All parents hope to become a towering tree to protect their children from wind and rain. However, when we reach the age of sixty, it becomes difficult for us to help our children.

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All parents hope to become towering trees to protect their children from wind and rain.

However, when we reach the age of sixty, it seems that we are unable to help our children.

There is a saying: "If you are not a descendant of the rich, you must be the ancestor of the rich."

The above sentence reminds us that when we cannot help our children financially and physically, we can encourage them spiritually. Children. The old man became the ancestor of the rich man, and his merits were considered complete.

The ancients left a saying: "If you want your children and grandchildren to be rich, put three things in your home."

By changing the layout and decoration of the family, it can refresh people's spirits and thus play a motivating role. As an elderly person, you need to understand the truth and do it.

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First, "scenery", longing for beauty.

The further a person walks, the more tired he will be. And I often miss the scenery of my hometown.

There is a saying that the place where the parents are is the real home; the hometown where the parents are not there is really no return.

As parents, we should have a lot of scenery at home and let our children remember it. Because of the scenery of their hometown, the children will not be lonely when they go out. Once they are tired, they can return home and enjoy the treatment of a "harbor".

Mr. Lu Xun returned to his hometown after more than 20 years away from home. He wrote the story about him and his playmate Runtu , and vaguely remembered a watermelon field, a naughty 猹, a bright moon; the withered grass on the corrugated corrugations, the neighbor's tofu Xishi...

It can be seen that a person's heart , with the scenery of my hometown, life will be beautiful. The moment I recall the scenery, I was pleasantly surprised.

How should the elderly create scenery?

I try my best to make some local specialties so that my children can have a taste and feel the taste of my hometown. If your children don't have time to come back, you can send them by mail. When children eat food sent from their hometown, they can taste the difficulties of their parents and feel their parents' love.

often takes care of the old house and keeps it clean and tidy. You can also plant flowers at the door and vegetables behind the house. If possible, you can have a small fish pond and a small yard. Every time when the children come home, they can smell the fragrance. Take a photo and the children can chat for a long time.

Building an orchard can not only bring income, but also enjoy a life of hard work. If the children do not have a good time outside and return to their hometown, they can regard the orchard as the starting point of their lives and embark on the road to wealth. Of course, other industries can also be left based on local characteristics.

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Second, "reading" to increase wisdom.

read a job search story.

A person who goes out to work has been doing accounting work. Because of the downturn in his company, he had to leave his job and find another job.

After much consideration, he applied for a job in a large company. When I arrived at the site, I realized that there were dozens of people applying, and they were all people with rich experience in business.

After the written test, 19 people are left to participate in the interview.

No one knows the time of the interview. While he was waiting impatiently, someone gave him 100 yuan to buy ear wire.

He refused without hesitation because it was a counterfeit note.

The other party said: "Congratulations to you for passing the first interview."

Later, the examiner asked him: "What are the patterns on the RMB? What changes have it experienced?"

Every day, we spend time Money, so I couldn’t be more familiar with the RMB. However, very few people have studied what the pattern looks like.

Fortunately, his parents forced him to develop the habit of "carefulness and seriousness" since he was a child, and he knew the appearance of money by heart . Therefore, he said fluently: "One yuan, behind it is the West Lake of Hangzhou; five yuan is the scenery of Mount Tai..."

Without any suspense, he was hired.

As the saying goes: "The fragrance is far away and smells close."

We often ignore things that are very close, just like the eyes cannot see clearly the nose and mouth.

As parents, we need to stand from the perspective of "others", often making insinuations, so that our children can "gain knowledge" - understand themselves, understand society, and persist in learning.

Many families, when their children and grandchildren were young, would place some books and clean the bookcases frequently. However, when their children and grandchildren finish college, they are completely disconnected from "reading", and the bookcases also collect dust.

Smart parents always have "reading books" at home. At any time, I will encourage my children and grandchildren to study, and I will actively pass on my life experience to my children and grandchildren.

If learning never ends, your family will excel.

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Third, "living creatures" bring vitality.

If you observe carefully, you will find that some families are full of vitality, while others are dull.

The fundamental issue is whether there are "living things" in the family.

In the countryside, if you have a dog, a few chickens, and a group of ducks at home, it becomes like a farm. Listening to the crow of the cock and seeing the dog wagging its tail, I was very happy.

In the city, the flowers and plants on the balcony show the vitality of the family. There are also people who keep pet dogs, small fish, etc. at home. As a family, we gathered around the puppy and had more topics to talk about. The adorable look of a puppy can also change the atmosphere of the family.

Of course, placing a Lucky Cat at home and shaking your arm can remind people of the meaning of "getting rich"; having more lively toys can bring happiness to children.

In addition, the elderly should liven up their thoughts, not be stubborn, and not look at problems from the perspective of the past. Change for the better with the times, advocate morality, respect rules, and accumulate virtue and blessings for our children and grandchildren.

In short, find ways to make the family more active and the family will be more harmonious.

If the old man is at home, he always sighs and has no hobbies except three meals a day. When the children look at it, they will become worried. As time went by, the children no longer wanted to come to the house.

asked him how he could understand this? Come for living water from a source. When people get old, they should be energetic themselves and bring vitality to their children and grandchildren, so that their lives will be prosperous.

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While creating things, we must also clean up "waste" regularly.

In old age, when people have enough time, they clean up their homes and throw away the messy things. For example, some stale garbage; never-used clothes; broken electronic products; dry flowers and plants; nagging nonsense, etc.

Family is a ship, and family members are sailors. Everyone must work hard to ride the wind and waves.

Home is the gas station on the journey of life, and the old man is the gas station attendant.

Author: Commoner.

Pay attention to my words and enter your heart.

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