.
"Pretending to be poor" does not mean crying about being poor. Pretending to be poor will make you more popular.
2. When dealing with housework, learn to pretend to be confused, and don't care.
"It's harder to be smart than to be confused, and it's even harder to be confused." Learn to pretend to be confused when dealing with household chores in a large family.
Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. When there are conflicts between brothers and sisters, parents will also be in a difficult position. Every child in the "Ten Fingers Connected Heart" family is the cherished child of the parents. When it comes to housework, they should "pretend to be confused" appropriately. "Not caring will make the family more harmonious.
When it comes to housework, they pretend to be "confused" appropriately and do not care about the gains and losses. It doesn't matter if they give up some of the interests between brothers and sisters.
The ancients once said: "Brothers are jealous of each other within the wall, and they keep their affairs in check outside." If there is excessive competition between brothers and sisters, they are easily bullied by outsiders.
Only when the family is harmonious can everything prosper. Therefore, when encountering matters of interest within the family, learn to pretend to be confused and let the world be brighter.
3. Treat your parents, learn to be filial, and don't compare with others.
When people get old, their parents, if they are still alive, are already elderly, and they are probably inseparable from the care of their children.
At this time, how to provide for parents in old age has become a family's primary issue. At this time, you can sit down calmly and discuss the most appropriate solution together.
There is an old saying: One mother can raise ten children, but it is difficult for ten children to support one mother.
When it comes to supporting your parents, you must learn to be filial and don't compare. Brothers and sisters have different family conditions and physical conditions, so there must be a reasonable division of labor when it comes to providing for their parents.
As children, we should not judge whether we will suffer or take advantage when it comes to old age care. After all, our parents did not show favoritism when they raised us when we were young.
If there are conflicts about the support of parents, don't compare with each other. If you have money, you can contribute. "Parents still have a place to come in life. When parents are no longer in life, there is only a way back."
4. When dealing with difficulties, learn to be generous and not stingy.
People's life cannot always be smooth, and they will always encounter various ups and downs and hardships.
When brothers and sisters encounter difficulties, learn to "pretend to be generous" and not be stingy.
When brothers and sisters are sick and need help, if financial conditions do not allow, they can help out: staying with them to take care of them, or helping with meals and groceries. The warmth of providing help in times of need will make the relationship deeper.
In the workplace, when you encounter suitable opportunities, you should appropriately promote your brothers and sisters, let them become your support, and move forward together to achieve a win-win situation.
When brothers and sisters encounter happy events such as buying a house or having children start a family, they should have the appropriate gifts and red envelopes. Don't be stingy and add joy to the family, so that the family will be more prosperous.
Of course, brothers and sisters who receive help must also remember: it is rude to come and not reciprocate. You cannot simply accept help and gifts from others.
A drop of water is repaid by a spring. Don't take it for granted as a family after accepting help from brothers and sisters. After all, after brothers and sisters start their own families and start businesses, there are other family members who need recognition and feedback.
When brothers and sisters encounter difficulties, learn to be generous and try your best to help your family, and you will feel free of guilt. Everyone will lend a helping hand when others encounter difficulties, and mutual help and love between the family will become a If you create a good atmosphere, your relationship will get better and better.
Everything will be prosperous if the family is in harmony. Unity and friendship between brothers and sisters is the best feng shui for a family.
The original family is the root of each of us. When brothers and sisters grow up and start a family, they will slowly break away from this root, but everyone is still like a kite, with an invisible thread connected to this root. connect.
If everyone just wants to draw nutrients from the family and does not know how to fertilize and water, no matter how abundant the roots are, they will wither one day.
As long as brothers and sisters develop a good family tradition of caring for each other, the trivial things in life will be solved and the family relationship will become closer and closer.
As long as brothers and sisters learn to give in and not care about money and interests, petty profits will not become the fuse that destroys relationships.
When people grow old and learn to pretend to be confused while still understanding, everything will be safe and smooth.
The relationship between brothers and sisters is about learning to pretend, which is a great wisdom, a big pattern, and the best Feng Shui for a prosperous family.
Of course, brothers and sisters who receive help must also remember: it is rude to come and not reciprocate. You cannot simply accept help and gifts from others.
A drop of water is repaid by a spring. Don't take it for granted as a family after accepting help from brothers and sisters. After all, after brothers and sisters start their own families and start businesses, there are other family members who need recognition and feedback.
When brothers and sisters encounter difficulties, learn to be generous and try your best to help your family, and you will feel free of guilt. Everyone will lend a helping hand when others encounter difficulties, and mutual help and love between the family will become a If you create a good atmosphere, your relationship will get better and better.
Everything will be prosperous if the family is in harmony. Unity and friendship between brothers and sisters is the best feng shui for a family.
The original family is the root of each of us. When brothers and sisters grow up and start a family, they will slowly break away from this root, but everyone is still like a kite, with an invisible thread connected to this root. connect.
If everyone just wants to draw nutrients from the family and does not know how to fertilize and water, no matter how abundant the roots are, they will wither one day.
As long as brothers and sisters develop a good family tradition of caring for each other, the trivial things in life will be solved and the family relationship will become closer and closer.
As long as brothers and sisters learn to give in and not care about money and interests, petty profits will not become the fuse that destroys relationships.
When people grow old and learn to pretend to be confused while still understanding, everything will be safe and smooth.
The relationship between brothers and sisters is about learning to pretend, which is a great wisdom, a big pattern, and the best Feng Shui for a prosperous family.
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